When we send a message to him, the key is that we should make him think that you attach great importance to this relationship, I believe that if he still has your place in his heart, he will be willing to give you a chance. Now let's introduce how to send messages to recover after breaking up?
How to send messages to recover after breaking up? What's better to save your boyfriend?
1. When you send a message to your boyfriend, you must fully reflect your true feelings and make him feel that you are in pain when you break up with him. We can tell him that when I watch you slowly pull your suitcase away from me, my heart suddenly seems to be hollowed out, because I feel that no matter what difficulties I face in the future, I must move forward alone.
2. In the days when you left me, I not only didn't sleep well, but also didn't eat a full meal. I feel even more painful when I think of your kindness to me. Later I learned that I could not live without you.
3. No matter how fierce the quarrel between us is, I can't stand it without you. Without you, I will feel like a dying ember. The sky is not so blue. So until now, I really realize the importance of you. I really realize that you are good to me. Come back. I will treat you twice for the rest of my life, I will use all my love to make you feel romantic with me again.
4. Your leaving makes it very difficult for me to breathe in this city, so I decided to leave this city tomorrow and go to a strange city. Maybe in the days without you, it will let me grow up slowly and let me live the life I want, but now I want to end this relationship.
5. The beginning and end of every love is not particularly easy, but if you regret the end of this relationship now, we will do everything to find each other again.
Only we can make the other party feel the pain after you leave him. Now you are eager for him to come back. If he still has your position, if he has the intention to save this relationship, he will certainly take your determination very seriously. After all, there is a person who loves you waiting. This is your heart. Now we send him a piece of confidence, which can let him treat this relationship and rekindle hope, so this is very important for your salvation. In fact, although two people are seemingly firm when they are together, and their attitude when they break up is also firm, when we rationally face this relationship, there will be a lot of reluctance. Even if they have given up, they will try their best to bring him back to you.
To save a man, you must first accept the fact that you have broken up.
Express that you have changed and share something that the other person is interested in. The number of words is less than 500. You can't express your love for him, only your promotion. In the letter, you should apologize for your immature and impulsive behavior, and show your understanding of the breakup proposed by the other party.
In the letter, you indirectly encourage the other party to take the initiative to contact you. When you send the prepared gift and seed letter, you cannot take the initiative to contact the other party, but wait for the other party to take the initiative to contact you. You have written a seed recovery letter to the other party before, but at this time the negative impression of the other party on you has not been completely eliminated. At this time, you need to send a second letter - growth letter.
Phase II
The letter can further eliminate the bad feelings after your breakup. If the other party still likes to answer you, the letter can make the other party pay more attention to you. It can be said that the letter is the catalyst for your recombination. Express that you have accepted the fact that you broke up, and emphasize that you only write this letter as a friend. Show that you have changed and improved, share something that interests or excites the other party, and indicate that these things have made progress or achieved success.
The length shall not be too long and negative energy shall not be expressed. Fangliang can only convey what you said in the seed letter before, that is, you have improved, changed and achieved. Give your predecessor a step and let him contact you actively. When sending the growth letter, attach your recently changed photos and mail them together. You can't contact your predecessor after mailing it. You should wait for the other party to contact you.
1. How to start a chat
After breaking up, when chatting with the other party again, how to make the opening remarks is a key issue. Because for those who break up, both men and women are eager to know what their life will be like after they leave.
So some people will use this as the opening line. Generally, there are two types of opening lines: selling miserably or ridiculing.
Sad type: "After breaking up, I found that I really can't leave you. Everything is in a mess. I'm not living well at all. Would you like to come back?"
The mocking type: "Well, do you regret breaking up with me? Do you feel that life is meaningless without me? If you are like this, you will break up with me. Nobody will want you except me, OK!
It is not suitable to be used as a prologue to chat after a breakup, whether it is selling miserably or ridiculing, because this way will make him feel disgusted, and then he will not want to continue talking with you. Even if the other person really has a little regret, he will be teased by your ridiculing attitude.
The correct way should be to greet each other naturally, and let the other party feel that you have accepted the breakup in your heart, and chat only out of the greetings and concerns of ordinary friends. For example, how are things going recently? You said you would change your job. How about your new job? Using words of similar concern as the prologue will make the other party lower their psychological defense against you and create a relaxed chat atmosphere.
2. The chat content is particular
In the process of recovery, it is easy for some people to make a mistake that when the relationship with the other party is slightly relaxed, they like to talk about the past two people together. Some even use the opportunity of reconnection to accuse and complain about the other party's previous behavior, and think about it from another perspective. If you are the party who has been recovered, How would it feel to hear such accusations?
Do you think the other party is coming to recover or find fault? Or "I am such a person in your heart. Since you think I am so bad and so bad, there is no need to contact me. Delete it!".
Contact again is not to let you take this opportunity to vent your dissatisfaction with him. It is the beginning of two people to establish connection and attraction again, so. It's hard to mention the past when chatting. It's not suitable to mention it at this time, whether it's sweet or hurt.
Since we can't talk about the past, what should we say to each other when we contact again? You can talk about your current life situation, or talk about your current plans and future plans. These topics can let the other party see the changes after your breakup, stimulate their interest, and at the same time can give him a kind of: after the breakup, she had a wonderful life, neither decadent nor corrupt, it seems that she is not necessary to me.
When you are very positive about your life and full of plans, men will feel a little lost and will be attracted again by your ambition.
