There are several reasons why men love women with backbone. First of all, backbone shows a woman's independent and determined character, making men feel respected and appreciated. Secondly, women with backbone usually pursue self-growth and career development, they have their own goals and passions, and are able to pursue a better life with men. In addition, a woman with backbone has self-confidence and courage to cope with difficulties and challenges, and this inner strength also makes men feel at ease and dependent. Finally, backbone embodies the values and principles of women, who are able to stand their ground and not be easily swayed by others. This firmness and authenticity attract men and make them willing to enter into a deep emotional and mutually supportive relationship with such a woman.
Men like women who are hard in their bones, every man is a man, but the aesthetics are different, so they will like different types of women, but there is a kind of woman who will win the hearts of men even if she is hard in her bones.
What kind of women do men like?
There are countless answers to this question, because every man is a man, but every man's aesthetic is different, some like gentleness, some like liveliness, some like maturity, and some like immaturity. However, there is one kind of woman who is most likely to win the hearts of men, and that is a woman with arrogance in her bones.
Women who are proud in their bones must be mentally independent, because pride does not allow them to live on men. The more independent and strong a woman is, the more she will arouse the pity of men, and the more worthy of awe and admiration.
Independent women have a temperament that ordinary people can't compare, women have a sense of arrogance in their bones, they don't have to rely on anyone in their world, and they don't need others to do anything for themselves, everything can be done by themselves. Although this kind of person seems difficult to approach, but after you are really familiar with it, you will find her charm, and men are easily attracted to this kind of woman.
In fact, there is arrogance in the bones, and a woman who never takes the initiative to ask for it is more likely to be loved by men, although it is the best to spoil a woman, but this kind of woman is at most favored by men, but not respected by men.
Some women, when facing men, always want to get something from men, she does not sincerely want to get along with men, but with her own purpose, she always wants to get something from men. A man is not stupid, he understands right from wrong, and he can also judge which of the people around him are sincere and which are hypocritical.
Women who are proud in their bones and can be self-reliant are men's favorites who will not only like but appreciate them. Therefore, women have the ability to be independent and can live their own lives with their own abilities, which will be admired by men. Such an independent and arrogant woman, in the eyes of men, is born with light, attracting men to love and give.
Women who are tough in their bones, many times we will find that weak women are easy to be bullied, weak women are unhappy in life, and there are some women who are hard in their bones, but they live a very chic life and are not bound by others.
A woman with hard spirit and backbone, she has her own assertiveness and analytical ability, so no one can shake her in the direction and choice she decides, because she has been the result of careful consideration, after serious thinking, and there is no choice made by righteous anger. Standing on her own side, she made the most ideal choice. So once she matures, no one can change her, because she has grown, mainly in the following aspects.
(1) When she is in turmoil, she will reflect on herself and analyze the truth in adversity, so as to find herself
When she walked into marriage in a naïve and ignorant state, with a fantasy about the beginning of a good married life, she has been unreservedly when her husband is taken care of by the family, naively thinking that she is a family, in fact, when he has the upper hand, he will deny all your efforts if he changes his mind, and he has the final say on everything, and there is no room for you to speak.
Also, when she doesn't obey his family's requests, she turns her face faster than she turns the book, which has a lot to do with his values. It's not that she's not good enough, it's that others ask too much and can't feed the person who can't feed him, and it is natural to do more for his family. When she was tired and no one was hurting, she saw that when she entered marriage, she had to look at the morality of her family, so that she would not end up blindly paying, or she would not be recognized.
(2) When a woman who is tough in her bones is faced with a choice, she will measure and analyze, and there are two ways to choose to find the most suitable direction for herself.
Maintain harmony in the marital relationship. Exit or submiss? Anyway, she chose the wrong man, his family is too domineering, and if he doesn't obey his family, he keeps picking right and wrong, if her husband also has his heart set on his family, she would rather choose to quit and go in the direction she thinks is right, rather than humble maintenance. If you have true love, you can endure the bullying of others for love, but your husband is not towards you, that is, he does not spoil you, and would rather choose to withdraw from the relationship. Moreover, after you get along, you find that he is not so good and does not pamper himself, so the direction of withdrawing from the marriage relationship is very correct. Don't listen to what others say, how to be comfortable and how to choose? A hard-nosed woman is assertive, has no regrets about her own choices, and will not live under the eyelids of others.
(3) A woman with bones and hard temperament will not regret her choice, because she made a choice after weighing it from her own position
There is no backer, she herself is a backer. She believes in her perseverance. I also believe that when I grow up, I will understand human nature better, manage everything about myself, get hurt less, no longer obsessed with truth and falsehood, no longer be more true or unreasonable, the reality is that there is no fairness, so I no longer insist on fairness, do my best, and firmly believe that everything she wants will be on the road in the future.
