There is no fixed answer to how long a separate bed marriage can last, because there are many influencing factors, such as feelings, personality, and actual conditions. Some couples may choose to sleep in separate beds to improve their marital relationship, which can help them better rest and relax, and may also enhance their sense of intimacy. Other couples may find that sleeping in separate beds increases the distance and indifference between them, leading to the deterioration of their marriage relationship. The impact of sleeping in separate beds on marital relationships varies from person to person.
How long a split bed marriage can last depends on the specific situation between the husband and wife. If couples have good communication and understanding, or choose to sleep in separate rooms because of living habits, work and rest time and other problems, and respect and understand each other, and maintain communication, this state will not have too much impact on feelings. However, if sleeping in separate rooms is due to the cold war, quarrels and other reasons, or the time is too long, it may have a greater impact on the feelings of both parties. Therefore, if couples choose to sleep in separate rooms, they should always pay attention to and adjust their relationship to ensure that such changes will not have a negative impact on their feelings.
The husband and wife separated for more than three months and then lost their relationship.
If couples live apart for more than three months, their feelings will begin to fade. Has begun to separate from each other's lives. I will get used to it. It's the same without him. Then the emotional crisis will become serious.
It is often said that distance produces beauty. But it is not particularly suitable for married life. In this way, there will be a lack of communication between husband and wife. As a result, the final opinions were not unified and there was nothing to say. This is an inevitable problem after separation.
Family relations are in a mess
The couple can't get on well with each other, which makes people around you nervous. The other party's family will also feel headache because of this. The marriage is in an extremely unstable state, and even a slight carelessness will make you two separate and let go. More importantly, it will also leave a psychological shadow for your children, because growing up in an environment where parents do not love, children will not receive the care they deserve, and their inner world will be defective. Moreover, because of your estrangement, the child will not care about others when he grows up, because he has never seen "mother cares about father, father loves mother."
Cause your parents to reject each other
It is true that parents love their children. When you see that your husband and wife relationship is not harmonious, your parents will also worry about it. They should be old enough to enjoy their lives, but they have to worry about the younger generation day by day. Even because of your problems, you may have a quarrel with the other party's parents. It was originally a family relationship, but now it has become incompatible, which is very sad. Therefore, even for the sake of parents, you should try your best to save this relationship.
Facilitate the intervention of a third person
As your relationship has gradually faded away and you have been unable to get the other's love for a long time, when a caring and considerate person appears around the other person, his heart will feel like a timely help. At this time, he is the most easily moved moment. As long as the other person is slightly better to him, your relationship will be ruined. Since then, they have been scattered and can no longer be picked up.
Will turn you into enemies
The two people who once loved each other sincerely, because their feelings for each other have disappeared, their demands on that person will become higher and higher, even a little picky. In your opinion, what they used to make you happy is also so unbearable and disgusting, so when your relationship with them drops sharply, it will also increase the value of hatred, and finally, It's true that even meeting has become a very painful thing.
Bring troubles to others
Because you often quarrel, often because of some trivial things, no matter how much people around you advise, even if the advice is harsh, they also feel bored with that person, so they can't listen. But the entanglement and dispute between you are endless, and the people around you are really tired. Persuasion is not the only way to make your trouble worse. So sometimes, quarreling is not a matter for two people, and it will also make friends around suffer.
Marriage ends
Although for some reasons, you two still try your best to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, not to say to take care of each other as usual, because you can't do it now, but at least for the sake of family and children, you both wear masks of disguise and try to play their roles. But such a relationship is always hypocritical, and the love you disguise is also rigid and lifeless. Although you know well that you can "make do" like this, think about how long it will be, and how long you can be so muddled for a lifetime.
Recommended methods to increase intimacy between husband and wife:
1. Communication and listening: good communication between husband and wife is the basis for establishing intimate relationship. Take time to listen to each other's thoughts, feelings and needs, and express your thoughts and feelings. Through sincere communication, the understanding and trust between husband and wife can be enhanced.
2. Mutual support: In daily life, mutual support is an important factor to enhance the intimacy of husband and wife. Care for each other's needs and wishes, and provide emotional support and encouragement. Face difficulties and challenges together, support and help each other.
3. Keep close contact: close contact is an important way to enhance the intimacy between husband and wife. Physical contact, including hugging, kissing, hand in hand and so on, can increase emotional closeness and intimacy.
4. Common interests and activities: finding common interests and activities, participating in sports, travel, watching movies, etc. together can enhance the interaction and common experience between husband and wife, and deepen the emotional connection.
