What to do with being introverted and not talkative? I believe that most of the time people are unwilling to be labeled as "introverted", which makes people feel less sociable and difficult to get along with. Now let's follow me to see what to do with being introverted and not talkative. I hope it can help everyone.
1. Change psychology
Introverted people tend not to like to talk much by nature. If you want to change yourself, the first thing to do is to change your mentality. First, start from the people around you, and communicate with them more. It is the first step that must be completed to overcome the blush and embarrassment of speaking and make speaking a very natural thing.
2. Express yourself truthfully
Often many introverts are afraid of communicating with others, always trying to figure out what others mean, and afraid of saying the wrong thing. In fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence. You don't need to be so cautious. You should put too much pressure on yourself and really express your ideas.
3. Change the inferiority complex
The biggest reason why people who have social barriers and often feel inferior is that they don't like to talk. Introverted people often have various degrees of inferiority. The solution is to be aware of your mentality and adjust yourself slowly.
4. The vicious circle caused by poor expression ability
Often the heart is bright and clear, but because of poor expression ability, it has caused some embarrassment and other people's jokes, and as a result, he becomes more inferiority complex and unwilling to speak. If this is the case, you can practice communicating with people in a familiar environment, slow down in conversation, and express your meaning cleanly. If there are people who laugh at you, why should they care about their eyes? They are even less qualified and more low. Don't feel inferior because of such people.
5. Increase your knowledge
Increase your own knowledge. All kinds of insights are the source of self-confidence. The best way is to read more. Whether it is domestic and foreign classics or current affairs news, learn more at your spare time. Otherwise, when someone is talking about something and you don't know anything, you can't get in touch.
6. I examine myself three times a day
Every night, I will give myself a brief summary of who I talked to today, how others reacted, why I didn't answer the question, and how to deal with it more perfectly.
Make yourself humorous:
1. When you narrate an interesting story, don't be eager to show the results. You should be calm. You should show the power of humor with a unique tone and dramatic plot. Before the most critical sentence is uttered, it should create a suspense for the audience.
2. When you tell a joke, every pause, every special tone of voice, every corresponding expression, gesture and body posture should help to exert the power of humor. Emphasize the important words, and use the techniques of stress and pause to promote the audience's thinking and deepen the audience's impression.
3. The funny and funny language must be used according to the specific object, specific situation and specific context, without making the words out of time.
4. Don't laugh when you tell a joke, which is the most unpopular. At the end of each speech, it is better to stimulate the whole audience to smile from their hearts.
Introversion is a character trait. First of all, by increasing your self-confidence, you can make yourself more flexible in dealing with all kinds of problems. In particular, you should actively communicate with others to express your thoughts and emotions in an orderly manner, which will make you more confident. In addition, you should learn more about relevant content, and be able to pick up topics when chatting with others, so that others will pay special attention to you, so this introversion will also be improved.
The other thing is to make more friends. Making friends often leads to more topics. This will allow you to participate more in it, improve your self-confidence, socialize more, and often improve your introverted personality.
1. Read more books and learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships
Expression and communication are not innate. When you look at others who are so eloquent, they actually make a lot of efforts, but you just don't see it. Therefore, you can read more books about interpersonal relationships, and use them in practice to express yourself actively. You will find that you are also good at communication.
2. Try to improve yourself
Not talkative is not an introverted performance, and talkative is not an extroverted performance. Many people are introverted and do not like to talk, often inferiority and cowardice. The reason why I feel inferior is that I am not strong enough. At this time, we need to work hard to improve ourselves. After becoming stronger, you will find that nothing is a problem.
3. Keep an optimistic attitude and smile at yourself every day
Look at everything in a positive manner and always smile at your friends. People who love to laugh are generally popular.
4. Believe that you are unique
We should know where our strengths and weaknesses are, and then we should give full play to our strengths and overcome our weaknesses. In fact, being introverted is not a disadvantage. The disadvantage is that you can't express your true ideas correctly. Being indecisive, following others, timid and cowardly is a disadvantage.
So don't worry about your introversion. What you need to worry about is how to improve yourself.
