To recover a woman who is disappointed in you, first find out the reason why she is disappointed in you, and then make herself better. Of course, in this recovery process, don't rush for success, learn to think in terms of empathy, let the girl see hope in you again, and she will turn back and continue with you.
1. Find out why she is disappointed in you
There must be a reason why a woman is disappointed in you. She will not lose her temper to you for no reason. It must be a huge disappointment accumulated by too many disappointments.
For a man, in the process of recovering his beloved woman, he might as well calm down and think about why a woman has such a bad impression on you, then correct this shortcoming as soon as possible, and believe that women will love you again as before.
2. Make yourself better
To make oneself better, whether externally or internally, is essential for men to save women. If a man wants a woman to turn around, he must have something different. For a woman, she wants to see a better you, a person who excites her. And these need a man's efforts in advance.
3. Don't rush for success
To save a person who loved you, don't be too impatient. Don't let her think you can't stand being alone. You want to save her quickly. Let her think that you are a patient person. No matter how long he is willing to pursue your steps, because you are the person he loves. No matter how much time you spend, you are willing to find the person you love.
4. Learn to think in terms of position
After you break up, you should not rush to recover, because that will only make the relationship more rigid. You should understand why she is disappointed with you and why she is unwilling to continue with you. It is better to use empathy to consider the reasons.
Some boys don't know the reason after breaking up, even think that girls make trouble without reason. In fact, they don't think from the standpoint of girls. As long as they know a little bit of empathy, it is possible to restore their feelings, rather than let the girl leave disappointed.
5. Let the other party see hope
The girl has been extremely disappointed with you, so she chose to leave. In this case, you must have done something wrong, which caused her a psychological gap. For example, you used to let her do everything, but now you are unwilling to give in everywhere, which makes her unable to accept such changes and lose hope for the future of the relationship, so she chose to leave.
In such a situation, you should let the other party see hope. She will be willing to return to you and continue to operate the relationship between two people only when she sees hope in you.
The reference method for how to recover a woman who has been disappointed in you is as follows:
1. Reflection and integration
Don't take any chances any more. The only way for a person who is really wrong to change people's view of him is to correct his own mistakes.
2. Identify needs
Never think that she is disappointed in you, and you will be useless to him.
The girl is just disappointed. She is not a fool. Who would be with a person who doesn't like her at all and only disappoints her? Disappointments are accumulated, and what supports you to get along is that you must have a point that can attract her. What is needed is to find this point, and then enlarge it,
3. Edge contact
When we begin to reflect and improve our own value laterally, the possibility that the other party will pay attention to us is great.
Because one slap can't make a sound. Even if she is disappointed with you, don't feel that after the breakup, you are the only one who is sad. The other party must also pay attention to you at some uncomfortable moment.
However, the huge sense of contrast caused by your change is easy to make her question the breakup, which is a complex emotion for the other party.
Mixed with doubts, regret, self blame and so on. Generally speaking, she may not have the intention of getting back together with you at this time, but it is already acceptable for her to get along properly and let you continue to exist in the life circle. Therefore, it is necessary to start a tentative marginal contact and first step back into her life circle.
4. Reverse the impression and create new attraction
After returning to each other's life circle, never rush to bring up the topic of feelings. Because at this time, your negative impression in the other person's mind has not completely disappeared, even if it has completely disappeared, it does not mean that you like it. Therefore, we need to stop communication. In this limited communication, let the other party experience the existence of our changing facts, which is easy to attract the other party's deeper attention to us. On this node, increase the "content input" to the "common communication platform". For example, show more exquisite life in the circle of friends. Compared with previous changes, foreign trade, clothing, life fun and rules.
Our previous efforts need to be implemented at this stage. In this stage, communication must not be excessive. It needs to be concise and valuable. It can make the other party feel relaxed, so that they can let go of their bad feelings.
5. Apologize frankly
After a period of time together, the new intimate relationship you have established can support you to face the previous problems. At this time, you need to sincerely apologize to the other party. This apology is owed to the other party before, for the interruption of just breaking up, and for yourself who has always given the other party a bad emotional experience. When the other party accepts your apology, it indicates that both of you have cut off the old intimate relationship, which means that both of you have begun to acquiesce and accept the new intimate relationship.
6. Strengthen intimacy
Of course, what is strengthened is your newly created intimate relationship. At this time, it is not necessary to properly mention the past events to remind each other of their memories. What we are doing is still a new way of getting along, to dispel the disappointment of the other party. The lack of feelings between you is not rigid. The less disappointed you are, the easier it will become to feel the same for you.
What you need to create is an environment that is valuable enough, desirable enough, and easy enough for girls to rely on your new image.
The girls' disappointment in you
1. I don't care about you anymore
Love is selfish and mutual. When two people are together, the woman usually not only cares too much about your daily life, but also cares too much about other aspects of you, so she can integrate herself into the role of your wife. But when she no longer constrains you, no longer cares about you, you feel free, no longer cares about your affairs, no longer reminds you to stop playing mobile phones late at night, and no longer cares about your life. That means she is really disappointed in you and doesn't want to control you anymore.
2. No more initiative to find you
When you like a person, you want to stick to him every day, share your feelings with him every day, and send him a lot of information every day. Even if you are angry, the big thing is to send you a lot of facial expressions to bomb you.
When she is disappointed in you, she will not contact you, send messages to you, contact you and want to know your information. So boys must pay attention when girls become indifferent to you. Many things can not be changed once or twice, but once they change, it is difficult to recover.
3. Ignore your contact with the opposite sex
When you love someone, you can't hold any sand in your eyes. How can the person you like be willing to share it with others? Even if you look at it, you feel lost, because love is selfish.
But when she doesn't love you, it doesn't matter who you love, no longer jealous, no longer likes to look at your mobile phone. It has also become no longer dependent on you, and will no longer make trouble for you. When you contact the opposite sex, you will not ask who that person was, what your relationship was, and how she likes you.
4. Delete your information
Only when a person is really disappointed with you can he show up, delete all your relevant information, pull black, forget you and start again. So when you find that one day you can no longer contact her, that means you really have no chance.
