It should be pointed out that it is not correct to link women's marriage with their innocence. A person's marital status should not be determined only by their personality traits.
There may be many reasons for poor marriage, which may be due to the lack of appropriate social opportunities, fierce competition in the marriage market, personal preference for choice and other issues. At the same time, women's marital status cannot be simply attributed to their simplicity. Simplicity is a positive quality, but not all simple women will marry poorly, and vice versa.
In addition, it should be noted that marriage is a complex relationship involving mutual understanding, respect, trust and commitment between two people. The success of marriage depends not only on the simplicity of women, but also on the personality, values, living habits and other factors of both sides.
Therefore, we cannot simply attribute women's marital status to their simplicity. Everyone should be treated equally and should not be labeled or classified. We should respect everyone's choices and decisions and strive to create an equal, inclusive and harmonious social environment.
What girls who marry well have in common:
1. I am also very strong
Emotion itself is a bit ethereal, and men are sometimes unreliable. Women should develop their real skills. No matter how they change, they can solve the problem through their own strength. When you become stronger, you will attract more powerful people. It is normal to marry well.
2. Keep a stable attitude and don't lose your temper
When a woman's mentality is stable, the whole person will feel calm and not easy to get angry. When a situation occurs in marriage, it will be better to deal with it without panic. For women who have a good attitude and do not publish randomly, men like to get along with them very much. There is no pressure to get along with them. A good attitude will also be passed on to each other.
3. Have their own things, know how to choose
When men have no money, women want men to have money. When men go out to make money! I also feel that men don't have time to accompany themselves, and they don't love themselves anymore. Both fish and bear's paw can't have their cake and eat it again. We should be tolerant of men. Men who make money outside are full of devotion. They are tired enough. They just need to love them when they return home.
4. Don't complain
Many people feel that their life is cursed. In fact, life itself is a curse. Everyone is cursed and is desperately trying to earn what they want. The peaks and valleys are always met. When people complain, they will have a negative energy. People who listen to them will also become complaining. If they live in complaining all the time, the days will really get worse. As a girl, even if men are at a low point, don't complain, encourage them more, and express that they can work together with him to face the current dilemma. A girl who is positive and can find solutions to any problems will always give men a strong force.
Most women who can't marry well have the following three common characteristics.
1、 Like to live a life of drifting with the tide, and enter into marriage without careful consideration
Some women lose their heads when they fall in love. At the beginning of love, they only rely on their feelings and look at their faces, completely ignoring the other party's three views, quality, ability, family and other things. They feel that they have everything when they have feelings, and then they naturally enter into marriage.
Women like this generally like to live a life of drifting with the tide and enter into marriage without careful consideration.
After getting married, she found that the man and his family had many unsatisfactory things. Then there were many conflicts and quarrels between them. The quality of life and marriage were low. At this time, the woman began to regret that she was so unlucky and married so badly.
In fact, her casual choice of partners before marriage doomed her to a great possibility of unhappy life after marriage. Because the quality of carefully selected things may not be particularly perfect, and there may also be inferior products. However, it is much safer than choosing one with eyes closed.
It is certain that your carelessness in choosing your life partner will one day affect your life.
2、 Don't care about matter
Is love important in marriage? Of course, it is important. Life is a matter of daily necessities. Everyone has to spend money on everything. Everyone is human. You can have romantic relationships, but you can't drink anything.
So I said to everyone responsibly: "Too much emphasis on material things, completely ignoring the feelings of both men and women may cause problems in marriage, but I highly agree with the concept of" having love and drinking enough ". As long as there is love, beggars on the street can take home". In fact, the final destruction of this concept of marriage is doomed to be your own life.
There is a kind of woman who has a high regret rate after marriage, that is, the man who loves before marriage and doesn't care about material matters, men's ability, work and family circumstances.
A man can have a lower starting point of his original family, but at least he cannot have too much family burden, healthy parents and a promising job.
His current income may not be so satisfactory, but it is better for him to have a strong personality, dual business online, goals and development potential.
To say the least, he must have the ability to support himself and share the normal expenses of a family, so that this marriage can be more stable and happy, which is true.
If a woman marries a man who is idle, does not want to make progress, and has no ability, she will be very embarrassed after marriage. After love has dissipated, she will only have to complain, because life is not a matter of words to feel happy. The sense of ease brought by material abundance is quite important.
3、 Don't know how to manage marriage
There is also a kind of woman who feels that she has married the wrong person after marriage, that is, the woman who is selfish, headstrong, domineering and does not know how to manage marriage.
As we all know, marriage is a matter for two people, and only by working together can we maintain a general balance. Even if the man has a good temper and a sense of responsibility, if the woman is too strong, completely regardless of the man's feelings, and does whatever she wants in marriage, she may be able to tolerate you for a while, but also for a lifetime.
After a long time, there must be conflicts and quarrels between two people. In the end, once the quality of marriage becomes completely incompatible with women's pre marital aspirations and expectations, they will complain about their poor marriage, but forget that the reason for the poor quality of marriage is that they have to bear most of the responsibility.
Holding the idea that looking for a husband is equal to looking for a father. The other party has to support you, love you, spoil you for a lifetime, lose your temper with you, and the other party will tolerate you infinitely. It is an extravagant hope that you want to be happy in marriage, because the other party is not your father, and he also needs the love and care of his wife.
