Male leaders look at you as everyone knows. Romance in the office is very common. When one likes you, he wants everyone around to know. Next, I collected some relevant information about male leaders looking at you as everyone knows. I hope it can help everyone!
1. Body orientation
No matter how he smiles and speaks beautifully, if you want to know whether he likes you, please look at his body orientation first. Even if his upper body leans towards you when he is sitting, as long as his feet are facing in the opposite direction to you, or are folded properly, it means that his heart has not been given to you yet. If you are standing talking, observe the distance between the two people. Generally speaking, an intimate distance is within 50 cm. But, wait a minute to draw a conclusion. Look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, do you hold your arms? If not, he is not alert to you.
2. Farewell performance
We are about to break up. For example, we have arrived at the station, and you walk away in two directions. After two or three steps, does he turn around to see you? If he goes away without looking back, it means that you are just friends.
3. The eyes don't lie
First, ask him the simplest question, what he likes to eat and what he doesn't like to eat. At this time, you should observe his sight. NLP, which studies neural language, has a set of vision theory, which believes that when people have two emotions, like and dislike, the direction of their eyes is unconscious, but it is specific.
4. SMS frequency
You are still trying to find out your mind. Try sending a text message that has nothing to do with work or business. If you reply immediately, it means that you want to do the same with each other; If you reply within two or three hours and add something like "busy with work, sorry to see it", you can continue to pursue. On the contrary, I suggest you give up.
Office romance is particularly interesting. When a male boss is attracted to a female subordinate, he will pay special attention to her. His concern will be expressed in words. Colleagues can see that he is attracted to her and often tease them.
When a male boss likes a female subordinate, he will have these specific performances:
1. I will attach great importance to you, always give you the opportunity to show yourself, and give you the work that can make achievements.
Not only will you be entrusted with the work that can produce results, but also will personally teach you to do it. If the task assigned to you cannot be completed on time, he will actively help you to complete it.
2. When I talk to you, my tone will be very special, and I often make some ambiguous jokes.
When a male boss likes a female subordinate, his tone of voice with you will be different from others. Sometimes it is imperative, sometimes it is joking, and when joking with you, it can make people feel ambiguous.
3. Create opportunities to work overtime with you, and always take you to participate in various work entertainment for various reasons.
I often accompany you to work overtime so that I can spend more time with you. I always take you with me when I go out to socialize.
4. I care about your every move, especially your life. I often care about whether you have breakfast. I will ask whether you slept well last night and what you were busy with at the weekend.
I care about your life. I often find various reasons to bring you breakfast. When I work overtime, I will prepare snacks for you. In the evening, I will not trust you to catch the subway and always send you home in person.
If your male leader is chasing you, but he makes everyone know, it may be because he has committed the taboo of office love. Although office love is not illegal or immoral, it may have a negative impact on the working environment, especially when the love relationship becomes unhealthy or unstable.
The following are some reasons that may lead to his success:
1. He wants to be recognized and supported. In some cases, people may get praise and support from their colleagues or superiors after they open their love relationship.
2. He may want to express his sincerity and seriousness to you. By making the unit known to everyone, he may want to let you know how serious he is to you, so as to show you his sincerity.
3. He may want to relieve his pressure. In some cases, people may feel nervous or uneasy because they are not sure whether they should tell their colleagues or superiors about their relationship. If he makes his love relationship known, he may feel more relaxed and comfortable.
4. He may want to put pressure on you. In some cases, people may bring pressure to you by making the company known to everyone, so that you can feel the pressure from the workplace and colleagues, and force you to accept his pursuit.
If he does not disclose the love relationship in an appropriate way, it may cause unnecessary trouble and negative impact to you and the whole team. If you feel uncomfortable or harassed, please ask your supervisor or HR department for help in a timely manner.
