If a boy and a girl go out together, the girl rushes to pay for this behavior before the two people confirm the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Then I have to think about whether this guy has already paid most of the fees on the previous date, and a normal and dignified girl will feel embarrassed at this time, and will rush to pay for the next activity together.
In traditional thinking, many people think that "it is natural for men to pay money", and many couples also pay for men when dating.
But there are also some different girls, they are very independent and often take the initiative to pay, so today we will talk about what these girls think in their hearts?
1. Independent and self-reliant.
Since childhood, parents have taught their daughters to be independent and self-reliant, to eat people's soft mouths, to take people's soft hands, and not to trouble others when they can do what they can. Not only in love, but also in other interpersonal interactions, girls don't want to take advantage of others. Completely independent financially, you can spend as much as you have the ability, and try not to let the other party suffer. If she asks others to pay, she will feel like she owes someone else, very uncomfortable, and she must spend her time making up for it to the other party, so that she can rest assured and the division will be clearer.
2. High emotional intelligence.
The girl is very good at figuring out the psychology of the boy, and she knows that her behavior of taking the initiative to pay will add points to the impression of the other party and leave him with a good impression of independence and self-confidence. Especially now that most of the boys are paying for it, this behavior of girls can be regarded as "outlierous", and it is very able to attract the attention of the other party. can also give the boy a surface of her attitude, I like you as a person, that's why I'm together, not for the so-called money, material and other snobbish things.
3. Don't like each other.
This situation is very common on blind dates, and girls feel that they have to give you a connection after spending your money. But she doesn't like you, so she simply checks out and pays for it herself or AA system, and everyone doesn't owe each other when they get out of this door. And in this case, girls generally don't order things that are too expensive, and it's OK to go through the motions with a cup of milk tea.
All in all, it is a very commendable behavior for girls to pay. In a romantic relationship, men and women must achieve such equality, so that the relationship can be maintained fairly for a long time.
There are several factors for girls to rush to pay, which are as follows:
1, this is a hearty girl, she will not show any twisting and pinching all kinds of embarrassment, she thinks that it doesn't matter who pays for the dinner with the boy, what matters is the boy's character, she will not miss you because of the money for a meal.
2. Maybe this is a girl who doesn't like to take advantage, generally girls and boys should pay for meals, but this girl knows what she is doing, and she won't take advantage of you if she doesn't have a formal relationship.
3. It may be the girl's family reasons, generally well-educated children are not in the pursuit period or in the love stage, and the family will not let the child receive benefits from others outside, after all, the mouth is short.
4. The girl may want to test what kind of person you are, and if the girl rushes to pay every time, she may just want to see how you perform.
Precautions for eating with girls:
1. On the first date to eat, most girls will be more reserved and will not really open the menu and order dishes immediately, so after getting the menu, you can take the initiative to recommend to the girls that the special dishes of this restaurant, how they taste and taste, whether they are spicy or not, etc., are finally decided by the girls.
2. The content of the chat is mainly entertaining and interesting, such as usual hobbies, where you have traveled, where you plan to travel, what books you are reading, what delicious shops you have found, and all kinds of content that girls are interested in.
