In our real life, in fact, for everyone, we are not RMB, and we will not do it, everyone will like ourselves, of course, there are people who like us, and at the same time there are people who dislike us, which is a very normal phenomenon, so some people will have such doubts, what are the psychological characteristics of people who hate you? For the answers to these questions, in my personal opinion, for example, his jealousy, or envy, let's take a closer look.
1 Jealousy
In fact, many times, we can deeply feel that for some people we meet around us, they may not like themselves so much, and sometimes they are likely to hate us, I think the reason for this is probably because they have a jealousy of themselves, for example, we do a good job in a certain aspect, but she can't quarrel with us, or someone who is not at the same level as himself, then he will often have this kind of psychology in his heart.
2 Envy
In my personal real life, I have actually had similar problems. For example, when I was in high school, there was a girl who played very well with me, but another girl, she might be jealous, then he would think that my relationship with the other girl was better, and he would also feel that the other girl liked me more, then he would show that kind of hating of me.
So in our daily life, we should also pay more attention to this aspect of the problem, in my personal opinion, I think it is normal for others to hate themselves, but we should do a good job of ourselves, not to make everyone like us. And that's a very difficult thing to do.
What are the psychological characteristics of people who hate you? I hate a person, in fact, it can be easily seen that a girl has these four manifestations to show that she hates you very much, and boys should reflect.
1. Impatience with you
Like a person, I will always talk to him softly, and I want to show my most gentle side. Then, when you don't like it, she naturally won't worry about this, she can have no image in front of you, and when she hates you, not only will she not look at you more, but even the tone of her conversation with you is so impatient, and she doesn't want to communicate with you at all.
2. Don't think about you
She won't consider your feelings, even if you are allergic to radishes during meals, she will still order it, and when it is so big that you will suffer a loss in this matter, she will still do it for her own benefit. People who hate you are like that, your interests have nothing to do with her, and it's none of her business whether your mood is good or bad.
Third, it makes you lose face
Women know that men want to save face and love you, so she will never blame you, let alone let you not get off the stage. But if she hates you, then these have nothing to do with her, she will accuse you in public and embarrass you, and she will not have a trace of guilt in her heart, even with joy, because she has wanted to see you look like you for a long time.
Fourth, I always quarrel with you
There are often small frictions between lovers, most of them are caused by anger and impulsiveness, but some are because she begins to hate you, because of annoyance, any of your actions are meaningless in her eyes, and even disgusting, your concern for her is also a burden for her, and your small shortcomings will be infinitely magnified into unforgivable and fatal shortcomings. Quarrels ensued.
Hate is not suddenly hated, it must be because of what is disgusting, it may be that the shortcomings of the body are becoming more and more obvious and unbearable, if you find that a girl hates you very much, you should reflect on yourself and learn from each other's strengths.
The psychological characteristics of people who hate you
1. Indifference. When your woman doesn't love you, her first characteristic is definitely indifference. Indifferent to you, indifferent to your friends, indifferent to everything around you. Even if you work late, she won't call to say hello.
2. Pretend to be stupid. In fact, it is easy to be indifferent, and the first key is to learn to play stupid. For example, she knows that you are tired after work, but she will pretend not to see; For example, she will pretend to be innocent even if she knows your doubts.
3. Busy. Have you ever noticed that all of a sudden, from a certain day, your woman starts to be unusually busy. You find that the time that once belonged to you has been erased from her calendar by her busyness, it doesn't matter if she's really busy, the important thing is that she will never be busy revolving around you again.
Fourth, drowsiness. For her who doesn't love you, home is just a place to sleep.
5. Silence. Some women are not good at disguising by nature, and when her heart no longer belongs to you, any words between you become superfluous to her. When she begins to be silent with you, her heart is no longer with you.
6. Forget. When a woman loves you, her memory will be excellent, and she will remember every little anniversary between you. However, when your woman no longer loves you, her memory will slowly decline. The numbers that were once etched in her life began to slowly dissipate. Even if she remembers certain important dates, she would rather forget them. 7. Selfishness. Love is great, love is able to encompass everything, so when there is love between two people, there is all the possibility of happiness. It's just that when love disappears, when your woman no longer loves you, all tolerance and forgiveness disappear without a trace. She will forget your rights for her own benefit, and she will try to do everything to satisfy her own selfishness.
8. Anger. In the past, she was definitely not easy to get angry, even if you made a big mistake, she would silently accept your apology. But when she doesn't love you anymore, any little mistake in you will become a reason for her to be angry. There's nothing for you to keep her from getting angry.
9. Heartlessness. When your woman no longer loves you to the point of incurability, despair will become her only expression, otherwise, what expression do you think she will leave? In fact, when a woman is ruthless, that level is definitely no less than Li Mochou's hatred of the world. It's just that the object of her desperation will not be someone else, but only you.
