Both deletion and disconnection can be regarded as the expression of heartlessness, but which one is more heartless may depend on specific circumstances and personal feelings.
For deleting a friend, this may mean that the other person doesn't want to have any contact with you anymore and wants to break off the relationship completely. Such behavior may make people feel rejected, abandoned, injured or helpless. In some cases, deleting a person may be a necessary step to protect personal boundaries and security, such as removing people who are toxic or abusive to others. However, in some cases, the act of deletion may give people a feeling of helplessness and loss, because the other party does not give you an explanation or opportunity to solve the problem or improve the relationship.
For non contact, this may mean that the other person is no longer willing to keep in touch with you, but not completely cut off the relationship. Such behavior may make people feel neglected, neglected, excluded or lonely. Unconnected behavior may make people feel disappointed and troubled because the other party does not give you enough explanation or opportunities to solve problems or improve the relationship. However, compared with deleting friends, unconnected behavior may give people more opportunities to reflect, learn and grow.
Both deletion and disconnection can be regarded as the expression of heartlessness, but which one is more heartless may depend on specific circumstances and personal feelings. No matter what kind of behavior, it needs to be treated with a sensitive and sympathetic attitude, understand the feelings of the other party and respect their decisions.
Not replying to messages is more hurtful than blacking out messages. Because not replying to messages gives hope to others and makes them despair, it is better to let them despair at the beginning. It is similar to a person who makes them feel that there is still a little possibility. She may think about how to change herself and how to win back you, while another person who directly blacks out will make them die at one time, No longer give her hope, or let her come out at once.
The pain of a dilatory breakup will only grow, not decrease. The pain will only increase, not decrease. If you don't blackmail the other party, it will make the other party feel that you can't let go. You still have feelings for the other party. As long as she makes changes, as long as she is willing to work hard, as long as she asks you again, she will still be able to win you, so she may contact you again, Please come back to her.
But at this time, if you don't reply to her message, she will be sad. She will look forward to the message when she sends it, but she will be sad when she can't wait for your message. She will spend a long time thinking about a message, and she will think about how to send the message before you return. She may be unwilling to do other things because she is waiting for your message. She will lose sleep all night because of waiting, and she will be glad to think it is your reply because of the sound of her mobile phone.
So why not? If you really don't love, don't give the other person a chance, don't give the other person the possibility that still exists, just pull black, and tell her with action that you are really separated, you really don't love her, let her give up, let her give up once and for all. After that, if you really let go of you, it may be very painful, and she may cry bitterly, but what about that, She will come out soon and embrace her new life again.
When breaking up, you should be ruthless. Don't be soft hearted. Being soft hearted is not good for the other party. On the contrary, it is indirectly harmful to the other party. Because your soft hearted may make the other party hold hope for you. This will only make her lovelorn period longer and painful period longer and longer. So go ahead.
With the arrival of the 5G era, more and more people use chat platforms. Of course, chat platforms bring convenience to our lives, but also bring us some bad experiences. For example, when a couple has a conflict, during the cold war, when you want to send a message to the other party, you suddenly find that you have been blackmailed or deleted? So when boys pull girls black or delete them, which one is more unfeeling? Most unacceptable?
1、 The reason for blackout and deletion is love
If you want to say which kind of behavior is more unfeeling, it mainly depends on the boys' attitude towards love. For most men, love is not the most important thing. Behind love is responsibility, so boys will be more rational when dealing with love. He doesn't pull black and delete people who don't matter. Why only does he do this to the person he deeply loves? It's because of love. He wants to make himself try to forget.
2、 Compared with pulling black, deletion is more heartless
One day, when you send a message to the other party and are rejected, it means that he may have plans to leave, but the other party has not completely abandoned your idea, or the other party has not completely put down, so he will pull you black, calm and calm. The deletion is to clear everything about you. At this time, he does not want to have any relationship with you. Even if he is added as a friend again in the future, the original record will disappear.
3、 Which is the most unacceptable
Compared with LaHei, deleting is more difficult to accept, but more terrible than the two is that two people are clearly together, but their hearts have already gone their separate ways. When there are unsolvable contradictions between lovers, or even when they are stuck in a stalemate for a long time, if they can't find a better way to get along, this feeling of being broken will happen sooner or later. By this time, there are still so many people who can't accept it.
Therefore, neither blacking nor deleting is merciless. If you are still on the other party's list, the other party can't help thinking of you when they see your avatar. The most terrible thing is that you are clearly on his friends list, but no matter how you send messages, you are indifferent.
