Men change their minds about the practices of smart women, usually as follows:
1. Don't make a big deal out of it
When she learns of the fact that she has been betrayed, she should remain calm and calm at the first time, and do not easily publicize the man's change of heart, let alone complain in front of relatives and friends, because this method has no effect except to relieve the anger of the moment. A woman who knows how to save face for a man has the fact that a man has changed his mind, in fact, he has the dominance of this relationship, and a man will naturally try his best to meet your requirements in order to maintain his image. If the matter is made big because of a momentary anger, the woman will not take advantage of the fact that the man chooses to break the jar and break it.
2. Safeguard personal interests
Now that there is a crack in the relationship, and the man's heart is no longer in him, it would be too stupid to still hope that the relationship can be reconciled. A wise woman knows how to fight for something truly meaningful for herself at this critical time, and keep everything that is beneficial to herself. Quietly collect evidence, increase your own negotiation capital, and when the time comes, you can demand compensation from the other party, leaving everything and asking the other party to leave the house. Since you don't get a lot of love, it's a smart person to keep a lot of money and minimize the damage and loss.
3. Love yourself more
No matter when a woman has to learn to love herself, if you don't even care about yourself anymore and live a messy life every day, how can the other party remember the old love? In the face of emotional betrayal, heart-rending roars and stalker redemption are meaningless. Since love can't come back, live only for yourself from now on, retain the ability to love, start a new life, you must live wonderfully, live beautifully, and let the man who chose to abandon you regret it.
4. Adjust your mentality
A woman's innate sensuality and soft-heartedness may sometimes make you lose your mind because of love, and you will only wash your face with tears when you are undecided, but this is the most useless and vulnerable method. Don't ask the man who has changed his mind whether he still loves you, but change his attitude towards him, focus on himself in everything, think more about his feelings, even if he does not have the company and care of the other party, he can still be undisturbed, constantly improve his charm, achieve a gorgeous counterattack, and feel a better life. A smart woman doesn't take a man who changes his mind for a thing!
In fact, whether in love or marriage, all vows seem vulnerable, although we swear to love each other forever, but who knows how far away forever is? Let's talk about what a smart woman will do in the face of a man's change of heart.
Stop losses in time
Seeing the man's true face and turning away without looking back. Many girls who have suffered grievances and pain in their relationships actually have one thing in common, that is, they know that the other party is not a good person, but they are still stupidly unwilling to let go, trying to exchange their infatuation for the other party's lost way. But some people don't deserve to be forgiven at all, some mistakes are made the first time, there are second and countless times, don't think you can change a person.
Change yourself and transform perfectly
Men are animals who like novelty, so when you spend a long time together, he will naturally lose interest in you, so smart women will make themselves more attractive if they want to keep men. Regardless of whether you can successfully win back the other person's heart, there is nothing wrong with becoming excellent, even without him, more people will be attracted to your charm.
Cut off the past, no longer contact
The human heart is the most unpredictable thing in the world, so we should never try to speculate on a person's heart, but we can at least control our heart. So when men change their minds, smart women will understand that continuing to entangle will only make everyone more embarrassed, and they will be able to let go now if they can afford it, so they will choose to say goodbye to the past, never interact with each other from now on, and do some necessary additions and subtractions for their lives.
For a woman, perhaps the most feared thing is that the man she loves changes his mind, but some things don't happen because he is afraid, so we must prepare for the worst. After reading the above, have you learned?
Men are visual animals, but in addition, they want their own women can be gentle and kind to understand themselves, men change their minds and fall in love with others, so in the process of recovering their husband's heart, they can fully grasp the nature of men, manage their own appearance, brand image, enrich their own meaning, and produce a second attraction to him.
1. Don't take boys too seriously
Many women get married and revolve around men's homes and become good wives too much. At this moment, the boy is working with high morale, and the pink confidante outside is more attractive than his wife. The most frustrating thing is that some women care too much about boys, and they make at least one phone call every day to track them, turning their husbands' smartphones into grenades. Therefore, the hoarseness caused by the woman who takes the boy too seriously and wants to manipulate the boy too much will bring great work pressure to others and make him flee to another emotional circle, which is often a compensatory personal behavior of men. So, how should a woman deal with her husband's affair and other reunions in such a situation?
2. Be casual for him, and at the same time set boundaries
Feel free for him, in short, you have to learn to lie to yourself. You say to yourself that he comes home late because he is busy at work, that he has been "sexual" for a long time because he is tired at work, that his communication is mostly a sign of rising and rising, and that he is often overwhelmed by you is a very characteristic expression of deep affection??。 And Zhou Xuan is tired between his wife and lover, but his emotions are becoming more and more complicated. He is more and more unable to understand why you can be so calm, why you have not been able to deal with the marriage change, and why you still believe in him as firmly and stubbornly as you did when you were in love. Also, why are you suddenly more and more alone and more graceful, and you can't give it up at will. Therefore, you will still be the victor in the end, because your silent energy, the energy of static braking, far surpasses arguments, tortures, and even bedside traps.
Dealing with a husband who has an extramarital affair, a smart wife has a relevance, that is, taking into account the overall situation and being stable. Feel free for him, and at the same time set boundaries, like a kite, flying higher and higher, the line still in his hand. Even if he knows how to go home, why bother to keep going? He came to me, and he has been thinking about this family in his heart and the years you have walked together, so don't worry about it, even if you can't erase the past, at least open a new page.
3. Learn to be cold and violent
For women, if you want to completely reconcile your husband, you have to learn to be cold and violent to emotions, men change their minds and fall in love with others, on the one hand, you can sort out the emotions between two people, formulate a better rescue plan, on the other hand, you can also make your husband try to recover his irrational mentality of wanting to divorce in this link.
