Can it be saved if it is not suitable? No matter why he says you are not suitable, give him a living space after breaking up and give him some freedom. After all, even if you stick together every day, it does not mean that you can control his heart, and his thoughts may disgust him. Today, I will teach you how to save love when you say it's not suitable.
1、 Can it be saved if it is not suitable?
1. Keep an optimistic attitude
Face up to the breakup between you. Don't rush to find the reason and make the commitment you have changed. Not suitable How to recover? If we want to do something every day when we retrieve it, we feel that it is very difficult. This kind of recovery cannot be successful. Keep an optimistic attitude, change yourself, change without warning, let the other party find that you have changed a lot.
2. Understand the reason for breaking up
Sometimes he says that it's not really inappropriate for you to be together, and personality incompatibility may be just an excuse. Don't pester your ex boyfriend to ask him "why did you break up with me?" The more you ask him, the more annoying he is. To find out why you broke up, you need to think back on what happened in the past. You need to judge whether you broke up really or falsely, and what kind of recovery strategies need to be developed.
2、 How to recover after saying it is not suitable?
1. Increase attraction
Not suitable How to recover? Only by improving your own attractiveness and internal value can you become more calm when facing him, and naturally show yourself in front of the other party. It is very beneficial for recovery to be able to do this. There are always various reasons why two people are not suitable. Find out the real reason, change yourself pertinently and improve your attractiveness. As long as the attractiveness is strong enough, "unsuitable" can also become "suitable".
2. Create a new intersection
The negative impression of the current incumbent on you has basically faded, and you can start to establish a new intersection with him, because the new intersection is more fresh, and will not be affected by the previous unpleasant experience. You can choose a gathering of mutual friends, or create a scene of casual encounter, so that he can see you and your changes. If there is no way to create opportunities, you can use the network platform to show your high value and attract his attention. These operations are conducted under the guidance of professional emotional mentors, because a mistake in the recovery process may hinder the recovery progress.
No relationship is perfect and there will be no contradiction, so under such circumstances, we must face up to our own emotional problems. Just like the prince and the princess can get together, it is also because they have experienced many twists and turns, and in the process of getting along, they constantly seek ways to get along with each other.
So if you break up with your boyfriend, he thinks you are not suitable for him, but you don't want to let go, you can try to recover.
1、 Face up to your irrational behavior in your feelings and bravely bear the mistakes.
For a long time after the breakup, the emotions of girls can not be calmed down. Because in anger, there is no way to calm down and think about many things, so I will insist that all the mistakes are on the boys. But when you calm down and think about it, in fact, you have made great mistakes in this process. So after breaking up, don't rush to put all the responsibility on the boy, so he will only think you are not suitable. You need to start from your own problems. Take responsibility for your mistakes, and the brave boyfriend expresses his apology.
2、 Change yourself and improve your internal and external temperament.
The biggest secret of keeping love fresh is to constantly improve your internal and external temperament. Even if the boy breaks up with you, when he sees that you have changed differently, he can attract his eyes again and fall in love with you again. The reality is that no one does not love a woman with special temperament, so what you need to do is learn to make up, learn to wear, and learn to show your good side.
3、 Understand your boyfriend's inner thoughts and learn to understand him.
When two people are in love, they should not only see the surface of each other, but also understand each other's inner thoughts deeply, so that they can better grasp the secret of love. If you can go into the heart of your boyfriend and understand his needs, then you can cater to him appropriately and give him some warmth, I believe he will certainly be soft hearted.
This situation varies from person to person. Some can be saved, and some can't. The girlfriend said it is inappropriate. If you want to recover, you should do the following:
1. Avoid minefields
Pay attention to observation during communication, try not to interrupt the other party, and be a quiet listener. It is necessary to give the other party some space properly, and not too much inquiry to avoid entering the minefield.
Everyone has his own secret garden and doesn't want to be discovered. Therefore, the best way to deal with it is to retreat in order to make progress. In this way, the other person will have enough sense of security and the next relationship will be like a fish in water
2. Maintain positive energy
It is normal for many people to feel frustrated after breaking up. However, it is wrong to deliberately show that you are depressed and pathetic, thinking that the other party will be soft hearted and forgiving.
Being depressed will only make the other party more distant, and even aggravate the negative psychology. Therefore, we must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. When we communicate with each other, we should radiate positive energy, make the communication environment relaxed and pleasant, and improve our attractiveness.
The reason why the two women are not suitable
1. Inappropriate communication mode
The most important communication between people is the communication of language, especially in the face of the communication of saving love, which also needs language to express. For example, if you want to invite the other party to drink coffee, it is difficult to let the other party understand your intention immediately by doing something, and it may backfire.
2. Lack of commonality
At first, the two parties may be deeply attracted by some characteristics of each other, but after a period of getting along and getting to know each other, they find that the other has nothing in common with you. Your interests, growth experiences, three perspectives, etc. are different.
