When there are problems in the relationship between husband and wife, the following five manifestations may occur:
1. Lack of communication: If couples are unable to communicate effectively or are no longer willing to communicate, it may lead to estrangement. This lack of communication may lead to deeper misunderstanding and estrangement between each other.
2. Lack of respect: If couples lack mutual respect or no longer respect each other's opinions and feelings, the relationship may break down. This lack of respect may lead to more and more frequent contradictions and conflicts between them.
3. Lack of support: If couples lack mutual support or no longer support each other's ideas and decisions, it may lead to estrangement. This lack of support may lead to less trust and dependence between each other.
4. Lack of passion: If there is no passion and romance between husband and wife, the relationship may become dull. This situation may lead to the gradual indifference of the feelings between each other, and even a sense of boredom and fatigue.
5. Frequent quarrel: If couples often quarrel or blame each other, it may lead to the breakdown of the relationship. This situation may lead to more and more intense contradictions and conflicts between them, or even irreconcilable differences.
Couples who can't survive may lack communication, respect, support, passion and quarrels. If these situations occur, it is recommended to take measures to communicate and repair in time to avoid further deterioration of the relationship.
How long will the couple have no feelings during the cold war
1. Couples who have been in the cold war for more than a month can no longer retrieve each other in life. The long-term cold war will lead to a stalemate between you. You dare not open your mouth and he dare not guess your mind. This is the most difficult situation to face. Since you still want to live together, you should learn to quickly end the cold war and understand each other's thoughts.
2. Couples who have no feelings living together also suffer from each other. Long term emotional and physical torture is a pain for every couple. Don't let your cold war last too long. If you have more tolerance for each other in your life, what can you lose. After all, when you smile like a family member, he will also give you a smile. When you show your tenderness to the other half, you will find that the person is also treating you better and better.
In the marriage life, every couple, when they just got married, wanted to stay with each other for a lifetime; But on the road of marriage, it will not always be smooth. There are many times when there are contradictions and cracks between two people because of some things; In some cases, the feelings between husband and wife will not be completely broken; However, there are some situations that will definitely make it impossible for two people to survive; When two people cannot survive, there are some obvious performances; What are the five manifestations of a couple's inability to survive?
1、 Not only is it noisy every day, but it also moves
In the marriage life, between husband and wife, because the growth environment and ideas of the two people are different from childhood to adulthood, their views on a matter will be different, and they will be different; This is normal, but we should understand and tolerate each other; If the husband and wife are together and not only quarrel every day, but also hit people and play rough, then such a husband and wife can not go far; Because no woman can accept being beaten and scolded by her lover every day; Because many women have been spoiled by their parents since childhood. How can they accept their men's cruel treatment.
2、 Long term separation without normal married life
Couples live together all their lives and maintain the emotional bond, that is, they must live a normal married life; People are all flesh and blood people and need energy release; If two people live apart for a long time, they cannot get energy release; Naturally, people will feel uncomfortable and unhappy; There are many times, but also hold out the disease; So in such a situation, the husband and wife are far away from each other, and it is impossible to go far; In the life of husband and wife, if two people cannot get physical satisfaction, one day they will go their separate ways and become strangers; This is the most helpless thing on the way of married life.
3、 Never communicate, endless cold war
In the marriage life, there are many things between husband and wife, which need communication to be resolved; If two people are together and there are many things that cannot be satisfactorily handled, then naturally there will be no solution; There is always an endless cold war between two people, so it is a particularly helpless thing for two people to live in this world; If two people are together and have reached a stage where there is nothing to say, then there is no difference between them and a stranger; In this case, divorce is only a matter of time.
4、 One of them really fell in love with others
True love is unforgettable and cannot be controlled; In a person's heart, as long as you really love a person, then the other person is everything, is all, is the world; One person's heart, with the existence of another person, no matter how much they pay for each other, they are willing to do it; Between husband and wife, if one of them really loves another person outside marriage, then such marriage will not go far; Because the person who really loves must pay all his own and give up his heart for the people outside marriage; At this time, it is a normal thing to lose everything; It is a matter of course that two people go their own way.
5、 If the other party has something to do, show the hand and watch
When husband and wife live together, they are a whole; For two people, it is a family affair; But if couples live together, men's affairs are men's affairs, women's affairs are women's affairs, then such couples will not live together for long; Because I have shown my hand to the people I love, what's the meaning in the future life; Both of them divide each other and treat each other as strangers; Then such a husband and wife life has no meaning.
The five manifestations of a couple's inability to survive are the most typical, but there are also many cases where they cannot survive; However, since we are destined to be husband and wife, we should care about each other and understand each other; If you are destined to be together, you must cherish it; To manage marriage, we need to pay attention to methods; But the key point is whether we can tolerate it or not; If you want to live a happy life all your life, you have to be patient with each other; The good days are managed, while the bad days are destroyed by themselves; Therefore, all couples should take care of it and cherish it.
