What is the 21-day rule for men to break up
The "cooling-off period" needed after a breakup.
1. In life, there is a law called the 21-day rule, which means that a habit, after 21 days of repeating, will become a deep-rooted habit.
2. Therefore, after a man and a woman break up, don't act impulsively, it's best to think about it after 21 days of cold treatment, sometimes cold treatment is not a bad thing, both of them need time and space to sort out their mood.
3. Usage of the 21-day rule:
(1) Within 10 days, no longer appear in the other party's sight, so that the other party worries about you.
(2) 11-16 days, intentionally or unintentionally appear in the other party's sight, which makes the other party's heart itch.
(3) 17-21 days, completely appear in each other's lives, and the two can begin to consider the contradictions.
4. 21 days of cold treatment, like a wrong thing done by each other, with the absence of the two people, slowly disappearing, bad memories slowly decrease, after all, human beings tend to be good.
Say break up with those men
A man who can't let go
It is said that they can afford to put it down, and some men just can't afford it and put it down. Obviously, the two of them are separated, and they are still in love. It doesn't have to be because of love that makes people feel upset. He is just determined to be with you, and if he can't impress you, then he will make you have to return to him in another way and take revenge. When you say OK, he stops. Do you dare to ask for this kind of man?
Men with low self-esteem
Men's self-confidence is fragile, and there is a kind of man's self-confidence that is only like paper paste. The breakup was unbearable for him, because he stepped heavily on his inferior heart. He can dump you, but you can't dump him, because this is a representation of face. Especially when everyone knows that you proposed to break up first, this is unbearable for him, and he will definitely retaliate against you fiercely, let you know what is wrong, and he will not stop. In the final analysis, it is to treat love as a competition, and the final result must be won by him.
Arrogant man
This kind of man thinks that his conditions are very good, and no woman can refuse him. So, after you propose to break up, it is a bolt from the blue for him. He will never admit that you look down on him. Since they broke up, what can prove that he is excellent? For example, it's a good idea to coax you back and then get rid of you. A man who is arrogant must not be offended, because God is first and he is second. The problem is that he's not Mourinho and the world isn't football. Even Jose Mourinho has times when he can't figure out the Real Madrid dressing room. To put it bluntly, I just don't know that the sky is high and the earth is thick, and the eyes are high and the hands are low, and I want to conquer the world.
Careful-eyed man
It is said that women are careful, men are careful, and even women are not as good as sighing. To put it bluntly, this kind of man is calculating. The breakup is a big stain in his life, especially in his eyes, you are full of shortcomings, and you still owe him food money on the last date, why did you break up like this? Even if you break up, he also writes down what it costs, yours is not as thick as a notebook in his place, not to mention that you are not as good as his goddess and grabs a lot of it. If you dare to break up with this kind of man, and he didn't propose it, you just wait to be informed by him. He will also send a message to explain everyone's expenses in love clearly, and ask you to pay back! All the gifts you give will have to be returned, so that's enough, right?
The 21-day breakup compound law doesn't always work out.
This law refers to the fact that within 21 days after a man breaks up, it is a critical period of redemption, if you use the right methods and skills, he will definitely find you to get back together, love is to break the rules and regulations you have set before.
Within 21 days of the breakup, the breakup partners will go through the painful process of going from being in a relationship to being single. And within 21 days of the breakup, because it was too painful, it was easier to get back his girlfriend. This is what we often call the 21-day rule of breaking up, grasping the psychology of the other party and successfully reuniting.
Break the stereotype, bury the foreshadowing of cognitive change, and don't be too painful on the day of the breakup
For example, crying is heartbreaking, and even looking for a short-term view, although this is to express the importance you attach to this relationship, but for her, this kind of performance after the breakup is really normal, and in her expectation, she will not make too many waves in her heart.
Then you have to behave like nothing happened, which is completely beyond her expectations, first she will be curious, and then she will re-examine you.
