Of course, I personally think that even friends and girlfriends should be divided more clearly in the face of monetary interests, so let's put it this way, the money within ten to twenty can be seen as you invite him to eat a delicious meal and give a small gift, but once the amount is too high, this is not just a matter of emotion. After all, the accumulation of bits and pieces will make it easier to make people feel unbalanced, and if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you should focus on solving the little things in life.
Of course, I've heard different ideas too. He thinks that as long as friends talk about borrowing money, as long as you plan to lend it to him, then you have to be prepared to think that the money will be wasted, otherwise your relationship will not last long.
I think it should be clear, and it's best to go out and play AA system.
Because now everyone is still a student, has not started to earn money, now most or all of the sources of funds come from parents, they have no ability to make money, so going out with friends to play and eat are their own living expenses, if you go out with friends not AA system, all are their own money or friends pay money, once or twice is fine, the other party will have opinions in their hearts more times, although they are good friends, but about money still have to be clearly distinguished.
Brothers settle accounts, and good friends should be like this, not whose money falls from the sky, nor how much land we want if we don't play, every money we use is earned by our parents' hard work, and it should be cherished. Maybe some people love face and feel embarrassed to mention money to friends, or yes
Vanity is bigger, and I always rush to pay for it, but please think about your own parents. Don't use your parents' hard work to satisfy your vanity.
Every time I go out with my girlfriends, everyone is AA system, for example, how much money did we spend on going out to eat together today, how much did it cost to watch a movie, how much did it cost, all of them were paid by one person in advance, and when I went back to the dormitory at night, she calculated how much she spent in the group and then everyone transferred money to her. There is no embarrassment or any drop at all, everyone is relatively unified in this regard, and they all think that the AA system is the best. Sometimes whoever goes out to play invites dinner, and next time another person invites him.
In short, it is to calculate the money as clearly as possible, and good friends don't have to worry about mentioning money and hurting feelings, etc., everyone can understand that they have the same idea about this aspect. Of course, it is not excluded that some people have the ability to make money, and they think that it doesn't matter once or twice, they are the kind of people who ask you today and I invite tomorrow, everyone has a certain financial ability, so it can be like this. The best thing for our students is the AA system.
In different identities and different age groups, the practice and ideas are different, some people think that it should be clear, and some people think that it doesn't matter, no matter what kind of way is the best way to do what you can.
