There may be different standards and methods for judging whether a person is a villain. The following are some common characteristics:
1. Inconsistent: On the surface, villains may show enthusiasm, friendliness and integrity, but in fact they may not. They may say one thing and do another. They are insidious and cunning.
2. Be good at flattery: When associating with others, villains often use flattery to please others. They may praise others too much and ignore the true evaluation.
3. Love to take advantage: Lilliputians may pursue some small interests in life, such as seizing public resources and taking advantage of others.
4. To spread rumors and cause trouble: Villains may speak ill of others, fabricate rumors, or even attack others maliciously behind their backs.
5. To shirk responsibility: When faced with problems or mistakes, villains may shirk responsibility and avoid punishment, instead of assuming their own responsibility.
6. Deep mind: When dealing with problems, villains may use some tricks and means to achieve their own goals. They may do anything to hurt others.
These characteristics are not necessarily the performance of villains, and some people may only occasionally have these behaviors. In addition, to judge whether a person is a villain, you also need to consider the specific situation and personal values and other factors. In short, to become a person with quality, morality and responsibility, we should try our best to avoid these bad behaviors and establish good interpersonal relationships and social image.
Judge whether a person is a gentleman or a villain
1. The gentleman is forthright and says something to his face; The villain has ulterior motives and often slanders him behind his back. A gentleman is very broad-minded and magnanimous. He explains clearly that even if you want to express your opinion to a person, you will not talk about the length of others behind their backs and slander them. In the eyes of these people, we must be open and aboveboard, and everyone should not do anything dark. Such a person deserves deep friendship. On the contrary, villains often say good things to their faces, but often secretly say right and wrong; Pretend to be friendly, but often slander others behind their backs. Because these people have ulterior motives and are very good at pretending to be themselves and playing tricks behind their backs. You must stay away from such people so as not to release a bigger cold gun in the future and cause yourself greater damage. Four points are enough to judge whether a person is a gentleman or a villain
2. A gentleman is always strict in self-discipline; The villain likes to blame others. A gentleman will be very strict with himself and try to avoid his mistakes. When something goes wrong, you can always reflect on yourself and find the reason in yourself. For others, you can think in terms of others, understand and be considerate, be strict with yourself, and be lenient to others. Such a person is suitable to be a lifelong friend. Villains, never be too hard on yourself, be cruel to others. When there is a problem, always find others' fault first, and put the responsibility on others. Never reflect on your own mistakes and just blame others. This kind of person is very selfish and does not think about others. When you get along with such people, you will not benefit, only lose. So when you meet such people, you must stay away from them and never make friends.
3. The most important thing for a gentleman is love; A villain has only interests in his eyes. Gentlemen, always put the word "kindness" first. People are sincere. You can do anything for your friends or go through fire and water for your bosom friends. In the eyes of these people, friends are their own business. When a friend is in trouble, he will rush forward first. It's a privilege to make friends with such people.
The villain only has interests in his eyes, but the so-called kindness cannot be reflected in the villain. When friends are busy, they will find various excuses to escape; When a friend is in trouble, he will run first. For the sake of interests, you can betray and frame your friends. In the eyes of such people, interests are more important than anything else. To avoid it, we must stay away from such people.
4. A gentleman does not easily accept help from others. Once he accepts it, he will never forget it; The villain likes to accept help from others, and doesn't know how to repay after accepting it. Gentlemen, they never ask for help easily. They only like to help others, but they never want to cause trouble to others, but they can solve what they can. Once you ask for help from others, you will always remember and appreciate it. When you get some water from others, you will be rewarded. Such a person is most worthy of association.
But the villain is too lazy to do what he can. He always hopes to get selfless help from others, and always wants to keep ready. The most important thing is that you helped him, but he didn't know how to be grateful, and then he forgot and didn't know how to repay. Such ungrateful people can never get along with the truth, so it is better to stay away from it.
How to see that a man is a villain
【1】 Look at the motivation.
The so-called motivation is the starting point of his doing things. If the person's starting point is to do things for his own good, for his own small plans, for his own small interests, that is, the person is very selfish. For example, he said a lot of good things to you, not to flatter and praise, but to ask you to help him or work for him in this way, This belongs to a villain. If he praises and flatters you every day, he just appreciates you and doesn't use you. This kind of person is a gentleman. In fact, doing things in a gentleman's way can also achieve the goal of a villain, but it gives people a completely different feeling.
【2】 Second, look behind.
A person can pretend to be a gentleman to his face, but her real face will be exposed when she comes to the back. So if you want to see a person thoroughly, you can see clearly what he did, what he said, and what kind of ideas he made. To know these things, you only need to contact him more privately, The details of this person will be revealed soon, and it will take a lot of effort and cost to see a person clearly.
【3】 Third, look at the reflection.
The so-called reflex is the conditioned reflex. The conditioned reflex can best reflect a person's real state and inner world. For example, if there are some improper interests, you can even create such a situation yourself. Look at his reaction to property and improper wealth under the conditioned reflex, you will know what he thinks in his heart. It is clear at a glance whether he is a gentleman or a villain.
【4】 Fourth, look at practice.
The so-called practice is whether what he said and what he did are consistent. If he said and did one thing at a time, you don't need to do more contact with this person. Or when you deal with such people, you must be careful with yourself. You can't be a gentleman or a villain without moving? Maybe you can't see clearly in a short time. If you use your head, you can know what kind of person this person is.
【5】 5. Look at the station.
Standing position is also very important for a person. If he stands in the line of a gentleman, he is probably a gentleman. If he stands in the line of villains, he is probably a villain, which also conforms to the natural law that birds of a feather flock together. So from the perspective of his position, we can basically see where his inner trend is? Sometimes we can't believe our eyes. In fact, we are confused by his appearance.
