It is normal for girlfriends to never take the initiative to pay, and in a relationship, the economic situation and Xi between each other are different, and the problem of paying the bill also varies from person to person. Some believe that men should pay, others believe that they should pay equally or in turns. The fact that a girlfriend never takes the initiative to pay does not mean that she loves and recognizes you, it may be that she feels that it is a traditional Xi for the man to pay, or her own consumption consciousness is more conservative and so on. Therefore, it is a personal behavior Xi that your girlfriend never takes the initiative to pay, and it does not mean that it is abnormal, which requires the two of you to communicate and negotiate and establish your own Xi habits.
In modern society, there is no fixed rule on the payment method between men and women, so on the issue of paying the bill, both parties should start from the mentality of equality and mutual benefit, and deal with economic problems rationally, rather than measuring the depth of feelings by paying the bill.
If your girlfriend never takes the initiative to pay in the process of dating, you can analyze a few points:
1. I don't really like you, and I treat you as a long-term meal ticket. Once your strength does not meet her expectations or meets a better condition than you, she will break up with you.
2. Her parents doted on her, causing her to be more selfish and not consider the feelings of others.
3. Your girlfriend will not give love, but will only ask for love from her surroundings.
I think that when it comes to falling in love, both men and women should be relatively independent, and financial independence is one of them.
Girls should take the initiative to pay, but in the end, gentlemanly boys will always rush to pay. This is the same as the first time that the boys pay the bills, in fact, the result has not changed, the men pay, but the main thing is that the girls can have such an attitude. I'm relatively independent when I fall in love with you, it's not that you invite me to dinner, you buy me a bag, and you buy me clothes are all natural, no! You buy me a bag today, and I'll give you a gift next time, it may not be that expensive, but I value the heart rather than the monetary value. Relative independence is what earns respect. So if you meet a girl who never takes the initiative to spend a penny during her relationship with you, then I suggest you consider your relationship carefully in combination with your daily details!
In China, if a boy and a girl are not very ordinary friends, if they are boyfriend and girlfriend, it is generally the boy who pays the bill, and he will also take into account his own face problem, but the girl can pay occasionally.
Men and women, due to the different social division of labor, responsibilities and assumptions are different. Men are expected to take on more obligations, so in love, it is generally boys who spend more money.
If it is always the boy who spends the money, or if all the expenses are borne by the boy, it is not only unfair, but also encourages the over-dependence of the girl, which is not worth advocating. Over time, it will reduce the status of girls in the minds of boys, which is detrimental to girls.
After all, everyone can work and have a pair of hands that can make money. In the end, it is better for women to be financially independent, overly dependent on others, once one day they are older and have emotional problems, and the biggest loss is themselves.
