There are benefits and potential risks for a very smart woman to be a wife.
Benefits:
1. Smart wife helps family decision-making: she has excellent ability to analyze and solve problems, and can provide an important perspective and thinking for family decision-making.
2. Smart wife can provide more opinions: she has her own opinions on various topics, which helps to increase communication and understanding between husband and wife.
3. A smart wife helps children's education: if she is smart and has educational background, she may have a positive impact on children's education.
Potential risks:
1. A smart wife may have higher expectations: she may have higher expectations of her partner, which may bring pressure to her partner.
2. A smart wife may be more independent: she may be more inclined to pursue her own career and life goals, which may affect the interaction and intimacy between husband and wife.
3. A smart wife may have higher standards: she may have higher standards for her partner's behavior, which may make her partner feel stressed and frustrated.
Therefore, whether to choose a smart woman as a wife depends on your own situation. If they can establish good communication with her, respect, trust and tolerance, then they can jointly create a happy marriage life.
Many men hate smart women. In fact, they just hate that they are smarter than themselves, so that they rob themselves of the dominant position in the relationship. Therefore, as long as women do not affect their own status and seize the right to speak as men, the smarter they become, the better they will be for themselves, which is equivalent to an extra "virtuous wife". So in a broad sense, a woman with wisdom must be suitable for marriage. There are many advantages here.
First, be able to solve problems for lovers
As the backbone of the family, men usually bear most of the economic pressure of the whole family and deal with external affairs. The more they reach their forties and fifties, the more they feel powerless, because their career development has stagnated at the moment, which means that their income level has reached the upper limit, but the burden on their families has not eased at all, but there are signs that it is getting heavier and heavier. For example, the house loan and car loan should be paid back. When the child goes to college, the tuition and living expenses should be paid. When parents get old and often get sick, they should try their best to cure them. Think about it, it's a big expense. So we can see that men are extremely bald at this stage. They worry about how to make money every day.
If women can play more "advice" responsibilities in the whole family, then the burden on men will undoubtedly be much lighter. For example, she guides her husband to develop sidelines, and helps him share his advice and suggestions in foreign affairs. Or they can develop their own business to relieve the family's financial pressure. From these aspects, marrying a wise woman can greatly relieve the pressure on the husband, with only advantages and no disadvantages.
Second, be more considerate of your lover
Think about it, "wisdom" means more careful thinking and more mature thinking. In fact, this kind of person is far more sensitive than expected. She can quickly detect some changes in others. It is also easier to understand and understand others. In marriage, if you marry such a smart wife, your husband will be more relaxed and happy. Because of her troubles, confusion, and pressure, she can feel it clearly, and will timely care about herself, understand herself, and find various ways to help herself.
To be a smart woman in marriage, her family will be happy.
【1】 Smart women pretend to be "muddleheaded" in everything. Whether between husband and wife, or between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; Whether it is sister-in-law relationship or sister-in-law relationship, smart women can open one eye and close one eye, and can pretend to be "confused" in everything.
【2】 Smart women don't control men. Many women try to tie their husbands firmly to their belts, but the more they do, the more they can't hold on to love. Smart women will leave enough room for their men.
【3】 Smart women are good at doing housework. Smart women have a pair of hardworking hands, do housework without complaint, and keep everything in order in the family. Let the husband work in peace to earn money.
【4】 Smart women love to dress up. No matter how good a woman is, if she loses her face after marriage, she will lose her value in the eyes of men. A smart woman will always pay attention to her appearance, dress appropriately and beautify appropriately.
【5】 Smart women are good at coaxing men. Many women always treat themselves as children and let men coax them. In fact, men are strong in appearance and weak in heart. Smart women will coax their men as children and give more love to men.
【6】 A wise woman will be filial to her parents in law. Many marriages have failed due to the deteriorating relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. A smart woman will treat her mother-in-law as her parents, but she is not as wayward and lazy as she is in front of her parents.
【7】 Clever women are tolerant of men. A smart woman will unconditionally accept her partner, including her husband's minor problems. The important thing is to deal with the big and small things in life.
【8】 Smart women don't keep up with others. Smart women know how to be content, and never compare with others. Some women always envy others for eating well, dressing well and living well. Seeing another woman buy a good bag and jewelry, they always clamor for men to buy it. If they can't satisfy themselves, they will complain. As time goes by, the relationship between husband and wife becomes weaker in comparison.
【9】 Smart women are good at thrift. It is often said that nine out of ten women are stingy. Women who are good at caring for their families are good at frugality, never spend a penny carelessly, and know that "good steel is used for cutting edge".
【10】 Smart women are not dependent. Generally, women are financially dependent on their own men, so they are pushed around by their husbands. Smart women, on the basis of not delaying "looking after their husbands and educating their children", will also have their own career to make themselves economically independent.
