The more beautiful a woman is, the harder the workplace is. The rules of interpersonal communication are also very important. When looking for a job, you must pay attention to politeness. Improving your ability is the top priority. It is also important to learn to let go of your workplace pressure. The more beautiful a woman is, the harder the workplace is. Have you learned?
【1】 When dealing with male leaders, we should respect ourselves.
It is easy to be envious to interact with leaders. Especially for those beautiful women, if they do not know self-respect and self love and become playthings when interacting with leaders, especially male leaders, they will only become targets of attack. At work, people will be more and more crowded out and eventually isolated.
【2】 Take the initiative to treat friends around you warmly
The more those who have a very good external image, the more time they spend in the workplace, the more they communicate with everyone in a noble attitude, the more annoying they are. Don't think that you can do whatever you want if you have a good face. As time goes by, no matter how high your face is, it will disappear in the wind. If you can be more active and enthusiastic towards your friends around you, you can gather a group of friends better with your superior external image.
【3】 Strong sense of time
After all, the workplace is a workplace, and we must have a relatively rigorous concept of time. If you actively touch these rules just because you have superior appearance conditions, then not only your colleagues, your leaders, but also the whole company will reject your existence.
【4】 Be polite in the workplace
Politeness is the most basic etiquette in the workplace, which is indispensable. No matter how beautiful the appearance is, if there is no interior, it is just an empty shell. So without this, sooner or later you will lose your heart and be isolated by others.
In the workplace, we always see some people who are particularly good-looking, and many people envy these people from the bottom of their hearts. After all, having a very good appearance is a natural advantage.
Secondly, to be honest, people who are particularly good-looking are really born with good luck. As long as they are able to live a little, they are definitely better than people who are not good-looking or ordinary. Who doesn't like the person beside him who is attractive? Even leaders will pay more attention to this person. With good looks and enough brains, such people will take more or less care of in the workplace. After all, in addition to the appearance at first glance, the contact between people still depends on the way they behave. Whether it is boys or girls, looking good in the workplace really needs to struggle for many years less than others.
Finally, I can be sure that being beautiful must be a plus. However, it also depends on what type it belongs to, whether it is suitable or not, whether it is competent, talented, beautiful, able to handle things, and modest. After entering the workplace, everyone will put on a mask for themselves. After all, the workplace is not a place to make friends or make friends. Of course, some people are simple, but others have a deep mind. They can cover up their true thoughts. They are not happy or angry. They are deep and introverted. They usually do good to others, but they can secretly remove obstacles.
1. Not easy to express their opinions
If you say your opinion in advance, that is to say your position. Once your position is stated, it is hard to change it easily. Usually, they don't talk much. Before they speak, they must go through it in their head. When they express their opinions, they usually speak when the situation is clear and certain. When the situation is unclear, they do not move.
2. Observation details
People who are resourceful and have a city government will pay great attention to the details around them. They often think about their cause and effect relationship, what is the motivation of some people's behavior, and what is the reason for saying these words. They will consider the reasons behind them. Anyway, they think more than others. But after entering the workplace, most people will pay attention to the details. If they don't pay attention, they will be punished.
3. Bedding first
When doing things and speaking, we always have the foreshadowing. When doing things, we should first do the basic work well, and then do things after everything is in place; Some people don't think they can do things that far away. They are straightforward and ask the leader for instructions after they have problems.
4. Avoiding problems
People with Chengfu will not aggravate problems and contradictions, but will be gentle and gentle. They can either avoid problems or try to solve them slowly. In any case, they will not aggravate contradictions.
In this society, if you are too simple and easily trapped by others, it will be difficult to survive.
In life, we often see such things. If a woman sits in a high position and her face is just above the average level, then some gossip will spread among her colleagues. Even if the woman's ability is really outstanding, someone will always treat her son with a mean heart.
Gossip is the second workplace crisis that beautiful girls face. This is the negative impact of beauty. Their ability is covered by their faces. Compared with the name of strong women, ordinary people prefer to call this kind of person a vase.
Many people think that beautiful people must be very popular. In fact, it is not the case. Girls are naturally hostile to girls who are more beautiful than themselves. No matter when they are promoted or when they make a boyfriend, no one wants to see a person whose face is higher than their own and then take away everyone's attention.
Colleague relationship is the third workplace crisis faced by beautiful girls. For new beautiful female colleagues, narrow-minded people always like to gossip, which makes it more difficult for beautiful girls to stand in the new environment.
