What will happen if a person does not fit in with others for a long time
Not being sociable at work
At work, a person stays in front of the computer and can't say a few words a day. He has little or no communication with other colleagues. At the meeting, I sat in the corner silently, as if nothing had anything to do with him, just like a stranger. If we have to communicate when we have to, we will only jump out a word or two and do things perfunctorily. The boundary between work focus and work incoherence is actually in communication, and identification and distinction should be simple.
Non working and unsocial
Working lunch is always a person, and you can't see him with other partners. Team gatherings, team activities, all kinds of excuses to refuse, and never see his participation, as if it does not exist.
What are the hazards of being out of group?
New colleagues are not sociable
Then he will not be able to integrate into the team, communicate with colleagues very little, and his work ability will be improved slowly, even without any improvement, which will affect his smooth passing of the probation period and even his career.
Old colleagues are not sociable
Then he will be gradually forgotten by the team and gradually isolated by his colleagues, and he will become dispensable. He will not feel the value of his existence and the warmth of the team, and he will become more isolated.
In modern society, it is impossible for people to leave the group if they want to develop in an all-round way. There are friends outside, colleagues at work, and no matter where they are, they will not be lonely. However, there will always be people who do not fit in with the group, and many people who do not fit in with the group will make us very tired. We will live alone, not contact with ordinary people, and have no idea of their life, These are the reasons why some people always don't fit in with others:
1. Introverted. He is not good at expressing himself. No matter where he is, he is very inconspicuous. He does not dare to express his opinions and requirements. He does not like to communicate with strangers. His popularity is bad. He is a boring person who does not say a word.
2. Unreasonable. It is the same principle to make friends and deal with colleagues. People who are not gregarious are more indifferent, unreasonable and unreasonable.
3. Enjoy being alone. One person goes to work, one person sleeps, one person deals with all things. His personality suffers from serious illness, he stubbornly sticks to his own world, escapes from reality and responsibility.
In a word, people who do not fit in with others are people who will not be liked by the society and will be abandoned by the society. People who are lonely, lonely, proud, and angry are not able to become useful people in society. Even in some cases, they will do something harmful to society and deny themselves to society!
When entering the workplace for the first time, many new employees are always full of why and don't know about things in the workplace. At this time, we should know more about the hidden rules of the workplace in order to better conduct ourselves and deal with colleagues.
1、 Grasp the concept of time.
New comers must keep in mind that you should adapt to the workplace rules and company systems as soon as possible, especially those highlighted by HR. Among them, the concept of time is particularly important. No matter which company you are in, you'd better not be late for work just now. This will give people a bad impression. At the same time, keep in mind the completion time of the task given by the leader. Since the leader has given orders, it must be completed in strict accordance with this time, and must not be delayed.
2、 Keep your mouth shut and don't gossip.
When you first enter the workplace, you must remember one thing: keep your mouth shut and try not to gossip. As a newcomer to the workplace, you should first do your job well, instead of gossiping or even gossiping with others all day long. As the saying goes, curiosity kills cats. On the one hand, eavesdropping and gossip are not good habits, and even make some colleagues dislike or even hate you; On the other hand, sometimes your gossip is heard by the boss, and his impression of you will be greatly reduced.
3、 Never complain in front of others.
In the workplace, we should try to deal with work and problems with a positive attitude, which is the best way to complete tasks efficiently. We all know that everyone has bad mood and bad state, which is inevitable. However, if you have complaints and emotions, you'd better not show them in front of others, or they will be easily caught and reported. Although you think it's nothing, once the critical moment comes, these little tricks will also make villains give you a fatal blow in front of leaders.
In the workplace, there are many benefits for new employees to learn more about the hidden rules.
