The method of love management is to maintain common progress and learn to be independent, not to rely on each other, respect each other, respect each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, control yourself, tolerate each other, self-review, learn to apologize, learn to communicate, etc.
1. Maintain common progress
First of all, the relationship between two people should be maintained for a long time, and they must progress together, if two people do not progress together, then the one who makes the fastest progress will get rid of the one who is standing still, because one person is moving forward, and the other person is not moving, and the gap between the two will be bigger and bigger, and the distance will be farther and farther.
2. Learn to be independent and not too dependent on each other
Don't rely too much on each other in your relationship, even if you love each other again, you must not rely on each other too much, don't treat him as the whole of your relationship, or even lose yourself. In real life, many stay-at-home mothers and housewives are too dependent on each other. If you can't do anything without each other, no matter when, you must let yourself live a wonderful life, live a personality, and let yourself learn to be independent.
3. Respect and respect each other
If two people want to live happily for a lifetime, then on the road to love, they must learn to respect each other; Everyone has their own self-esteem and loves face, so be sure to respect each other. Respect each other anytime and anywhere, the other party will hand over their sincerity, will return the same thing, love can last for a long time, and the road between two people will go further.
4. Mutual understanding and mutual tolerance
Everyone has their own personality and ideas, and everyone has a different perspective on things and events. Even people who love each other very much can't think the same way. We must understand and tolerate each other. If two people don't understand and tolerate each other, then there will be endless quarrels and more and more contradictions. Only by understanding each other and communicating more, love will be sweeter.
5. Control yourself and tolerate each other
Two people who love each other have different personalities and different growth experiences, so many things and opinions will be inconsistent, which is a very normal and natural phenomenon; Therefore, when a conflict occurs, you must control your emotions, don't quarrel or make trouble because of small things, this has no meaning, but will hurt feelings and harmony. Therefore, only by forbearance and reasonable communication with each other can we maintain the freshness of love.
6. Self-review, learn to apologize, and learn to communicate
On the road of love, no one is a saint, and there will always be times when mistakes are made, and there will always be mistakes; So at this time, we must learn to self-examine; When two people are together, sometimes, when they are angry, they may do something to hurt each other.
Therefore, we must know how to review what we have not done well enough, and what we have not done enough; Then go to your lover's side, apologize to your lover, and admit your mistake to your lover; A person who knows his mistakes and can change them is a good person, and he will make his lover even more lovely.
How to manage love with heart
1. Speak well when you have something, without personal emotions
In a relationship, it's really important to talk well, but we don't seem to realize it. Whenever something happens, the first reaction is to blame or deny the other person regardless of it. We tend to put ourselves in the shoes of the victims, complicating and embarrassing the situation with accountability and venting. We should give trust and loyalty, and communicate openly and honestly. We try to keep our emotions calm when we communicate, and tell the truth in fact, adding fuel to the fire will only make things worse.
2. Maintain a sense of sharing and ritual
We must know that the desire to share is the highest level of romance, and it is also an indispensable lubricant for maintaining intimate relationships. The sense of ritual also plays a role in promoting affection and intimacy between couples. Life is already dull, and the days are repeated and dull every day. But if there is a sense of ritual, trivial life will instantly become fresh and interesting. Living with someone you like is something you need to take seriously every day.
3. Reserve a certain amount of private space for each person
Before we fall in love, we are all independent individuals, appropriately leave a sense of space for each other, and maintain an independent life; Not only can it add a little mystery and curiosity, but it can also give each other better growth and make a relationship healthier.
4. Progress and grow with each other
Co-frequency is really important to me. The best state is: two people always stay on the same level and channel, progress and grow with each other, and work towards the same goal. He can be very good and good, and you can proudly say that you don't cover it. Only people with similar channels and the same pace can go to the mountains and seas together.
How to manage love well
1. Share your childhood
In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.
When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.
It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.
2. Make rules for love
Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.
Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.
A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.
3. Share hobbies
Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.
Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.
Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.
So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.
4. Talk about each other's view of love
The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.
The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.
If the other party is a person who particularly likes the cold war and likes cold violence, then we will inevitably have to pay more in this relationship.
