It is not necessarily true that a girl does not care, which may depend on her tone and situation.
Sometimes, girls may use "don't care" to cover up their true feelings, such as their disappointment, anger or sadness. In this case, she may be just saying irony, expressing her dissatisfaction or pretending to be indifferent.
However, if a girl is really expressing her views or attitudes, then she may really not care if she says she doesn't care. For example, she may feel that something is unimportant or unworthy of attention, so she chooses to express her feelings of indifference.
To judge whether a girl doesn't care about the truth, she needs to consider the specific situation and context. If possible, try to understand her true thoughts and feelings so as to better understand her attitude.
Boys should pay attention. Girls' careless words contain too much information. If we don't pay attention, we may offend her accidentally. So we should be careful and careful not to offend girls.
First of all, the girl said that you don't care. Maybe the girl thinks that you don't care about her enough and don't care about everything about the girl. For example, she did a good job of dressing up before going out today and wanted to get a compliment from you. However, you just said perfunctorily that it was OK. You didn't look up, and you knew it was OK. Girls look at such small details, So he or she thinks you don't care about her. In fact, all she does is for you. In order to let you see the most beautiful of her, you must pretend to care about her, carefully look up and down, and seriously tell her that you are beautiful today, so that she won't feel that you don't care about her.
Secondly, what the girl said didn't care is that you didn't care. For example, you two talked until midnight, and he said he was sleepy and wanted to sleep. Then you went back to him. Go to sleep, and I played games. At this time, she would think you really didn't care about her, because when she said she wanted to sleep, she wanted to wait for your words. Good night, Instead of sleeping, if you say good night, she will think you care about her, and you should not tell her that you played games, because she will think that in your heart, games are more important than her, and you really don't care about her.
Finally, this is the most important point. Girls need to be cared for, taken care of, and helped when she needs help. I wish her a hand and let her feel that she is still dependent. I am not so weak. So, when a girl says that she has troubles, she must find a way to help him solve them. Even if she can't do it and can't help, you should say some warm words to comfort her, so that she will feel that even if you can't help her, you are always standing beside her and supporting her. Instead of when she says she is worried, you are silent and have no idea to help him solve the problem. He will think that you don't care about her, because if you care, you won't stop helping her.
In fact, girls are not so complicated. They just want to rely on each other. They can give themselves a shoulder and a few words of comfort when they are in trouble and helpless. That's enough.
It is difficult for girls to answer the question whether they care or not, because girls' ideas and expressions are usually more complex and subtle than boys'. Generally speaking, there are two situations when girls say they don't care:
1. Really don't care: girls may express a really indifferent attitude for some reasons, which may be because they are more rational or can control their emotions. In this case, they really don't mind what you say or do, and won't be angry or disappointed.
2. Pretend not to care: Girls may sometimes show indifference because of self-esteem or face problems, but they really care. In this case, if you can see through their disguise and give them some attention or care, they will feel very happy and satisfied.
It is necessary to judge whether a girl really doesn't care or pretends not according to the specific situation. If you are not sure, you can try to further communicate with girls and find clues from their words and behaviors to understand their real thoughts and feelings.
