What do you mean by a man taking the initiative to block you? The fact that a man actively blocks you means that he has lost interest in you, does not want to continue contact, has a conflict or disagreement, avoids trouble, and feels disturbed by you.
1. Lose interest in you
A man actively blocks you because he has lost interest in you or he has found someone he likes more.
2. I don't want to continue to contact
The man may block you because he doesn't want to continue to contact you, or he feels that your relationship is over. Maybe you didn't pay attention to it, but in ordinary life, it is possible that you accidentally say a word or do something to make the other person feel that you are targeting him.
3. There are contradictions or disagreements
A man may take the initiative to block you because there is a conflict or disagreement between you, and he feels that there is no need to communicate or communicate with you anymore. He misunderstood that you were dissatisfied with him, so he made the first move, and simply blocked you on WeChat, out of sight. At this time, it is best to explain it to the other person, no matter what the other person thinks, to let him know that you do not have this kind of mind.
4. Avoid trouble
A man may block you to avoid being harassed or causing trouble to you, such as when there is a dispute or argument between you.
5. I feel disturbed by you
In WeChat, if a man blocks you, it is likely that he feels disturbed by you. Or you send WeChat too often, or the timing is wrong, causing trouble in other people's lives. When he is disturbed by you according to his life, he may block you in order to be clean.
The man takes the initiative to block you, indicating that he wants to end up with you.
Unlike a woman's temptation, once a man makes the decision to black, it is often a decision made after repeated hesitation, maybe he hasn't completely let go, but he has already given birth to the idea of ending with you, and it is only a matter of time before it ends completely.
He doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore, and you don't need to continue to pester him, since he has been blocked, it means that he no longer wants to have any contact with you, and the previous relationship between the two of you has come to an end.
His feelings for you have come to an end, he doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore, and he doesn't want to see any more news from you. You should stop bothering him, you should let go of him and find your own true happiness.
The reason why the guy took the initiative to block you
1. Men hate you
Maybe when you first met, you had a good impression of each other and often chatted online, but if he suddenly blocked you, it means that he hates you, and his feelings for you are not like at the beginning.
2. I don't want to give you hope
When you confess to him online and are rejected, at this time you may still have a glimmer of hope and want to be friends with him first, but the man directly blocks you, which means that the man has no good impression of you and does not want to give you hope, so blocking you is the best thing to do, so he will show his attitude towards you.
Men love you very deeply, so they will take the initiative to block you in the chat.
A man who cares about you will take the initiative to block you, if he chooses a woman to block you first, he might as well block himself first, so as to avoid embarrassment and reduce harm to women. Sometimes women think that men don't love them anymore, but that's not the case. A man cares about you very much, so he will take the initiative to block you, in this way, he can cut off your thoughts about him, and he can also reduce his nostalgia for you, and go their separate ways in the future.
Some men will choose to take the initiative to block you and completely cut off the relationship with you, just to avoid that they will miss you in the future and then lose control.
Therefore, the best way is to block you yourself, so that you never have any communication again, so that the man will never have any thoughts about you again. In fact, a man does this for you, he will have this kind of behavior in order not to miss you, and he wants to give women the best protection.
Negative aspects of blocking:
1. Denial. Use avoidance and negativity to alleviate the pain you feel when you are frustrated or conflicted. If you can't see it, you can't see it if you block it. pretend that there is no such person; Or use the defensive mode of denial, denying unpleasant events as if they never happened, in order to obtain temporary psychological comfort.
2. Isolation. Isolate some of the facts from the realm of consciousness and keep yourself from realizing them, so as not to cause mental unpleasantness.
