In real life, there are always some girls who look innocent but have strong working ability. Now I'd like to share an article about women who are strong but simple.
First, her mood is very stable, and she will never lose control.
People with a simple mind will not hide their emotions. All emotions will be shown on their faces in an instant, from ecstasy to hysteria. They do not know how to hide, nor do they know the need to hide. The woman in the deep city is different. She gives the impression that she has always been in a stable mood, and she will never lose control of herself. No matter whether she is sad or happy, her face will always be superficial and can't see more emotions.
With such a woman, men often feel afraid. You never know what she thinks. She seems to love her very much, but she doesn't seem to love her very much. You take a heart to her, but maybe she doesn't care about you at all.
Second, he is good at playing dumb and looks innocent.
Such a woman usually has a strong heart. Nothing will make her feel embarrassed or embarrassed. Of course, she doesn't care about many things. Even if she has an affair with another man and is caught by you, she will not show a panic look on her face. She can still pretend to be silly. It seems that you really blame her and let you believe all her explanations to you.
This kind of woman can easily get the man's sincerity. The man will believe that she is simple and always wants to protect her. In fact, this kind of woman is the most dangerous. You never know which of her words is true.
Third, it will make people happy.
Such a woman looks very harmless and has a sweet smile. Her words are very comfortable. A few words can coax you to be happy and make you obey her. You are willing to do anything she wants you to do. It can be said that she knows people's hearts very well, and of course she can also grasp the weakness of human nature. She knows what you like to listen to, and then goes with it, and finally makes you the object of her use.
It seems that she is very kind to you. In fact, it is hard to say how much weight you have in her heart. She is always kind, but at a critical moment, she will push you to the front and let you be her shield.
Fourth, we are used to shirking responsibility.
A woman in a deep city is usually very smart. She never does anything that causes trouble. She always picks herself up and puts the blame on others. With a very innocent face, she can easily win her people's sympathy and trust. Each time, she can skillfully put herself out of the way, without any loss.
When you fall in love with such a woman, you also need to be smart. Maybe one day when she breaks up with you, she will also put all the responsibility on you. It is you who are sorry for her and has nothing to do with her.
However, it has to be said that sometimes a woman is very sophisticated or scheming, which is just a way for her to protect herself. It cannot be said that she is a very bad or annoying woman. But for a man, when you fall in love with such a woman, at least you have to be on the same level with her, otherwise, you will inevitably lose, always feel that you are begging for her, but she is unmoved by you.
For a girl who is cute and simple in nature, entering the workplace for the first time is a challenge. She has no social experience and no workplace experience. We should learn to adapt to and deal with the intrigues in the workplace, so as to survive in the workplace.
Most people who have just entered the workplace will be more or less troubled by this problem. If they persist too much, they will feel out of class and excluded because they are fake; If you don't stick to it, you will find that these so-called intrigues make your conscience uneasy in the end, and the results are often unpredictable, not good or bad, in a word, "tired".
In this case, my personal suggestion is: "Do not be harmful, and do not be defensive.". Whether it's cheating or intrigue, these things are "corporate internal friction" and "office politics" in a civilized way, or "doing useless work" in a bad way.
It is your ability to work that ultimately affects you at work. This ability includes not only your business field, but also your communication and expression skills, and the ability to be flexible. Everyone who strives to make achievements in the workplace should focus on their work and development. The so-called "treat things rather than people", "grasp the degree of work", and "treat colleagues" are all based on the cultural concepts or rules and regulations advocated by the company. The starting point of everything is from the perspective of the company, which is fair, just and free of personal feelings.
Even if your colleagues want to find fault with you, they have no way to start. Under normal circumstances, this kind of work attitude will be appreciated and recognized by the company leaders, laying a good foundation for your future development. "Defend, but don't over defend." - For keeping innocence, I suggest you reserve a space for your own innocence.
Innocence is not equal to resignation and cowardice, nor can it be equated with childishness. Just like what we say, "Don't talk to strangers", we should learn to put bullet proof vests on our innocence to protect ourselves from being affected and hurt. At the same time, you should be able to accept and understand all kinds of bright, dark and even gray realities in society and the workplace. After all, you live in the present, and you need to accept the attitude and psychology of others, just like you are heterosexual, and you may not accept yourself to be gay or bisexual, but you need to accept the fact that others are.
Only by truly understanding others can your expression not be "over defensive" and handle problems professionally without personal feelings. "Don't offend villains" - otherwise you will have great doubts about your innocence. What is a villain? These people often have qualities that you don't have. They may or may not have the ability. Anyway, they have the power to make you feel depressed and not offend. This is the best way, but it does not mean compromise.
The meaning of not rejecting is not necessarily to accept, but to wait and see. You should grasp your own feelings, not black or white. In fact, you have a gray zone in the middle.