Three points about the workplace crisis of high appearance are mentioned. What kind of crisis will you encounter if your appearance is low? The answer is: for people with low face value, there are crises everywhere, otherwise how can they despair of the face seeing world?
Beautiful women have more troubles in the workplace
1、 The beautiful appearance easily reminds recruiters of vases.
Although this is not fair, it is often the case. Especially when a beautiful girl does not play well when applying for a job, the recruiter will firmly confirm his assumption that "she is a vase". So they would appreciate the beauty of this MM and kindly comfort her that they would call her if she passed, so they sent her away.
2、 There are many temptations that cause beautiful girls to be distracted, which will affect her ability to learn real skills.
On campus, school flower and class flower have always been the favorite of stars holding the moon. A girl with outstanding appearance needs considerable willpower to calm down and play basic skills well alone. As a result, many attractive MM's professional courses are sloppy, or worse, and they can't even get their degree certificates. The human resources department of some large companies attaches great importance to school achievements; An unattractive transcript will cover up the light of a beautiful face.
3、 Girls with outstanding appearance often have high morale
Of course, there is also an outstanding person in the university who can make early contact with the society; But most of the students are still a blank sheet of paper when they walk out of the ivory tower. Their experience of tutoring and working in summer is very thin and green in the eyes of the companies they apply for; It's not easy to get the position you want at the beginning. So there is a saying: "It is not difficult to find a job, but it is difficult to find the job you want.". The beautiful MM, with her lovely appearance, often enjoys the care of many parties, so she has a greater chance of being impetuous, and always wants to achieve it overnight. So when the senior year is over and everyone rolls up their bedding to go home for a year and a half, they will get together again. If there is a girl student who is still hanging around without work, you see, it is usually the prettier girl in the class.
4、 Many beautiful girls are insensitive to opportunities.
The principle is the same as Article 3. Beautiful MM is easy to be taken extra care of. Even when she goes to the canteen, someone rushes to help her cook. She gets used to it. As time goes by, she may be a little silly. In front of a rare position, they will not be particularly alert and enthusiastic. After all, finding a job is not as simple as going to the canteen to eat. There are not so many people to let you; If you don't grab it, more active people will try to win it away. So beautiful girls should pay attention, don't miss the opportunity because of your carelessness.
5、 Beautiful appearance is likely to cause insecurity in the unit.
The beautiful MM will certainly shine when applying for a job, but it will also make people think: "It's so beautiful, there must be a lot of opportunities, won't it be too secure, and will leave after a few days? I'd better not have her, so as not to delay the quota"...... In this regard, sisters and sisters can only pay attention to their own expressions and clothes when applying for a job. Try to look calm and reliable, and the side effects of this beauty will disappear.
6、 Recruit a lecher boss
The beauties who just leave the campus must pay attention to the job trap and avoid the scum who takes advantage of recruitment to act like a wolf. The weird job, which only demands appearance and is highly paid, may tempt beautiful girls, but it is better not to go. There are also those lecherous bosses who are manipulative in their work. Beautiful girls are more likely to encounter this situation than ordinary girls. Don't patronize and sigh about how lucky they are. Take measures now.
7、 It may cause resistance of female interviewers when applying for jobs
This kind of situation is rare, but it happens occasionally. The other person may not be totally petty. Sometimes the subconscious of same-sex repulsion will affect her judgment of you, a beautiful candidate, and make her feel that you are not pleasing to her. This is a natural disaster for beautiful girls.
8、 Poor ability to withstand pressure
The proliferation of "beauty economy" will inevitably lead to colored glasses and beautiful girls who are much more comfortable than ordinary people; The psychological endurance can not be exercised, and it is easy to collapse in the work, so it is impossible to pass the probation period.
9、 Team spirit
PLMM who wanted wind and rain on campus could not hide their grievances and immediately turned into downpour; Probably can't bear hardships...... The way to find a job has become particularly difficult.
10、 There is the possibility of directly changing from a favored child to a canary
To have real dignity and rights, it is impossible to be economically independent. Unfortunately, some students have been studying in vain for many years, but they can't understand it. Of course, the greater possibility is that they are lazy... Let's not talk about the family gnawing elders. For those MM who get married after graduation and work as a full-time wife at home, most of them are beautiful women. They don't even want to find jobs, and their beauty gives them a chance to be lazy; Of course, there is no advantage in job hunting.
