Emotion is really a difficult thing for us to ponder. In this world, there are always cases of separation, separation and combination between lovers. If the relationship between two people is too bad, it must not be the last. Therefore, the relationship needs the efforts of both parties to operate. So, what should we do if we are blackmailed by the other party? Let's get to know about how being blackmailed and deleted by the other side can teach you a way to save yourself, and how to save your dead girlfriend!
1. Add WeChat back through other excuses
If your predecessor blackens or deletes all of your things, you want to get back together with him, but you don't know how to find him. When you break up for a period of time, you need to take the initiative to test the other party, and let you have a little more intersection through some other excuses, so that you have reason to reconnect with him, and then you will have the opportunity to reunite.
2. Take the opportunity to recall your every bit
Because you must be very sweet before breaking up, it's better to remember every bit of your time together and think about your happy time at that time in your relatively rigid time, so that the other party can rekindle hope and desire for you, and will have the idea of getting back together with you.
3. Create a good attitude
Because you must be very sweet before breaking up, it's better to remember every bit of your time together and think about your happy time at that time in your relatively rigid time, so that the other party can rekindle hope and desire for you, and will have the idea of getting back together with you.
Being blackmailed and deleted by the other party can be saved by this move:
1. It can be found in group chat. If you and the other party were in a group, you can go to the group to find a friend's business card, and then add a friend again. Because no matter whether it is deletion or blackout, if the other party does not agree, there is no way for us to add the other party back.
2. If there is no group before, you need to find one or two common friends you both have, and ask them to help you pull them into a group to become a three or four person group chat.
3. Then let your friends give you the group leader permission, and finally let them leave the group. At this time, only the two of you are left in the group, and you can start chatting.
4. The apology and explanation should be sincere. At the same time, click the other person's avatar, click Add to Address Book, and add her as a friend again.
Other recovery methods:
1. High success rate of telephone recall
Think about what you should say on the phone in advance, and then use another number to call the other party's phone. Give full play to it, and basically make things clear on the phone. If the other party refuses to communicate, try to make an appointment to speak in person. It's definitely not the way to make an appointment. We need to develop a good dating procedure to make a successful date.
2. Don't miss every opportunity
If the phone doesn't answer and WeChat continues to blackout, we can also try Alipay chat, Taobao chat, dithering, instant messaging, as well as various software that your target usually plays. You can send as long as there is a private messaging function. The key point is to stick to it rather than stick to it. Generally, after the other party has calmed down, they will think your approach is childish but also very cute, and they will basically be soft hearted.
3. Find the right time
If the online approach doesn't work, then move to offline, take advantage of opportunities such as friends' dinner parties or encounters, plan in advance the topics that should be discussed after the meeting, and make changes to understand why the other party is angry. You need to find problems and solve them to let the other party know that you value her.
The ways to redeem WeChat after being blackmailed and deleted by the other party include not indulging in your feelings, recognizing the problem, taking action, etc.
1. Don't indulge in your emotions too much
When you are clear headed, you need to digest and understand the whole event and your own feelings. Although you may feel sad, lost and uncomfortable, it is meaningless to indulge in your emotions excessively. If you want to restore the friendship, you need to analyze the problems in the relationship and take positive action.
2. Recognize the problem
When you find that you have been blackmailed, you need to reflect on whether there are any problems in your past exchanges. If there are problems, they need to be seriously reflected and changed. We must admit that we have made mistakes and find ways to improve ourselves.
At the same time, you can also express your sincerity and apology to the other party, such as "I'm sorry that my behavior made you feel uncomfortable", "I will correct my mistakes", and gradually restore the relationship between the two people in this way.
3. Take action
After recognizing the problem, appropriate actions need to be taken. First, you can contact each other through other social media platforms, such as Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, etc. Secondly, you can communicate with the other party through SMS, telephone or direct interview, especially direct interview can better express your feelings and attitudes.
Why WeChat was blackmailed by the other party
1. Excessive pursuit and frequent messages
On WeChat, if you are too ambitious and send messages frequently, the other person may be bored and may blackmail you.
2. Inappropriate content
If you say some inappropriate words or send some inappropriate pictures or videos during the chat, the other person may feel uncomfortable, and then pull you black.
3. No response
If you express your feelings or thoughts to the other party on WeChat, but the other party does not get a response, you may feel lost, and the other party may also pull you black.
