You married an honest man. Many people envy you and think that you have found a good man, but you feel that you are useless all your life.
Although he doesn't speak sweet words and create surprises and romance, he has the quality of reassuring. He will not go out to fool around, cheat his feelings, or be attracted to other women. His heart only has you, his tenderness and love have given you.
But you think this kind of life is boring. No surprises, no romance, no passion. The freedom and space you want, more passion and happiness can't be satisfied. You don't want to deny that he is good, but you also know that your feelings are equally important.
You may not be a bad woman, but you are eager for a richer and freer life. However, you must also admit that choosing divorce will bring great harm to your husband. This decision is not the only one. You can try to communicate with him in depth and find solutions to problems. Maybe you can create a richer and more satisfying life together.
It may be that he has been cheated by shrewd men, and wants or does not believe that shrewd men have no sense of security. Nowadays, many women want to marry honest men. Women think honest men are honest themselves. And honest men will be good to women and loyal to her. Some people say that a man who is too honest is not only bad, but also can't marry. Why is this? Honest men are good. Isn't it better to be too honest? In fact, this is different. If a woman finds a man who is too honest. Then I will regret the torture and even the pain in the future.
A man who is too honest cannot marry
Men who are too honest cannot marry: men who are too honest are far from being as good as they think. On the contrary, such men are disgusting and troublesome. The man is too honest to say that his mind is weak. He doesn't have any idea. Once he is sure, he will be dead. So if you make him misunderstand something, he won't listen to your explanation. Moreover, men who are too honest don't talk much, and they express themselves either by beating or scolding. A man who wants or is too honest will not be romantic and will not surprise you. Even if he wants to surprise and romance you, he does not know what to do. So your life will be very monotonous and boring. In the end, too honest men are easy to be bullied.
Too honest Why
What's the reason for being too honest? Men are too honest. There are advantages and disadvantages, but in general, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. So many people would say that a man who is too honest can't marry. In fact, we can't blame him for being too honest. There are also reasons why men become like this, for example, they have been severely hurt. He used to be shrewd and smart, but he became honest after being severely taught. Maybe he has been like this since he was young. Not all men are smart and shrewd. Some men are diverse, so it really can't blame men.
"Why do women nowadays refuse to marry honest people? There are three reasons". Let's have a look
Reason 1: "Honest man, face saving and stubborn"
The most obvious disadvantage of an honest man is that he is very face saving and stubborn. When you first met him, you just thought he was simple and simple, didn't like talking, and didn't want to accept new things. But if you spend a little more time together, you will find that his shortcomings and stubbornness are innate, and no one can change him.
The more honest a man is, the more he loves face. He is stubborn and has male chauvinism. He can't do some things but says beautiful things in front of his wife, saying that he can. Where does he persist? He doesn't listen to his wife's advice, but also listen to others' opinions. He sticks to his own ideas, no matter right or wrong.
When a woman marries a man like this, he doesn't listen to your advice on how to communicate normally. This stubborn man loves face and always puts face first. There is a gap between each other, and there is bigotry in living together, which will lead to emotional discord and break your heart.
Reason 2: "Honest men do not like communication and like to avoid problems"
Women choose honest men to live. If you have a good character and like to follow him, you can certainly get along well with him. Once there is a contradiction, he does not like communication, and is always sulky.
Honest men, lacking a responsibility, like to run away from problems, like to be in a daze alone, or sit on the sofa playing with mobile phones, cold and violent to you, do not talk to you, in the eyes of outsiders, marry honest men, and there is no quarrel in life. Only the woman who gets along with him can understand how much she has suffered.
When two people quarrel in life, an honest man does not like to communicate with you. When he encounters problems, he will escape, do not want to face them, and will not admit his mistakes. Even if he is bullied by others, he will not stand up and say a fair word, let alone protect you. He has no man's responsibility, no courage, and is always submissive.
Reason 3: "Do not strive for progress, and be comfortable"
Women do not want to marry an honest man because he is too honest and keeps his duty. The man who accepts his duty is very conservative in life and career.
The current situation of ease, like stability, life is unchanged, and it is enough to earn two or three thousand yuan a month. He does not want to make progress, and has no plan for the future. How can a man give you happiness? He is afraid of hardship and fatigue.
If you ask him to try to change, learn to do business, and live a better life, but you refuse to do so, or you suggest that he change his job, so that his income will be higher, and he does not want to do so. He likes to stay comfortable in the current situation of ease, afraid of suffering, not striving for progress, dare not try, and fear of failure all his life.
As for the above three points, women should understand why they don't marry "honest men". Marrying honest men may not reap happiness. Although honest, these men slowly consume your youth and love after marriage, leaving you the best age, without passion, and suffering from grievances. Happiness is far from you.
