In fact, when many men are deceived by women, they don't know at first, because men are generally very arrogant, and they don't realize that they have been deceived by their feelings for some small actions of women, but they also feel that women are dead set on themselves, and they don't know that they have been deceived when they have a showdown or show their stuffing, and at this time, they may have been cheated of money and feelings. The following is to give you the performance of women cheating on feelings and money, and I hope that men will not be the ones who are deceived.
1. Do not refuse or agree
Some women do not refuse or agree to the pursuit of men, this is actually a manifestation of women who treat you as a spare tire, they do not refuse or pay attention to your enthusiasm, and always enjoy everything you give and give with peace of mind, but they will not determine the relationship with you or go further with you. When she meets a more suitable man, she will choose to give up on you and choose someone else.
2. Don't take the initiative to send you messages for a long time
In fact, although a woman is very passive in the relationship, if the woman has real feelings for you, then if you have not contacted her for a long time, she will definitely be curious about how you are and will care about whether something has happened to you. And if a woman's mind is no longer on you, and you haven't contacted her for a long time, she will also not take the initiative to message you for a long time. Therefore, if men are always in a weak relationship situation, then we don't need to panic, let alone panic, let go of the past and you will make more progress.
3. The investment in you is almost zero
If you are pursuing a woman, then you will definitely invest a lot of time, energy and even money in women, but if a woman only accepts your good and invests almost 0 in you, it means that she has no intention of going with you for a long time.
Fourth, do not make any promises
In Sternberg's three-element theory of love, friendship, commitment, and passion are the three indispensable elements that make up love, and if there is no commitment, the relationship will not be long-lasting. In fact, sometimes boys think that women cheat on their feelings, and it is also because they have not done a good job in many places.
Fifth, the eyes
If a woman really loves you, then her eyes should be firm and affectionate, rather than full of all kinds of erratic expressions. Otherwise, she may be cheating on your feelings and being false with you.
In reality, women often encounter some scumbags who cheat their feelings, in fact, men are not like this, sometimes they are deceived by women, they are played with their feelings, and they only realize it after being dumped and regret it. What are the characteristics of a woman cheating on feelings and money? If you want to know whether a woman is serious with you or just having fun, it depends on whether she has the following performances.
1. I care more about your money than I care about you
Some women don't love each other at all, but they still stay with each other. This is because the other party has something that attracts her, which may be money, maybe a connection, or something else. When a woman always asks for you excessively, and rarely takes the initiative to pay for you, and she seems to care more about whether you have money than she loves you, this kind of woman is also playing with your feelings.
2. Never care if you love her or not
Whether a woman loves you or not, whether being with you is deceiving your feelings, in fact, men should be able to detect it as long as they pay a little attention. A woman who doesn't love you will never care if you love her or not, and she will probably be insensitive when she sees that you are close to other women, and she will not be jealous.
3. There are many ambiguous people of the opposite sex around you
If she's just having fun with you and doesn't plan to get serious about dating, then you're probably not the only one around her. In addition to you, she probably has many friends of the opposite sex who have ambiguous relationships, and there may be countless people of the opposite sex in her mobile phone contacts, and the relationship is unclear, but she doesn't let you know.
4. Unwilling to have an intimate relationship with you
Approaching a man has another purpose, and a woman who is not really in love with this man will not make senseless sacrifices in this relationship. She will be very reluctant to have intimate relationships with you on weekdays, because most women will only feel disgusted and resistant when they have that kind of relationship with a man who has no feelings.
Whether a woman really likes you or not, a man may not be able to make an accurate judgment at first, but after spending time with her, he should be able to know. Because if a woman doesn't love you at all, she is only cheating on your feelings when she is with you, and you can't feel it. The five characteristics of a woman's deception of feelings are obvious, and they are listed below.
1. Hide your relationship
A woman cheats on her feelings to be with you, she will not be willing to open up about your relationship, and her friends around her may not even know that she has a boyfriend. She hides your relationship from the outside world, doesn't introduce you to friends, and the circle of friends is still in a quiet single state.
2. Hot and cold to you
Her attitude towards you is sometimes good and bad, hot and cold, and it is also a manifestation of cheating on your feelings. If a woman doesn't really love you, it's hard for her attitude towards you to be consistent. She may pretend when she is happy, ignore you when she is in a bad mood, or vent her emotions on you.
3. Treat you as a spare tire
The woman who cheats on feelings is not alone with you, she has other ambiguous objects besides you, for her, you may be just one of the spare tires, you are never the only one who is serious about falling in love, she is just playing with your feelings.
4. Never really care about you
A woman's heart is never really on you, and she may occasionally talk to you sweetly, but she never really cares about you, and she doesn't care about your affairs.
5. Love material things and money more
A woman who cheats on feelings may love money and material things more than she loves you. After she is with you, she will change her ways to extract some benefits from you, she will want you to spend money on her, if you are not willing to spend a lot of money on her, you just don't love her. She will use her feelings to morally kidnap you and make you willing to pay for her. When encountering such a woman, the man should quickly wake up and stop being fooled by her.
