When two people get along for a long time, they may have feelings, which may be love or friendship. If it is between the opposite sex, the possibility of love will be higher, especially in adolescence, there will be a magical attraction between the opposite sex, and it is easy to have feelings. The details of the boy's liking for you are obvious, but what are the performances that the boy is waiting for you to take the initiative?
1. Crazy hints
If a guy likes you very much, but he doesn't dare to take the initiative to confess, he will insinuate you in language, such as saying to you, "I really want to fall in love", "I really want to travel with my beloved", etc., all of which represent that the boy has actually hinted that he likes you and wants to wait for you to take the initiative to confess to him!
2. I want to be with you all the time
There is also the fact that he will want to stay with you all the time, go shopping with you, press the road together, as long as he can be with you and do anything, he will be happy. I like to find all kinds of reasons to ask you out, if you find that a man often tries to ask you out to meet, and he doesn't like you to confess, then it also means that this man must like you, but he doesn't dare to take the initiative to confess to you, and wants to wait for you to speak first!
3. Will care about you very much
If you like a person, you will like all of her, he will care about you very much, he will pay close attention to everything about you, when you post a dynamic in the circle of friends, you will find that his comments and likes will never be indispensable. When you are bored and in a bad mood and want someone to accompany you, you will find that as long as he is free, he will definitely appear in front of you for the first time, which is his affectionate expression of love for you.
4. Look at your eyes very gently
Love a person eyes will not lie, as long as you are on the occasion, the eyes are inseparable from you, and you will find that his eyes are full of tenderness when he looks at you, and you can see that he is full of love for you when you look at each other. But he never takes the initiative to express his love to you, because he wants to move you with his heart and let you take the initiative!
Other manifestations:
1. If a boy continues to hint at you, he likes you very much, or hints that you are still single, then in this case, it may be a boy waiting for you to take the initiative.
2. If he often talks about the type of girl he likes in front of you, he may expect you to be jealous, thus forcing you to confess to him.
3. In fact, it is possible that a boy does not take the initiative because. He can't be sure whether you like him or not, so at this time you need to take the initiative, as long as you take the initiative, maybe he will have a feedback, if he likes you, waiting for you to take the initiative, then there is also a performance is to brush up on his circle of friends dynamics. If he is not usually a person who often posts moments, but has recently often posted some moments that have been pointed out, then it is very likely that he is hinting at you.
Additional performance:
1. Wanting to capture is actually a two-stage process, he has to retreat, that is to say, not only push you away but also pull you back, this is the real desire to capture and indulge, if a person is just constantly rejecting you, unwilling to talk to you, and there is no process of pulling, then in this case he simply ignores you.
2. The meaning of wanting to indulge is that the other party rejects you after arousing your interest, if a person rejects you every time you talk to him, or every time you take the initiative, then in this case, he is very likely to simply ignore you, and not play with you.
3. In fact, whether you want to indulge or ignore you, this is a small means in love, this kind of small means is not a sign of being able to last for a long time, and a person who likes to use the desire to indulge in manipulation of feelings will not be a good object.
Boys are waiting for you to take the initiative, in real life, there are many boys who are very shy when they meet the girls they like, so do you know what performance boys will have when they are waiting for you to take the initiative, let's take a look at the boys waiting for your active performance, I hope it can help everyone.
1. It is often you who take the initiative to contact him
What you say may be false, but the body is always honest, and if a guy has you in his heart, he will definitely be tempted to come to you. A boy who likes you will not only often chat with you, but also take the initiative to ask you out to play, after all, how can he be willing to let you come when he takes the initiative to do such a tiring thing. Only those boys who think you are dispensable and treat you as a spare tire will wait for you to take the initiative to find him.
2. Hot and cold to you
The so-called spare tire is to appear in front of you when the other party needs you. Boys treat you as a spare tire, they will be hot and cold to you, and they will only think of you when they are lonely and bored, and once he has a new goal around him, he will slowly alienate you, and it is very insecure to be with such a boy.
3. Be secretive about your relationship
A guy who loves you will take the initiative to introduce you to his relatives and friends, hoping that the whole world will know about your existence. Only those men who are afraid of misunderstanding or want to leave a way out for themselves will hide their relationship, and even if you lose your temper, he can still find a reason to prevaricate you.
4. There are a lot of good friends of the opposite sex around you
The most obvious manifestation of a guy treating you as a spare tire is that while he is ambiguous with you, he also maintains a very good or even ambiguous relationship with other girls. The reason why a guy treats you as a spare tire is because he doesn't like you that much at all, but he wants someone to talk to him when he is lonely. Once he meets someone he really likes, he will stay away from the opposite sex around him, including you.
5. It is very ambiguous but does not confirm the relationship
The boy who treats you as a spare tire, he is afraid that you will find out that he will maintain an intimate and ambiguous relationship with you. You may chat together until dawn, go on a separate date, or even have the same drink, but he just won't confess to you, and even in the face of your confession, he will choose to play stupid and then tear the topic away.
The reason why boys like it but don't take the initiative
1. Not confident in yourself
I feel a little unworthy of you, in his heart you are too good, too perfect to express it, so he chooses to hide his love in his heart, and usually cares about you quietly in life, he doesn't want to be with you, but he is afraid that he will lose you after expressing it.
2. Lust and lust bind your heart
Like a person but don't contact him, at this time the man wants you to contact him first, so that it is more face-saving, as if you care more about him, so that he feels that he can tie your heart.
3. The man's personality is too stable
Steadiness represents maturity, and it is also what many women like, even if such a man likes you very much, he will not be particularly sticky to you, know the distance that love should have, and will not be entangled in some small things, in fact, couples who are together every day are more likely to have such and such problems, and the grasp of distance is still very important.
