The four major tragedies of Chinese women are mother-style mate selection, nanny-style wife, widowed parenting, and widowhood marriage.
1. Be a mother-style mate
When a mother's mate selection refers to a woman finding a man like a son to marry, she needs to worry about everything about this man from all aspects of life, which will make the woman very tired.
2. Nanny-style wife
A nanny wife refers to a woman who undertakes all the housework in the family and maintains the life of the family from all aspects, which will make the woman physically and mentally exhausted.
3. Widowed parenting
Widowed parenting refers to a woman who takes care of her children in her life alone, and the woman is responsible for both the child's growth and education, and the husband is absent.
4. Widowhood marriage
Widowhood marriage refers to a woman who does not receive the care and care of her husband in her life, and often faces the indifference of her husband, but has to live such a life for the sake of her children.
What a woman can do after the four tragedies:
1. As a woman, you should choose a mature man before you get married, and you must ask this man to be able to deal with all the problems in life and family reasonably, so as not to make yourself very tired.
2. If a woman is a nanny-style wife, in this case, she must arrange her husband reasonably and help her share the housework, so that she can make herself easier. For example, when a woman is cooking, she should ask her husband to help wash the vegetables, and when a woman is tidying up the house, she can ask his husband to help her.
When a woman can reasonably put forward her own requirements in life, she will be able to make herself more relaxed, and she will not have to take on all the housework alone, which will make the woman happy.
3. In the case of widowed parenting, not only will the woman feel very tired, but also very detrimental to the child's growth, which will not only make the child lack of affection, but also make the child's growth more difficult. In the face of this situation, a woman must let her husband take responsibility, and she must force her husband to be responsible for the children with her, which is conducive to the growth of her own children.
4. If a woman has fallen into a widowhood marriage, she should let her husband care about herself again from the emotional and life aspects, which can be conducive to the happiness of her marriage.
