A wife who is not noisy or noisy is the most terrible, and the initiative is in her hands.
What men are most afraid of is marrying a woman who likes to be endlessly noisy, but often wives who are not noisy are the most terrible, because they are usually very smart, so the initiative is in their hands. There is also a type of woman who is noisy at first, but slowly falls silent.
After a few years of marriage, two couples cool down from chatter mode to silent mode, go home and play with their mobile phones, and start to "communicate" with mobile phones, and mobile phones become the third party of marriage. There are doubts and dissatisfaction with the partner, and the choice to use silence to hasty things, this refusal to communicate is negative, and the dispute is an alternative "expression" compared to the dispute.
Someone said: "The most terrible thing in a relationship is not quarreling, but not struggling, not speaking, not crying or making trouble." ”
The reason why men and women quarrel is often because they still care about each other in their hearts, and if a person really dies, he has no strength and there is no need to quarrel anymore. All the cracks in the relationship are not caused by an instant, but accumulate over time, breaking little by little, and when the heart is broken, it can no longer be pieced together, and when the heart is broken, there is no strength to cry anymore.
The noisy quarrel between two people sometimes does not weaken the relationship, but will also warm up the relationship and make each other know how to cherish each other. What feelings are most afraid of is falling into silence, if you don't say anything, I won't say anything, and you won't care about anything.
When a person is really grieving, he cannot shed tears, because he is so painful that he loses consciousness; When a person is really disappointed, he will not cry, because crying does not ignite hope. When a person loses hope, everything becomes calm. If a woman doesn't cry or make trouble, maybe it's not that she doesn't love anymore, but that she has too many wounds in her heart and doesn't want to be hurt again.
For men, they have the ability to make women cry, and they should also have the ability to make women happy, don't wait until women are really dead and desperate to regret it. Whether it is in love or marriage, men should take responsibility for their own actions, consider the consequences of everything, and stop hurting others and torturing themselves.
Most women love to laugh, with affection in their eyes and a smile with their mouths upturned to look at everything in the world. A woman's heart is beautiful and brilliant. When a woman meets a man, if the man treats her well, she will always remain the same as before. If a man chills a woman, she will become silent and heartless.
Someone once asked, what is the opposite of love, is it hate? The answer is no, the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. Many men have complained that the woman they love has begun to become a troublemaker, and it has begun to give him a headache, especially when he is just about to take a break, the woman will notice it and make a move. This kind of method of crying, making trouble and hanging yourself can indeed make people collapse, but it also proves that this woman still loves you. If you find that one day the woman you love suddenly becomes silent, then she must no longer love you. The real chilling of a woman's heart is not to cry loudly, but to become silent and heartless.
1. All the troubles come from a lack of security.
If a woman never does anything with you and never messes with you, then it can only mean that there are two situations, one is that this woman doesn't love you at all, doesn't care about you, so you can't stir up any waves in her at all, and the other is that you are really perfect for her, really full of love, and never have ever made her feel insecure. But in fact, the latter is not something that all men can do. Most men can't love a woman very much, so it is easy for a woman to lack a sense of security, so she will often make trouble.
Second, the real departure is silent.
Maybe many men have a headache and can't understand why their women always talk about breaking up when they are angry. In fact, to put it bluntly, this is also a manifestation of a woman's insecurity and inability to feel loved. When a woman always talks about breaking up, it means that she actually longs for your redemption in her heart, and she doesn't really want to break up with you. But many men don't understand this idea of a woman. When a woman really wants to leave you, she won't make such a big fuss, she will just leave suddenly and quietly.
3. When a woman becomes silent and heartless, the love is dead.
There is no greater mourning than death. When a woman cries with you and makes trouble with you, you may think that she is childish and annoying, but when she wipes away her tears, she can still play with you and laugh with you as before. Loving someone can't just accept her good side, her negative side must also be accepted, this is the whole her. But if a woman becomes silent and heartless, then the relationship between you is already facing death, and there is no room for redemption.
Feelings are like this, full of all kinds of unexpected variables and all kinds of misunderstandings. Once the other party doesn't understand your heart, once you feel that you have been left out, once you start to be disappointed, the relationship will begin to decline. When the final disappointment is really enough, there is no need to say more, the person who loves you will not continue to love you, she will only quietly and unknowingly about you, and walk away from your life as if nothing happened.
