There is no fixed time for feelings to fade after separation. This depends on many factors, such as the reason for the separation of husband and wife, the communication and contact between the two parties during the separation, the nature of the relationship between husband and wife, and the way in which the two parties deal with emotional problems.
In some cases, if the husband and wife maintain close contact and communication, mutual understanding and support during the separation, the feelings may gradually recover and become stronger. In other cases, if the couple lacks communication, mutual understanding, and even blames and attacks each other during their separation, their feelings may gradually alienate, or even break down.
Generally speaking, if the separation time is too long, the feelings between husband and wife may gradually fade. However, this is not absolute. If both husband and wife maintain positive communication and contact, mutual understanding and support during separation, the feelings may gradually recover and become stronger. However, if the couple lacks communication, mutual understanding, and even blames and attacks each other during their separation, their feelings may gradually become estranged.
Therefore, the length of separation is not the only criterion to judge whether the relationship between husband and wife is fading. Whether the feelings between husband and wife become weak or not, it is also necessary to consider the treatment of both husband and wife during the separation period, as well as the influence of both parties' personality characteristics and other factors.
How long will the relationship disappear?
1. Separation is a problem that many couples will encounter more or less before they live together. Generally, their feelings will gradually fade after they live apart because they have no contact. Generally, couples who live apart for more than three months will slowly separate from each other's lives. In fact, feelings are a habit in many cases. If they live apart for a longer time, the emotional crisis will become more serious, Of course, there are many specific emotional problems, which cannot be generalized.
2. Sometimes distance is not beauty, but estrangement. Therefore, separation from each other's life for a long time gives each other a great chance to do things beyond their boundaries in daily life. Therefore, couples should try to avoid separation in life. We should try to overcome these difficulties, whether it is for emotional reasons, or for work, life and other reasons, Don't wait until there is a real emotional problem before you know how to fix it.
Can a couple live apart for two years?
1. If you want to recover, there must be opportunities. If couples want to recover because of emotional problems that lead to separation, they should actively face these problems, rather than solve them through separation. Marriage problems can not be solved all the time, which will eventually lead to marriage breakdown. So if you want to recover, you still want to take the initiative, Find out the root cause of the problem and seek solutions.
2. If the reason for the separation of husband and wife is that the woman makes a mistake, then the initiative lies in the man. The relationship between husband and wife before is not only emotional, but also responsible. If the man is out flirting, the family happiness will be broken. If after the event, men can be very sincere in their attitude to admit their mistakes and correct their mistakes, women will be moved. At this time, once the woman is soft hearted and forgives the man, the family is still a happy family. So the couple separated for two years. If this problem is found, it can be recovered.
3. When marriage occurs, it is very likely that two people will be responsible for two people and make mistakes at the same time, leading to separation, which is also very common. However, as long as two people can calmly think about their own mistakes, and they have a deep emotional foundation, it is easy to repair both sides to apologize and understand each other, and both people can correct their own mistakes. Such a couple will get back together after separation. Even if they live apart for two years, this relationship will be reunited.
Hazards of separation:
1. Loss of trust
More and more people are suspicious. The two cannot meet for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will think wildly after a long time. Finally, curiosity will develop into distrust, and slowly begin to doubt each other.
2. More and more contradictions
Communication is the basis for maintaining a good marriage. In communication, 30% is oral expression and 70% is body language.
3. Let children not have enough sense of security
The growth of a child needs the care of both parents. During the period when a child's sense of security is established between the ages of one and three, parental companionship is particularly important. At this time, the absence of either party will have a lifelong impact on the child.
4. Feelings are fading
A person has lived for a long time and gradually become a habit. When he wants to rely on, there is no one beside him, when he wants to accompany, and when he wants to talk, there is no one beside him.
5. Easily involved by a third party
Two people can't be together, but the feelings always need an exit. When one person is willing to care about himself, the libra will inevitably tilt.
