Introversion is a character trait. First of all, by increasing your self-confidence, you can make yourself more flexible in dealing with all kinds of problems. In particular, you should actively communicate with others to express your thoughts and emotions in an orderly manner, which will make you more confident. In addition, you should learn more about relevant content, and be able to pick up topics when chatting with others, so that others will pay special attention to you, so this introversion will also be improved.
The other thing is to make more friends. Making friends often leads to more topics. This will allow you to participate more in it, improve your self-confidence, socialize more, and often improve your introverted personality.
1. Read more books and learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships
Expression and communication are not innate. When you look at others who are so eloquent, they actually make a lot of efforts, but you just don't see it. Therefore, you can read more books about interpersonal relationships, and use them in practice to express yourself actively. You will find that you are also good at communication.
2. Try to improve yourself
Not talkative is not an introverted performance, and talkative is not an extroverted performance. Many people are introverted and do not like to talk, often inferiority and cowardice. The reason why I feel inferior is that I am not strong enough. At this time, we need to work hard to improve ourselves. After becoming stronger, you will find that nothing is a problem.
3. Keep an optimistic attitude and smile at yourself every day
Look at everything in a positive manner and always smile at your friends. People who love to laugh are generally popular.
4. Believe that you are unique
We should know where our strengths and weaknesses are, and then we should give full play to our strengths and overcome our weaknesses. In fact, being introverted is not a disadvantage. The disadvantage is that you can't express your true ideas correctly. Being indecisive, following others, timid and cowardly is a disadvantage.
So don't worry about your introversion. What you need to worry about is how to improve yourself.
Introverted people are not good at communicating with others, so they often lose many opportunities in their daily life and work, which is bad for their own development Therefore, it is necessary for introverts to improve their introverts so that their life and work conditions can be better developed. Specifically, to improve their introverted personality, they need to establish self-confidence and dare to show themselves in front of others, overcome the influence of introverted personality and actively communicate with others, and dare to express their ideas and practice when encountering problems.
1. To improve the introversion, first of all, build self-confidence and dare to show yourself in front of others.
In order to improve their introversion, they should first establish self-confidence and dare to show themselves in front of others Introverted people often lack self-confidence, dare not express themselves in front of others, or even dare not associate with others. Such a state will have a great impact on themselves Therefore, if you want to overcome your introversion, you must dare to show yourself in front of others. The key is to build self-confidence.
2. Overcome the influence of introversion and take the initiative to communicate with others.
The most direct problem for introverted people is that they are not good at communicating with others, or even dare not communicate with others. This will create barriers between introverted people and others, and they will not be able to integrate into the team, which is extremely detrimental to the life and work of introverted people Therefore, if you want to solve the problem of introversion, you must actively communicate with others to gradually overcome the problem of introversion and make yourself cheerful.
3. When encountering problems, you should dare to express your ideas and practice.
For introverted people, they may have very good solutions when they encounter problems, but they lose the opportunity to show themselves because they dare not express themselves If you want to solve the problem of introversion, you should dare to express your own ideas when encountering problems, and dare to practice, and use your own practical actions to solve problems. This is a complete solution to the impact of introversion on yourself, so that you can establish a new proactive personality state, and make your life and work have a better development state.
Ways to change introversion:
1、 Change psychology
Introverted people tend not to like to talk much by nature. If you want to change yourself, the first thing to do is to change your mentality. First, start from the people around you, and communicate with them more. It is the first step that must be completed to overcome the blush and embarrassment of speaking and make speaking a very natural thing.
2、 Express yourself truthfully
Often many introverts are afraid of communicating with others, always trying to figure out what others mean, and afraid of saying the wrong thing. In fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence. You don't need to be so cautious. You should put too much pressure on yourself and really express your ideas.
3、 Change the inferiority complex
The biggest reason why people with social barriers do not like to talk is their inferiority complex. Introverted people often have various degrees of inferiority. The solution is to be aware of your mentality and adjust yourself slowly.
4、 The vicious circle caused by poor expression ability
Often the heart is bright and clear, but because of poor expression ability, it has caused some embarrassment and jokes. As a result, I become more inferiority complex and unwilling to speak. If this is the case, you can try to practice communicating with people in a familiar environment, slow down in conversation and express your meaning clearly. If there are people who laugh at you, why should they care about their eyes? They are even more inferior and have nothing to do with you. Don't feel inferior because of such people.
