Three people in the office and two people have a good relationship, and it can feel like you're a little excluded and isolated, which can make you feel anxious and uneasy. However, that doesn't mean you can't change that.
First of all, you can reflect on whether you are not doing well enough, such as whether you are not enthusiastic and proactive, whether you are not taking the initiative to communicate with them, whether you are not showing enough interest, etc. If you find something lacking, you can take the initiative to show them hello, such as greeting them, chatting with them, sharing something interesting, etc.
Second, you can try to find topics and interests that you share with them, making it easier to connect and communicate with them.
Finally, if you think you've done your best, but you still can't fit into their circle, don't worry too much about it, because everyone's personality and way of doing things is different. You can try to find other colleagues or friends to build closer connections, or focus on work and personal development to make yourself better and more valuable.
There is no such thing as an absolutely equal relationship in the world. Relationships other than two people, no matter how many people are together, the relationship between them is far and near, and it will not be absolutely equal, not only for friends, but also for brothers.
In a situation like yours above, the three of you should behave or behave as usual. You should neither be jealous of the relationship between the two of them, nor do you break down the relationship between the two of them, let alone destroy the relationship between the two of them, but at the same time you should be closer to them and be kind to both of them, so that you will be considered by both of them that you are very generous, and you are a broad-minded person. When you know that the two of them are very close, you will still be close to them, not to alienate them, they will be grateful to you, and at the same time, they will feel guilty about you.
It is indeed difficult to equalize the friendship of three people, and there will always be two people who will have a particularly good relationship, causing the third person to feel excluded. It's not your problem, don't feel bad, it's a problem that many people will encounter, and too many people won't deal with such problems.
The friendship between people is inherently close and intimate, and it is also human nature, so it is good to deal with it indifferently.
However, everyone always has a misunderstanding, they always feel that the friendship of three people is unconditional, and it seems that they will naturally be together. Big mistake, the premise of a friendship between the three is that everyone has common hobbies and the same concerns.
As for how to do it, just let it be.
They play with theirs, you play with yours, everyone is good friends, but they are best friends, and you are just friends.
If you look at the form, you won't do unnecessary things anymore.
Since they are not your best friends, then go find your best friends, make friends, and enrich your life.
It's better to relax, it's fate to come and go. I'm happy when you come to play with me, but if you're going to go and play with someone else, I won't stop you.
So my advice to you is, don't think so much, don't think so much, and play together. The more intimate they are, the more intimate they are, and they have little to do with you.
You don't have to be unbalanced, the two of them play well, it naturally makes sense, it may be a personality problem, or it may be a different preference, no matter what, we can only accept it.
After accepting, while maintaining friendship with them, go to find your best friend, cultivate your own fairy friendship, and explore your own happiness!
You may be a passerby in their lives, but you are the protagonist of your own life, don't put the cart before the horse and lose your own time......