Have you ever seen what it looks like for a woman to be truly heartless? It is said that how ruthless we are when we break up, how affectionate we are when we are together, because infatuation is always wrongly paid, so we can only pretend to be ruthless and ruthless, for fear that others will see our fragility and sadness. Even if there is too much reluctance, we must be strong.
How much I loved at the beginning, how much I hate now, women are ruthless, and men can't compare.
After being hurt again and again, a woman's heart is cold, and she becomes suspicious, heartless, and even no longer trusts men.
Disappointment accumulates little by little, and once a woman decides to leave and no longer love this man, she is more ruthless than anyone else, because she doesn't want to leave room for herself.
Mourning is greater than heart death, a woman's true desperation is not to turn away, but to do so.
1. Silence is her greatest weapon
When a woman is heartbroken in love, accumulates too many disappointments, no longer expects from you, she no longer argues with you, she can do whatever you want, she will be silent to you and don't care about everything about you. No matter what you do or say, she just agrees with it and doesn't pay attention at all.
It is said that the real departure is quiet, only when pretending to leave will there be a lot of fanfare, just want you to keep her, if she is really going to leave you, you can rest assured that she will not even greet you, she will silently pack up everything and leave your side quietly. Gently I came, gently I went again, and when I left, I didn't take a single leaf with me.
Men must understand that a woman's true desperation is silence, and when she doesn't cry or make trouble, then your relationship will come to an end.
In fact, before this, you may have had countless quarrels, you still insist on not caring about her feelings, she is disappointed in you again and again, even desperate, she can't see the future of the two of you, and she can't see what you are willing to change for her.
So she doesn't expect anything from you after being disappointed again and again, forcing herself to let go, you have to know how reluctant she is at the moment when she decides to let go.
2. No longer care about everything about you
When a woman no longer loves you, no longer cares about everything about you, you tell her about you, she no longer cares, she is no longer curious, that is also the time to lose her.
The woman who loved you in the past, was willing to take you to heart, put you first in everything, and considered you everywhere is now treating you like air, and you should ask yourself how much you have neglected her over the years. How determined is a woman who can hold back her concern for the person she loves, and force herself to leave you and not care about you!
You may not imagine that in countless late nights, her tears wet the pillow towel several times, thinking about what you did her heart gradually cooled, and finally after many injuries, her heart that loves you died, and the deer in her heart was also covered with bruises.
So she began to try to leave you, and before she left you, she had to learn to get used to the days without you, to quit the habit of loving you, and to learn not to care about everything about you.
When she gradually becomes indifferent to you, she is not interested in everything about you, and she doesn't care what you do, then you must have hurt her deeply enough before this, and if you don't find a way to keep her, she may leave you at any time.
3. Learn to be good to yourself and invest in yourself
A woman is realizing that the feelings she has always cherished are no longer what they used to be, and the person who once said that she would love her for the rest of her life has changed her mind, and if she figured it out, she would also make a change. Because she knew that it was better to rely on others than on herself, and this man would leave her at any time, so she began to learn to love herself and learn to invest in herself.
When you find that your woman starts to stop paying attention to you, she starts going out early and coming home late every day, she starts learning new skills, she starts socializing, she wears makeup, she works ...... Make yourself better and better, then as a man, you have to be careful, either she has a change of heart, there is someone she likes outside, or you notice that you don't love her so much, she has a sense of security, and she regains her sense of security through these.
It's a good thing that a person starts to get better, but abnormal behavior still needs to be paid attention to, the woman you marry back home may not always belong to you, once you don't love her anymore, don't cherish her anymore, she also has the right to choose to leave you.
When a woman is hurt in a relationship, she will become ruthless, but you must know that the culprit who has made her what she is now is you, if a man is willing to give his woman enough security and is willing to hold his woman in the palm of his hand to pamper, then his woman will become more and more lovely.
But now many people think that everything will be fine if they marry a woman home, and they ignore their wives more and more after marriage...... No matter how important it is, your lover also needs your company.
A wife is not a nanny, not a maid you hired to clean, do laundry, cook and take care of the baby for you, she is your wife and your lover, and she needs you to spend time with and love.
There is no love for no reason, there is no hatred for no reason, the cold heart is not a momentary thing, don't force your woman to be ruthless to you. Marriage needs to be managed, I hope you can understand this truth.
