Between couples, after being together, the contradictions gradually emerge, and there will be some quarrels and disputes, in this process, the woman's patience is exhausted little by little, and finally proposes to break up. In this case, how can we win back a woman's heart?
1. Learn to empathize and meet the inner needs of the other party
In a romantic relationship, the relationship between the two is fair. Not only do you not meet her requirements, but you don't blame her for not investing in these relationships. Regulate your own psychological state, stop taking yourself as the center of management, learn to understand each other, and care about the experience of the other party when there is a disagreement. Tolerate in language, give him more time in daily life, as long as you really consider her heart's requirements, she will fall in love with you again.
2. Learn to freeze and give yourself time to change
As mentioned earlier, she has a negative psychology towards you, so if you don't take the initiative to appear in front of the other party for a period of time, don't take the initiative to contact the other party, and don't take the initiative to increase the conflict, it is equivalent to freezing your contradictions. As emotional expert Ye Yao said: "Freezing is a very important part of secondary attraction, which has the effect of reducing contradictions and reducing pressure in recovery." "If you know your own problems, you have to correct them, otherwise how can the other party believe that you have corrected them? And boys should make good use of this time, correct their shortcomings, improve themselves, and a better you can better attract him.
Third, men still have to know how to fall in love, otherwise they will always be cannon fodder for love.
I know a lot of male compatriots, in fact, people are very real, that is, they stumble in the world of love, many of them are raising girlfriends for others, there is no love thinking at all, and they don't know how to really conquer the hearts of girls, until the girls are completely broken, many male compatriots are still confused and don't know why, whether it is chasing girlfriends, or love redemption, it is a technical job, there are a lot of underlying logic and psychological needs, you close your eyes and fall in love, you don't suffer who suffers.
How to get it back when you are about to break up
1. When you are about to break up, then you must calm down at this time and never keep pestering each other. Redemption does not depend on entanglement, but on the other party's ability to see your mind clearly. Only when two people are truly opposite, and only when you think about the problem together, can you make redemption easier.
2. Learn to give the other party some time, as soon as they hear the news of the breakup, many people begin to choose constantly, always bothering each other, such interruptions will make the other party feel very disgusted. Let the other person think about it, and let yourself think about it, and see where the emotional problems that arise between you are.
Precautions for breaking up
1. When you hear the news of the breakup, it is difficult for anyone to accept it for a while, so you can also turn around and leave at this time, give yourself some time to digest, and let your emotions not explode. When you get home, think about why the other party is breaking up, whether the other party has changed their minds or the other party feels that they don't love him enough.
2. You will only find out whether the other party wants to break up or fake a breakup, when you can't see a person's mind clearly, you will find that every word the other party says is difficult for you to accept. Listen to the other person's heart. Let you communicate better with each other, so that the breakup can have room to return.
How to get it back when you are about to break up
1. First of all, it is necessary to freeze the relationship and stop the loss in time
When your relationship is at an impasse, her negative feelings towards you can be said to have reached the highest value, and if you come back to entanglement at this time, there is only one ending, that is, the other party's hysteria and explode on the spot.
So the right way to deal with it should be to freeze the relationship in time, accept the fact that you have broken up, reduce the pressure on the other person, and ease the relationship between you. If it is not suitable for practice for the time being, she has to fade out of her sight and be disconnected. Because at this time, no matter what you do or say, it is not convincing at all, and she thinks that you are lying to her when she admits her mistakes, and pestering will only consume her last bit of patience.
2. Recognize the relationship and reduce demand
Many boys think that girls propose to break up, but I didn't agree, then we are still lovers, you have to answer my call, and you are not allowed to get too close to other members of the opposite sex. But when a girl breaks up with you, she is not asking for your opinion, but informing you, so no matter what you think, you have no relationship anymore, you have no right to restrain her, and she has no obligation to cooperate with you anymore.
So the most important thing at the moment is to re-recognize the relationship between you, if you want to redeem it, you have to have a sense of boundaries, reduce your emotional needs for her, your current limit is ordinary friends, don't exceed this boundary, when you are no longer entangled, no longer aggressive, girls will re-recognize you, and their attitude will improve.
