As the saying goes, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and it is inevitable to encounter villain colleagues in the workplace. It not only affects their normal work, but also delays their work process and mood. How to adjust the mentality of being affected by the villain, the following tricks are easy to deal with.
1. Communicate more with leaders to let leaders understand your personality and ability, and increase trust
Villain colleagues like to sue, since it is a complaint, it is natural to sue the superior leader to be effective. There are many times when we need to communicate with the leader, but some people have "authority phobia", always afraid to talk to the leader, maybe you have worked for a few years, the leader is not very familiar with you, in this case, someone has been suing you, after a long time, who do you think the leader will believe. Sometimes "three people make a tiger" is true.
2. Don't be cowardly, when others slander you in person, you must also know how to protect your own interests
If you encounter a villain colleague who slanders you in person, then you don't need to swallow your anger, and those who should speak out to resist must show their own momentum. I have a friend who is always being said bad things by a colleague, once when he passed by the office, he heard the colleague talking bad about him to others inside, he immediately pushed the door in, pointed at the other party's nose and scolded, reasonable, the other party was speechless, from then on I saw him walking around, and I didn't dare to say a bad word about him.
3. Pay attention to the norms in the work, don't let people catch the handle, and have the courage to take responsibility if you really make mistakes. If a villain colleague wants to sue and squeeze out you, then you must first be able to catch your mistakes. Then we should pay attention to making ourselves serious and careful in our work, and try not to make mistakes, so that others will not be able to grasp the handle if they want to sue.
4. Keep good evidence of your work, and don't let people splash sewage on you easily. At work, we must learn to keep good work evidence, handover records, etc., and clarify work responsibilities, so that if a colleague who is intentional makes a mistake and wants to put all the fault on your head, we also have evidence to prove our innocence, don't just let people dump the pot on us.
5. Try to stay away
For villain colleagues, the best way we take first is to stay away as much as possible, after all, if you stay away, you often can't meet, and the other party will not always find ways to target you. And if you stay away, the competition of interests will be small, and no one will stare at a person who has no conflict of interest every day for no reason.
Therefore, the intrigue and scariness of the workplace are unimaginable! In the workplace, good interpersonal relationships will make you feel like a fish in water in the workplace. Or still be a kind person.
How to adjust your mentality when you are affected by the villain? Here's how to solve it:
1. Stabilize your mentality, not be impatient, and do what you should do.
2. Do in-depth observation and analysis of the villain, as the saying goes, "no profit is not early", most of the villain's work is based on "profit" first, to know what the villain is trying to do.
3. To do an in-depth analysis of the villain's personality and background, most of the villains are people who tend to be inflammatory, and their personalities are also more insidious and cunning, so we must first have a comprehensive understanding of the villain in order to be targeted.
Do you want to mention it to the leader? In the modern workplace, intrigue seems to have become an inevitable phenomenon in a business unit. As for the reasons for intrigue, it is nothing more than envy, jealousy, power struggle, etc. As for conflicts of interest, a person does not want to avoid it if he wants to, there will always be people who like to intrigue and will involve him, and some measures are needed to deal with it. What should I do if I can't fight? Correct your attitudeAs the saying goes, "If a dog bites you, you can't bite it back", when you are designed by others, you will inevitably feel uncomfortable and unwilling, but you can't do it like him.
If you feel aggrieved all the time, it will affect your own work and life, so in such a situation, you need to learn to relieve your emotions and not be overly disturbed by others. The "broken window effect" in psychology is well known to everyone, and it also applies to people. Don't be afraid, don't cause trouble and don't be afraid of things, if you are afraid, it will make people think that you are a "soft bone" and easy to bully, and you will continue endlessly. At the same time, we should not have a revenge mentality, learn from him to do that, and don't compare with bad people, who have their own people to teach him. In short, the first thing is to correct your attitude and not let yourself fall into the bottomless whirlpool of intrigue.
Keep a distance from the villains The ancients said: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black", "If you don't support Pengsheng hemp, you will be straight, and the white sand will be black in Nirvana", what kind of people interact with each other have a greater impact on themselves. Be careful with people who like to play right and wrong, chew on the root of their tongue, and intrigue with them, and don't associate too closely with them, maybe one day you will become the object of his jokes and mental design. If professionals are absolutely upright, I believe that villains will avoid them. But everyone is a complex individual, the world is not black and white, people always have a plan, you have to be able to do not be tempted by the interests proposed by the villain. Once you accept the benefits given by the villain, you will have to pay a certain price, after all, there is no wasted lunch in the world, let alone provided by the villain.
For what you want, you must rely on yourself to get it in the right way, and you can't fall into the trap of villains. Interpersonal communication is very laborious to maintain, and people should always pay attention to proportion, once they lose their proportion, it is easy to cause a series of unnecessary troubles to themselves.
