After a week of disconnection, men will begin to miss you.
1. Boys in general:
After breaking up, a man will come to you within a week. That is "fake breaking up". It's just a matter of getting out of hand. It's not really about breaking up. It's just a temporary impulse. At this time, if you give each other a step down, you may feel better; However, if the man is disconnected for more than half a month or even a month after breaking up, he is indifferent. Maybe the first half of the time is his cooling off period. If it is not retrieved, the man really does not want to get back together with you.
2. Male students with quick personality:
It is good for men who are more anxious and extroverted to endure for more than three days. Generally, they will go back to find girls soon. Whether it is in the tone of questioning or in the tone of begging for peace, they need to see how their girlfriend responds to them. But if the girls still don't respond, they need to take practical action.
3. Slow boys:
The boys who are slow in temperament may really have one track mind. Their girlfriends are disconnected from themselves. They seem not worried at all, as if the overall situation is in their own hands. They also react slowly. At the beginning, they don't seem to realize that their girlfriends are no longer "checking posts". They gradually feel that this state is good and free, It may take more than half a month for them to find that their life without a girlfriend is so empty. They then wonder if they have offended their girlfriend. At this time, they will go back to talk with her. Maybe it is too late.
Generally, the length of time that the other party thinks of you after disconnection depends on the situation of your breakup, and the time is also different:
1. True breakup: within 30 days.
True sex break up is the final conclusion after you two think rationally. In general, it is quite difficult to retrieve a boyfriend. The first two weeks after the breakup are your cooling off period. During the cooling off period, you must not take any action to recover. This will deepen your bad impression in his heart.
The first week after the breakup, the two of you must have been thinking about the breakup. This is a process of deepening memory and scarring. After the first week of calm thinking, the second week will enter the stage of your forgetfulness. After 6 days, the memory will slowly fade away, that is to say, the third week after the breakup is the best time to retrieve the boyfriend.
2. False breakup: within 7 days.
If you two break up falsely, it's just a quarrel. It's not that you want to really separate. This is just to ask for more emotional value from the other party. In this critical period, it is suggested to go the next day after the breakup to recover. Because in the fake breakup between you two, the other party broke up with you only on her impulse.
He actually wants your heart to pay attention to him and give him a little more care. Then you can play coquetry or cajole him, give him a step down, and the chance of success will be greatly improved. However, if you ignore him every other week or even 30 days, the fake breakup will gradually become the real one, and it will be more troublesome to try to recover it.
The mentality of married men after disconnection
1. Happy
When a married man has an extramarital affair, he should take both sides into consideration. First, he should not be sent a letter by his wife, and second, he should keep good relations with his lover to avoid the other party's vexatious behavior. But when a man is disconnected by his lover, he knows that this is a hint of breaking up, and his mood will become much easier. At least, the other party will take the initiative to break the connection, and the lover will certainly not come to the door in the future, So men are happy to be disconnected at the beginning.
2. Loneliness
After the stage of happiness and freedom, a man will feel lonely and have no lover. In addition, he always has conflicts with his wife. He has no place to find comfort when he wants to find comfort. Then he will miss the time with his lover before. So even if he wants to have a relaxing space, he also hopes to have someone around him who can accompany him.
3. Anxiety
A man will feel anxious soon after being disconnected. He cannot forget his lover. After experiencing happiness and loneliness, he will worry about whether to retrieve his lover. Sometimes a man is easily obsessed with extramarital affairs again. For him, extramarital affairs are indispensable in life, so anxiety is inevitable.
4. Relieved
If a man is disconnected, he can no longer receive information from the other party, which means that the other party wants to completely break off the relationship with him, and the man will slowly return to normal life, after a long time, he will be relieved of this matter. After all, the woman who wants to live with him is his wife, and the lover is just a passer-by in life, leaving is no big deal.
How long is the best connection
1、 After four months of disconnection, the resentment has dissipated
Two people in love are unhappy because of some things. At this time, there must be innumerable complaints in their hearts; If the resentment in the hearts of two people is not dispelled, their hearts will be particularly uncomfortable; As long as the resentment does not disappear, it is too early to get back together. At this time, it takes a certain amount of time to release the resentment in the heart; Only when you completely release your resentment, you will not hold any grudges against the other party, nor will you attach so much importance to the other party's affairs.
However, after four months of disconnection between men and women, the resentment in their hearts has disappeared; Because when two people are separated, they must be very unhappy and uncomfortable. So after separation, with the passage of time, it is natural that those resentment towards their loved ones will slowly go with the wind; Three or four months is enough time to let go of my unhappiness; If the time is too early and the other party still has a grudge against the past, the success rate of the recombination will be very low; Four months after the disconnection, it is the time when the other party forgets everything completely. Therefore, this is the best time to get back together.
2、 Disconnection for four months will lead to loneliness
In fact, when we fall in love, we also find a loving person to accompany us through life, because a person is really lonely, especially when we fell in love before, there were always people around us, knowing the cold and the hot, and this happiness will invade our hearts; When two people quarrel and break up and lose each other, they will not have much experience at the beginning, but as long as the time is longer, they will feel how lonely they are; So in my heart, I will feel very sad, extremely painful; So in my heart, I will be particularly 'eager for each other to come back.
So four months after two people were disconnected, it was the most lonely time in my heart; Because when one person is separated from another person, they will put down their past unhappiness and past unhappiness within two or three months of disconnection,. When all this is released, you will find that there is one person missing from your side; So in my heart, I will feel special loneliness; Therefore, I have a special expectation for the years when people accompany me; At this time, the other person will take the initiative to get back together. Naturally, it is easy to get the other person's sincerity, and the two people will go back to the past.
3、 Four months after disconnection, I will miss the past
There may be disputes and contradictions between lovers, but there are also many happy times. Maybe at the moment of breaking up, we won't remember the beauty of the past, but only the disputes between you. But one day, when two people can't be together, they will reflect on the past bit by bit; Because it is the happiest thing to be with the person you love; If you think of two people who have been sweet and happy, you will be very confused and helpless; It seems that the world is not so wonderful when you lose the person who gives you happiness.
Four months after the breakup, I will definitely miss the happy time in the past; Because after two people separated, they figured out all the things, didn't care about it, and didn't feel how painful it was; Will be in the unnatural, think of each piece of love with the beloved; At this time, in four months, this kind of intoxication on the past will be more intense; So at this time, if another person takes the initiative to seek reconciliation, it is most likely to comfort the other person's heart; So the two people can go back to the past and stay together again.
