What should I do if I don't get paid for a part-time job for a relative? When you ask your relatives for accounts, you can use a joking method to ask for it directly, pay attention to be calm, do not have resentment in your words, and be patient.
1. A small amount of money, which can be mentioned by the way
When you go shopping with someone who borrowed money, you are interested in many things, but you have no choice but to say that you have no money. Another day you went to dinner with him, and you said, "By the way, I'll borrow your money and pay for this meal, okay?" Then the other party will no longer be embarrassed not to pay back.
2. Be calm, neither humble nor arrogant
When you go to ask someone for an account, speak carefully, for fear of making the debtor unhappy and causing you to get the money back. If you think so, you are very wrong. Whether it is the debtor or the debtor, everyone is equal, you borrowed my money, you should pay it back, not that I want to beg you to pay it back.
On the other hand, just because I lent you money, I can't be arrogant and drink from mouth to side. Sit down calmly and talk about it.
3. Don't be cruel
There are a lot of friendship breakdowns that start with this account and borrow money back and forth. If you go to a friend and ask him to pay off the debt, but he says that there is no money to pay you back, you may have a grudge at this time, but don't get angry, get angry, and say something that shouldn't be said in a fit of anger, resulting in a conflict between two people, and if this continues, not only will you lose your friend, but your money will not be returned.
4. Listen patiently
People have self-esteem, and they may not ask their friends to borrow money until the most difficult time. So it's really too difficult for some people not to pay back. When we communicate with them, we must also learn to listen, hear that they really have no money in their words, or deliberately do not pay it back, and then make a targeted choice according to their actual situation, of course, do not let yourself be wronged.
5. Ask the other party for money in a joking tone
For example, you can say, "I heard that you have made a lot of money, and I hope you will pay me back?" Then he'll be embarrassed not to pay you back.
How can it be appropriate to ask for money when working for acquaintances? Here's how:
First, I have been doing business recently, and the economy is a little tight, can you lend me some money, start by borrowing money, and remind friends to repay the money Of course, if you have a particularly good relationship, you can speak directly
Second, you can send a text message to tell him that the child has been going to school recently and is about to start school, but the child's tuition fee is still not enough
Third, the child is about to get married, and there is still a gap of 20,000 yuan in bride price, and I haven't borrowed enough recently, and I won't open my mouth to you until the last resort, I also know that you have difficulties, but I do have difficulties now, I know that you are a trustworthy person, and you have never let me down
How to ask for money for work for acquaintances, specific methods: express your needs, provide repayment plans, maintain communication, maintain patience and understanding.
1. Express your needs: Clearly tell acquaintances what you need, for example, "I've been a little nervous lately, and I want to ask if you can repay the money I lent you earlier as soon as possible?" Or, "I know you may have your own difficulties, but I do need this money and hope you can repay it soon." ”
2. Provide a repayment plan: If an acquaintance says that he cannot repay the loan at once for the time being, he can propose to repay the loan in installments or set a specific repayment date. This will allow both parties to have a clear plan and will also help maintain your relationship.
3. Maintain communication: Throughout the process, it is very important to maintain communication with acquaintances. Understand the repayment progress of the other party, and also care about the other party's life and work situation. This will increase mutual understanding and help solve problems.
4. Be patient and understanding: Asking for accounts can be a lengthy process, especially between acquaintances. It is very important to be patient and understanding in this process. Try to avoid affecting each other's feelings because of money.
Notes on accounting
1. Be polite and respectful: Maintain a polite and respectful attitude regardless of whether the other person has the ability to repay the debt. Avoid using insulting language or threatening ways to demand repayment.
2. Communicate in advance: Before formally asking for repayment, it is best to communicate with the other party to understand their repayment plan and difficulties. This can provide an opportunity for both parties to solve problems and also help build a better relationship.
3. Determine the repayment period: When requesting repayment, a specific repayment date should be clearly agreed. This allows both parties to have a clear deadline and avoid delays and disputes.
4. Sign a written agreement: In order to avoid the uncertainty of oral commitment, it is best to sign a written agreement that clarifies the rights and obligations of both parties. This can provide a legal basis for future disputes.
