Five tricks up your sleeve are sure to turn defeat into victory.
【1】 Anger and laughter - let him not see a joke.
The so-called angry laughter means that although you are very angry with someone who deliberately makes trouble for you, you should not reveal it on the surface. You should pretend to be a muddle headed smile. If your smile is not serious, his purpose will not be achieved. In fact, the person who deliberately makes trouble for you just wants to see your joke, and you treat it with a peaceful attitude, not angry, He didn't fall into his trap, so things would be buffered.
【2】 Resentment without words - hide the accumulated resentment first, and do not let the third party intervene.
No matter how good your temper is, when you meet someone who deliberately makes trouble for you, you will inevitably feel angry in your heart. Remember, you must hide your anger temporarily. Don't express your attitude first, and deal with him in a way of joking. If you talk to him, you will immediately attract people to watch the lively scene. So you just complain and don't talk to see how things change, The key is to prevent people from coming up.
【3】 Induce the desire to block - deliberately tease him, and completely dig out his face.
After completing the first two steps, the situation will basically calm down. At this time, all you have to do is deliberately tease him to let his ugly face be thoroughly dug out. At this time, you will have the upper hand. Remember, no matter what action you take and how you respond, you must do it with a smile instead of pretending to be angry, Through the action of inducing desire to block, nine out of ten people who deliberately make trouble for you will no longer be difficult for you. First, they will be infected by your tolerance, and second, they will have no meaning to make trouble for you.
【4】 Make peace and send the source - make clear the people and things that deliberately make trouble for you, and strive for reconciliation.
No matter what method you adopt to deal with someone who deliberately makes trouble for you, it is inevitable that there will be some small conflicts and frictions, because if you don't give him the results he wants, he will be angry in his heart. What you must do at this time is not to expand the conflicts, and strive for reconciliation. The method is also very simple, sometimes it is just a sentence, It's a matter of taking a small loss. If you can take a small loss, you can make sure you are safe. I think it can still be done.
【5】 Be decisive - if you can't resolve it, then make a clear line with it.
If you deliberately embarrass your popularity, you must spoil your affairs. No matter whether you show weakness or adopt reconciliation, there is no way to break his mind. At this time, you can't be soft, but hard. The method is also simple. Tell him the result directly. From now on, please draw a clear line with me. I have nothing to do with you, After doing this, don't pay any more attention to him. If he still refuses to give up, if you have leaders above you, colleagues around you, and people in the unit who are specialized in solving this problem, it may be better for them to intervene.
How to deal with the containment of villains
1. Cooperate with colleagues secretly and let them cope
When you meet a villain in the workplace, you can secretly associate with other colleagues to see how everyone treats this person. If some people hate this villain even more, you can make good use of it. At this time, encouragement is a good choice.
2. Deliberately emit smoke bombs to confuse the other party's vision
The second best way to deal with villains is to deliberately release some false information to confuse the public and surprise them. The villains think they are very clever, so when they are gloating, it is easy for people to relax their vigilance. You can choose to give the villains some fake news to make them happy, but you don't know that it is just a superficial phenomenon, and you still have a plan.
3. Collect loopholes and evidence in the work of the other party, and break them without breaking
The third way to deal with villains is to catch the villain's handle and quietly collect some work loopholes in the work, as well as evidence. Put these loopholes and evidence in front of the villain. All the initiative is in your hands. You make him go east and he dare not go west.
How to deal with the villains at work;
1、 The villain is mercenary. The villain is unconcerned. He pursues profits regardless of everything. He even hides his feelings for the sake of earning six desires. In order to appease his desires, he is unscrupulous and shameless. He ignores all morality, looks for the breath of interests, and goes all the way.
2、 The villain is cold and insidious. The villain's heart is soaked by desire. Although every bit is dirty, it is hidden very deeply, not showing the mountain, not revealing the water, and the heart is like a dry well; Narrow but unfathomable; The dark cave is so mysterious that it is frightening. The cold air often comes out in the dark cave, which makes people feel terrible.
3、 The villain is merciless. Small people have a low EQ. They never bother to ask or understand what love is, let alone talk about benevolence and justice.
4、 Small hands are good at calculating. Although the intelligence quotient of a villain is not low, it is difficult to see a versatile person. Because the villain's goal of pursuing profits is extremely concentrated, his energy is also concentrated, and his rare high IQ is all spent on calculation, calculating this, calculating that, and making his companions like tigers and wolves, tired and tired.
5、 Villains climb up to power and attach importance to power. The villain knows best where to get the satisfaction of interests, so his admiration for power is unforgettable. Facing the great tree of power, he not only has to lean back, but also wants to climb on it. For this reason, the villain would climb up like crazy, like walking through a cat hole or a dog hole, climbing over dead trees.
6、 The villain flatters in public and contradicts in private. Lilliputians generally have yin and yang faces. Their faces change very quickly, and yin and yang objects can be changed at any time.
7、 A villain is an adult's evil. Lilliputians are best at pitching to their likes, especially those of powerful people.
8、 The villain is jealous of others. Although the heart of a villain is deep, it is narrow, so narrow that it can only accommodate its own desires. For those who are open minded, careful and skilled, envious of evil and good, and have excellent popularity, they are jealous of fire, slander, make a mountain out of a molehill by making a mountain out of a molehill, make a stab in the back, or kill people by throwing stones at the well.
9、 Villains are rampant. "My son is a wolf in the middle mountain, and when he succeeds, he will be rampant." Before gaining power, the villain often looks humble, and dare not stand up straight, or sit up with his eyes raised. He looks down and flatters. But once he gains power, or even gets the appreciation or praise of the master, he will not know the height of heaven and earth. He will be arrogant and even bully the common people.
10、 Small people are suspicious and fickle. Villains, like thieves, always use their own dark psychology to speculate about others. The most prominent psychological feature of villains is to defend everyone. Changing faces and packaging is the villain's best way to protect himself
The villain has a high IQ, but is difficult to be versatile, because he has too much energy for calculation. There are such villains around me. They calculate others all day long, pluck a hair for the benefit of the world and do nothing. They are worried about gain and loss. They can't have normal feelings and can't understand the truth, the good and the beautiful. So they can't have true happiness.
