Making friends is based on mutual trust and support. If friends do not treat you sincerely or use you, you will feel lonely and disappointed.
However, this does not mean that all friendships are like this. Maybe your problems are temporary or related to specific friends. In this case, you can consider the following points:
1. Re evaluate your friendship. Do you really establish sincere friendship with them, or do they only appear when you need them?
2. Communicate your feelings. Talk frankly with your friends about your feelings and tell them that you think they are using you. This may help them become aware of their behavior and change their behavior.
3. Observe their reactions. If you think they don't care much about your feelings, or they don't take action to change their behavior, you may need to reconsider your friendship.
4. Find new friends. Don't lose heart. Find new friends and establish sincere friendship with them. You can join some interest groups, volunteer activities or join social media groups to expand your social circle.
The most important thing is not to give up hope and confidence in friendship. Most people cherish sincere friendship and are willing to spend a good time with you.
The relationship between friends should be one of mutual support, mutual help and mutual understanding. However, sometimes we also find that some friends around us do not really treat us, but want to get some benefits from us or use our interpersonal relationships. This kind of relationship is not true friendship, because it lacks sincerity and trust.
In real life, some people make friends not out of sincerity, but in the hope of obtaining some benefits or resources through friends. They usually use their friends' network or help to achieve their goals. This kind of behavior is very insincere, because it ignores the feelings and trust between friends.
Of course, there is no denying that some friendships are based on mutual utilization. It is not out of sincere love and appreciation between the two parties, but because the other party can provide some benefits or resources, or because the other party has some interpersonal relationships that can be used. This kind of friendship lacks sincerity and trust, which is unhealthy.
However, true friendship should be based on mutual respect, trust, support and common interests. Friends should care and help each other, sincerely listen to each other's voice, and share each other's happiness and troubles. Even when there are differences and contradictions, we should communicate and solve problems in a sincere manner.
Therefore, we should cherish the true friendship and stay away from those false friends. When making friends, we should pay attention to the quality and personality of the other party, rather than focusing on the benefits or resources that the other party can provide. In the process of maintaining friendship, we should always keep in touch, share each other's life and feelings, and support and help each other.
At the same time, we should also learn to recognize those false friends and avoid being used and hurt by them. If you find that your friends don't really treat you, you should terminate the friendship in time to avoid causing more harm and trouble to yourself.
True friendship is based on mutual trust, support and common interests. Friends should care and help each other and treat each other sincerely. If you find that your friend doesn't really treat you, you should terminate the friendship in time to avoid causing more harm and trouble to yourself.
