Learn to deal with the importance of interpersonal relationships, everyone will be reminded by parents to deal with the relationship with colleagues when they just come out of the society, a good relationship is very beneficial to their future development, let me take you to briefly understand the importance of learning to deal with interpersonal relationships.
A person's success, 15% depends on his professional knowledge, 85% depends on his social skills, only if he has mastered the skills of interacting with people, he will have a good popularity, on the road to success, he can be left and right, like a fish in water, so interpersonal communication is an important part of life.
Interpersonal skills are the ability to live in harmony with others in a group or within a group. People are social beings, and where there are people, there are interpersonal interactions.
Modern society is already a world of information, and if you have a large amount of information, the higher your value will be. And where does the amount of information come from? It depends on how wide your circle of friends is, when our circle of friends grows, we will naturally understand a lot of information, and the number of people we know will increase. How to grow the circle of friends, this requires us to slowly accumulate in our daily life and work. This is where relationships become very important. When we have a very wide network, we can grasp information that others don't know, and then your value will be very high. Therefore, interpersonal relationships are a necessary "bridge" for our rich experience.
Confucius once said: "If you learn alone and have no friends, you will be lonely and unheard", interpersonal communication can help us improve our understanding of ourselves and others, so that we can have a more complete understanding of others and a deeper understanding of ourselves, so that we can get the sympathy, care and help of others, and achieve self-improvement. And interpersonal communication is a kind of interaction between people, a bond to coordinate a collective relationship and form a collective force, and a need for collective growth and social development.
The core part of interpersonal communication is cooperation and communication. To cultivate communication skills, we must first have a positive attitude, understand others, care about others, take the initiative to interact with others in daily communication activities, do not passively avoid, dare to contact, especially dare to face people who are different from ourselves, and also be not afraid of origin, appearance, experience, do not close yourself because of coming from remote areas, bad looks or experience is not as good as others, and secondly, we must start small, pay attention to social etiquette, and accumulate a lot; Again, we should be good at doing, be bold, eliminate fear, strengthen the accumulation of knowledge in communication, experience in actual communication life, and grasp various methods and skills in interpersonal communication. In addition, it is necessary to realize that in the interaction with others, it is sincerity that moves people, making friends with sincerity, doing things with sincerity, sincerity can be exchanged for cooperation and communication with others, and sincerity is always one of the most precious feelings of human beings.
The importance of interpersonal relationships
1. Friends are an intangible wealth, so we must have a good interpersonal relationship with friends. Some people's success lies not only in their ability, but more importantly, in their sociability.
2. Interpersonal relationships make it easier for you to succeed in starting a business, and they will push you on the way to start a business, so that you can develop faster and succeed faster.
3. They will lend you a helping hand when you are in trouble, and will show you the way when you are overwhelmed.
4. Learning to deal with interpersonal relationships, being good at making friends, and being good at grasping interpersonal relationships is an ability. Master this ability, and you will not be afraid to go anywhere.
The importance of building good relationships. In real life, almost all of us want to have a good relationship because good relationships help us in our lives and careers. Let me take you through the importance of building good relationships.
First, good interpersonal relationships enable people to work together and work together to accomplish specific tasks.
The development of modern science and technology has not only created fast and convenient conditions for exchanges, but also put forward higher requirements for the way of exchanges. Nowadays, many social work tasks are increasingly impossible to be accomplished by a single person, but by the cooperation of many people. The tackling of key problems in each scientific research project is also inseparable from the cooperation of many scientists, strengthening ties and joint research.
Second, good interpersonal relationships facilitate the exchange and sharing of information between people.
In modern society, the amount of knowledge is surging, and there is an "explosion of information", and it is impossible to obtain information as soon as possible without establishing a harmonious interpersonal relationship for communication. It has been said that 80% of information in modern society is obtained through communication. And in modern society, having information is equivalent to increasing the weight of success.
Third, people can draw strength and confidence from friendly and collaborative relationships.
In the creation of life performance, it is handy. On the contrary, if people tear each other down, restrain each other, and suppress their enthusiasm, they will not be able to give full play to their talents, consume their will, and waste time, then they will not be able to talk about the creation of life performance at all.
Secondly, good interpersonal relationships are necessary for people's physical and mental health.
If a person is in a close and harmonious interpersonal relationship of mutual care and love, he must be in a good mood and beneficial to his health. Good interpersonal relationships can keep people relaxed and optimistic. Poor interpersonal relationships can interfere with people's emotions and cause anxiety, anxiety and depression. Serious bad relationships can also cause fright, pain, hatred, or anger. Modern medical research has shown that bad mood is actually the biggest devastation to physical and mental health.
It is reported that a recent study by American scientists found that 20 percent of Americans are seriously threatened to their health because they are accustomed to getting angry. Therefore, people's physical and mental health requires good interpersonal relationships. As the saying goes, the way of health lies in "harmony", and this "harmony" refers to the harmony within the body, as well as the harmony with nature and society, and also refers to the harmony of people, that is, interpersonal relationships. The state of good interpersonal relationships is conducive to the physical and mental health of people.
Finally, good interpersonal relationships are necessary for happiness in life
Happiness in life is built on the basis of material life and spiritual life. Happiness in life inevitably includes the content of material life, and the happiness of creating a material life in life will be affected by interpersonal relationships. Good interpersonal relations are conducive to creating an optimized environment that enables people to give full play to their creativity in the process of material production, and people's enthusiasm and creativity can increase the production of material wealth and enrich people's material life; Good interpersonal relationships also make the material communication channels between people unimpeded, and people can communicate with each other, mutual benefit, and may get more material happiness.
Happiness in life also necessarily requires the satisfaction of spiritual life. The state of spiritual life, such as ideology and morality, ideals and sentiments, and psychological conditions, are closely related to interpersonal relationships. People need to have an exchange of thoughts and feelings.
In a like-minded and positive interpersonal relationship group, a harmonious and healthy interpersonal relationship forms an objective environment of harmony, trust, fraternity, unity, understanding and mutual care, in which the exchange of thoughts and feelings between people can enable people to draw strength and courage from it, so that people can get timely help from others when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, and achieve mutual understanding through exchanges; It can make people in a comfortable, happy and unrestrained mental state, and it is easy to form an optimistic, confident and positive attitude towards life, and people's spiritual sentiments and mental environment can be purified, and the ideological realm can be sublimated; On the contrary, bad interpersonal relationships lead to suspicion, apathy, and jealousy, resulting in a state of confusion, bitterness, loneliness, malaise, and anguish.
