See details for parents to look out for:
1. Inform in advance
If your girlfriend has not told your parents that she is in love, or that she is ready to get married, and takes you home to meet your parents, your parents may be a little panicked or even angry. Therefore, before meeting the parents, it is still necessary to inform the parents first, so that they can have a psychological preparation.
2. Date of meeting
If you want to visit, time is also very critical, you can choose the time of the New Year's holiday, so that everyone is free, and it will appear very formal and grand. If your parents are happy with your marriage, they may also introduce you to other relatives, so that your marriage will progress faster.
3. Pay attention to dress
Parents don't like boys to dress up too much, after all, parents are still relatively conservative, so boys only need to pay attention to what they wear. Don't dress too frivolously and everyday, it's better to be a little more formal, and it's better to leave a smart image.
4. Give a greeting gift
You can't go empty-handed to meet your parents, so you still have to buy the corresponding gifts. The man can ask the woman's parents what they like, and then go shopping accordingly, or they can choose to buy something.
5. Choose a place
The meeting between the parents of both parties is a very formal conversation, so it is necessary to choose a relatively high-end hotel, and it is best to book a private room, so that it is convenient for both parties to talk. The location of the hotel is best in the middle of the two, and it will be more convenient for both parties.
The man saw the details that the parents needed to pay attention to, and the precautions were transferred directly to him
1. Preparation before meeting the woman's parents
1. Understand the basic situation of the woman's family and parents in advance, family composition, career hobbies, etc., which is also convenient for opening the topic when meeting awkwardly.
2. Understand in advance whether the woman's parents' personality and style are serious or relaxed and easy-going, so as to determine your words and deeds that day.
3. Understand the woman's family life Xi in advance, whether she can talk during meals, how to use towels, etc., to prevent taboos.
4. Ask your parents about their preferences so that they can prepare gifts for the meeting.
2: See the dress of the woman's parents
1. Be clean. Don't be sloppy! 1 day before meeting, you must take a shower and wash your hair, wash your face and beard, do not have dirt on your nails, clean your clothes, and polish your shoes.
2. Don't wear strange clothes, greasy
Don't wear clothes with too many ornaments, patterns, or bits and pieces;
Don't dress loosely or too fashionably;
Don't wear studs, don't show tattoos;
Don't use hairspray for your hair and don't wear perfume.
3. It is good to wear simple and clean, it is recommended to wear:
Summer: white shirt + casual trousers + leather shoes, T-shirt + jeans + sneakers.
Spring and autumn: denim jacket + T-shirt + slacks + sneakers
Winter sweater + shirt + casual trousers + leather shoes.
Three: See the precautions for the woman's parents
1. Be sincere and simple,
Elders ask, answer truthfully, don't lie, don't exaggerate, especially on income, job, RV issues, you can't end up telling a lie.
Don't be self-righteous and arrogant, don't be vain and glampy.
2. Be polite and pay attention to table manners
Listen patiently when the elders speak, don't interrupt the elders' words, don't play with your mobile phone in front of the elders, sit down after the elders sit down, move the chopsticks after the elders move the chopsticks, pay attention to cleanliness, wash your hands before and after meals, sit in a sitting position, don't shake your legs, don't stilt your legs.
Don't take the initiative to smoke, don't stay overnight, even if it's out of town, it's best to live by yourself.
Three: See the precautions for the woman's parents
3. Generous and decent, mature and steady, neither humble nor arrogant, it is best to smile and look real. Don't be submissive, twist and pinch, tremble, don't be too shy, keep hiding by your girlfriend's side, don't talk too much, too noisy, talk too much, and lose your voice, speak loudly and clearly, don't be like a mosquito.
4. The hands should be diligent and the mouth should be sweet
Take the initiative to help, such as washing vegetables, setting dishes, etc., when parents refuse, you can say, "I usually do it at home, Xi it", let parents know that you are usually very family-oriented, capable, and filial
If you can cook, you can show your hand, and you will praise your mother for cooking well and your father for being young in a timely manner.
5. Inadvertently show your concern for your girlfriend, look at your girlfriend from time to time, secretly hold your hand, and always pay attention to your girlfriend's needs, through these details, you can reflect your love for your girlfriend.
TIPS: About the woman
1. Give your boyfriend encouragement to relieve the tensionWhen your boyfriend is nervous, you can joke with your parents to relieve the tension.
2. Don't let your boyfriend stay alone with your parents for too long, so it's easy to fall into embarrassment, or let your boyfriend face cross-examination.
3. Find a topic in a timely manner, find a topic in time to "rescue" your boyfriend when you are cold, avoid embarrassment, and if your boyfriend is interrogated, or encounters other questioned scenes or problems, make peace in the middle in time.
Four: See the list of gifts for the woman's parents
Precious fruits, cherries, golden kiwi
Alcohol: If you can afford it, buy some expensive wine.
Health care products: calcium tablets, protein powder, dietary fiber, ejiao.
Health care equipment: neck and shoulder massager, belt belt, foot bath.
Food conscissions, pastries, grains, lotus root flour, cereals.
Small household appliances sweeping robots, window cleaning robots, and wall breakers.
Tea: Pu'er, Tieguanyin, Longjing, Jin Junmei.
Clothing: Sneakers for the elderly, thermal underwear, cashmere scarves.
Life latex pillows, hair combs, etc.
Tips: Don't pick the door when buying gifts, the elders don't like the son-in-law who picks the door, buy a suitable gift within your financial range, and it is best for family members to have a gift.
Two people have been in love for a long time, and they will definitely come to this step of meeting their parents. This also shows that two people really want to get married, and they attach great importance to each other before they bring each other to their parents.
However, there are many details to be aware of when meeting parents for the first time. If these details are taken care of, then this marriage will be twice the result with half the effort.
1. Pay attention to what you wear when you meet your parents for the first time
Whether it is a boy or a girl, when you meet each other's parents for the first time, you must be very careful about what you wear and don't be too casual. The boys dress neatly and the girls dress decently. Because that's the first impression. If you think about it, at this time, the other party's parents are not familiar with you, and they can only judge what kind of person you are by looking at your appearance and clothing, and you are dressed appropriately and formally, which also shows that this meeting is very important to you. Wearing the right clothes will skyrocket your first impression.
Second, you must not go empty-handed, and the gift should not be too shabby
This doesn't seem to be necessary, because they are all adults, and there should still be etiquette. But there are really some people who just pick up two cartons of milk and go, one in one hand for fear that others will not know that you have taken something. Don't say that you take a lot, but you have to make people feel that you are sincere, as the saying goes, "many people are not to blame", no one will think that you take too much, but too shabby will definitely leave a bad impression
3. Don't be too nervous and pay attention to speaking appropriately
Many people will be nervous when they meet the parents for the first time, and they will be nervous and don't know what to say, and they will stumble. This kind of performance is not a plus at all, you must do a good job in your own psychological construction, don't be too nervous, it will seem that you are very restrained and childish. But don't be too enthusiastic, anti-customer is not likeable. Just go to chat normally and help do things. Families with self-cultivation will also respond accordingly, and everyone will be familiar with each other.
4. Pay attention to proportions in front of your parents
Even if your relationship is good, you must pay attention to proportions in front of your parents, you are going to meet your parents, not to show affection, you must pay attention to the occasion. Don't be too intimate, or it will be very embarrassing for your parents.
In fact, as long as you are firm with each other and love in your hearts, it is very common to see your parents, and there must be no problem if you pay attention to some small details.
