Although women may be willing to reunite after breaking up, this does not mean that reuniting is feasible or a wise choice. The compounding depends on the specific situation and the emotional state of both parties, as well as whether the reasons and problems leading to the breakup have been solved and improved.
If the reason for breaking up is due to serious problems such as personality incompatibility, poor communication or mutual injury, even if the woman is willing to get back together, the man should carefully consider whether he can really solve these problems and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.
In addition, if the breakup is due to the serious emotional changes of the woman, such as she no longer loves you or has new feelings, then the possibility of reunion is very low. In this case, the man should respect the woman's decision and not try to get back together, but try to accept and adapt to this new reality.
Compound is not a simple decision, which requires careful consideration and communication between both parties. If both sides can face the problems honestly and try to improve themselves, then it is possible to get back together. However, if the reasons and problems of breaking up have not been really solved, or serious emotional changes have occurred, then compounding may not be a wise choice.
Can women get back together after breaking up
1. Reasonably handle the calm period
If you can propose to break up, you may not have thought that it may be because you are careless and ignore his emotions. At that time, the man will take some actions to get forgiveness from the woman, because sometimes a woman just says something impulsively or angrily. At this time, you should give her enough time to release herself. When she is not angry and has a quiet space to think, you still have a chance to think about compound things.
2. Carry out secondary attraction
It is also OK for girls to break up just to test you, or just to get angry. At this time, men need to improve themselves and make themselves more attractive to attract each other. When you are good enough, you will have the ability to attract others. Sometimes your girlfriend will focus on you again.
3. Reasonably analyze the causes
Therefore, those who are in the middle of the relationship sometimes can't tell the difference. Therefore, we can use the mentality of onlookers to analyze the cause of the matter. Give both parties a chance to choose again. If they still think you are the one they love too much, they will regret it. At this time, it is possible to get back together.
Rescuing Strategies for False Breakup
As for the fake breakup, in fact, women still have hope for you. Most of the problems are caused by your relationship mode, which she can't accept or makes her extremely unhappy. So she will seek the opportunity to readjust the relationship mode by proposing a breakup. What you need to do is to cater to her needs and expectations.
1. What you need to do is to pursue.
You should take the initiative and sincerely do enough actions to express your feelings, let her know how much you value and persist in her and this relationship, let her know your determination and sincerity to recover, and let her regain confidence in this relationship. At this stage, you can show your love as much as you can.
2. Create a sense of security.
Of course, this is based on the success of the previous step. If your love moves her, and your behavior seems to return to love, but she refuses to get back together with you, then she may lack a sense of security. At this stage, she needs you to give her enough security from the outside.
There are two aspects of security:
① You should let her see your determination to mend your ways.
You need to let her know what she should do in the same situation in the future and what punishment you will get. For example, you can make some rules and regulations to let her feel your sincerity. The rules and regulations can be oral or written, which can make women feel confident and secure.
② Use actions to make a woman feel that you really love her.
You can not deliberately say a lot of nice words, but need to prove your love for her with practical actions. Let her know that no matter what she or you will become or what happens, you will always love her and stay with her. After doing this, her sense of security for your feelings will be established. Such feelings, as if with a solid foundation, will be more stable.
3. Change your way of getting along and communicating.
Whether it is true or false, it means that there are problems in their relationship, and these problems cannot be ignored. If you don't solve these problems, even if she is with you again now, she will still risk breaking up in the future. As I mentioned before, women are actually emotional, and many brothers like to communicate and get along with women with rational thinking, so women will feel that you are not at the same point. Therefore, changing the previous mode of communication and coexistence is an important guarantee to consolidate love after recovery.
