The top ten behaviors that men don't care about you are:
1. He is indifferent to your affairs.
2. He is always perfunctory, unwilling to spend time and energy to care about your feelings and needs.
3. He often ignores your opinions and needs, regardless of your feelings.
4. He often makes excuses to avoid being with you and not sharing his life and feelings with you.
5. He seldom takes the initiative to contact you, and does not often call or text you.
6. He often ignores your requests and requirements and will not respect your wishes and feelings.
7. He will not be there when you need help and support, and will not provide you with any help and support.
8. He will not work hard for your feelings and is unwilling to face difficulties and challenges with you.
9. He often speaks loudly or sneers at you, regardless of your dignity and feelings.
10. He often ignores your efforts and will not appreciate your efforts and care.
When a man doesn't care about you, he may show some of the above behaviors. These performances will make you feel neglected or unimportant, and make you feel lonely and disappointed. If you think your man doesn't care about you, you can try to communicate with him to express your feelings and needs, hoping that he can change his behavior and care more about you.
The top ten behaviors that men don't care about are as follows:
1. I don't care about you anymore, but I'm perfunctory
In the past, when I frowned, he would feel distressed. Now when I cry in front of him, he would hate to hug you. You will obviously feel that your boyfriend does not care about you as much as he did before. Even if you are really in a bad mood, or even in danger, he never shows serious concern for you, let alone solve problems with you.
You often confide a lot of things to him seriously, eager for his comfort, but his attitude is perfunctory, and even shows impatience.
2. I don't care what you said
Of course, you can't ask the other party to remember any details, but if he can't remember important things, he doesn't care about you. You have told him many things five times, but he still goes in one ear and out the other; He can't remember anything about you, forget your preferences, and don't care about your bottom line, which often makes you feel that he doesn't know you well enough.
In fact, it's not that I can't understand or remember, but I'm too lazy to pay attention to you. From time to time when conflicts occur, it is I who think about how to solve problems and contradictions. And he just thought again and again about weighing the pros and cons. How can there be so many trade-offs in this world? It's just not enough to like and love.
3. Don't ask for you again
It is said that if a person really likes you, he will definitely find you. This sentence is more applicable to all lovers in love. That is to say, when you are in the pursuit period or ambiguous period, passivity can barely be used as an excuse for reserve, or "playing hard to get", but the relationship between the two parties has been passive, which only means that he does not want to find you on his own initiative.
You will find that he once wanted to talk to you every minute of every day, but now he not only disappears, but also rarely replies to your messages. He no longer shares his daily life with you and flirts with you; When you take the initiative to invite, he also takes the attitude of indifference, reluctance and even refusal; Responding to every message you send is as slow, brief and cold as a telegram.
4. Often get angry and lose patience with you
He begins to lose patience with you slowly. If he is a little unhappy, he will lose his temper with you. It is easy to quarrel and get angry at a little thing. They are willing to make you cry, disappoint you, and hurt you, such as quarreling with you often, not seriously preparing gifts for you, and choosing to sleep indifferent when you are sad.
The tolerance and tolerance of one person to another is positive to his liking. When he is angry, he doesn't care about any of your feelings, and says all kinds of hurtful words; Because he knows your weakness best, it is easy to hurt you through evil words.
You will find that you are subconsciously afraid of him: he is not satisfied, he is angry, he does not like you. These abnormal reactions are not caused by your problems, but by your feelings. His love for you has gradually decreased.
5. Start to pick your faults and laugh at your shortcomings
I gradually feel disgusted with you. I feel that you are not in good shape and can not dress up. I start to praise other girls in front of you wantonly and make fun of your shortcomings. Your self-esteem makes you feel inferior gradually, even that you don't deserve him. You start to think wildly, start to panic, and start to think about how to correct your own shortcomings, even at the expense of extreme ones, in order to get the other party's love.
6. He will assume a breakup
I will often mention the breakup with you in a hypothetical or joking way, and talk about their life after the breakup. In fact, the purpose is very simple. One is to test your reaction, and the other is to make you prepare mentally in advance, give you preventive shots, and prepare for future breakups.
7. I won't really feel sorry for you, only the benefits you can bring
You gradually find that he has become more and more. Once he cared more about your own emotions, but now he cares more about what emotions you can bring to him. He will not really think in your perspective, let alone be affected by your emotions. He only knows whether you are obedient and how much value you can bring to him.
If you wear a skirt in cold weather, he cares more about whether he looks beautiful than whether you wear too little or not. In fact, don't worry about such feelings. Girls must love themselves and learn to be independent. When you know how to love yourself correctly, you will suddenly find that there are many people around you who love you.
8. The attitude becomes indifferent and perfunctory
His attitude towards you is obviously different from that of men and women in normal love. He will disdain your enthusiasm, be too lazy to ask about your troubles, and start to muddle through everything about you. To you, he is more like an ordinary friend than a boyfriend. The psychological distance between you is getting farther and farther. It seems that there is a distant and impassable gap between you and him.
If you don't feel their love for you, you will feel that all your efforts are humble to the bone. You think that you are sympathetic to others, while your partner is just a malicious flatterer.
9. Meet your trends
When they once fell in love, he would keep many memories, old photos, souvenirs, and memories that both parties had experienced together, occasionally disclose your existence, and often show love in the circle of friends. But now, he not only disdains the memory of being with you, but also refuses any sense of ceremony with the excuse of "being an old husband and wife" when you ask for it.
He will also hide or have released your dynamic, to create the illusion of being single.
10. Will find excuses to end the chat
The person who doesn't love you will take a bath and wash all night, have a meal and eat all day, wake up at three in the afternoon, and say good night at eight. He will find various excuses to end the conversation with you on his own initiative. But once you open the game, you will find that the other party has started playing for ten minutes, and he is too lazy to lie.
In essence, he is not afraid that you will find his attitude towards you changed, nor that his behavior is too cruel, or even force you to break up in a cruel and violent way.
Care about your boyfriend
1. If you care about a person, you will be afraid of the tears of the person you love. If you are sad, his heart will hurt. If you don't care about a person, you will cry. What he gives you is also unintentional comfort.
2. People who care about you will not argue with you about whether you are more or he is less. As long as you are happy, his world will be happy. People who don't care about you think about how much you want, not how much you want.
3. People who care about you won't let you do things you don't like. People who don't care about you will only think about what they want to do.
4. People who care about you will take you to heart and will not allow outsiders to bully you. Even a word will make people blush. People who don't care about you will not care what others say about you. Everything in the world has nothing to do with me and will not affect themselves.
5. The person who cares about you will care about every word you say and the color of the gift you like. He will remember it clearly and buy it for you. The person who doesn't care about you will not buy anything if you say, "Remember to buy a gift for me.".
6. People who care about you will not say that they are busy with their work as a reason. People who care about you do not mind saying: I love you, I miss you, people who care about you do not care what you want, people who care about you will think of many things for you that you would not have thought of. Care is a kind of care, care is a nagging, care is a habit, no longer care, your heart will know first, because, A woman's heart is very sensitive. I hope that people who care about others can also care about themselves. The heart is beautiful, and things are also beautiful.
