Isolated girls are not necessarily beautiful. Appearance is not the reason for being isolated. There may be many reasons for being isolated, including personal character, behavior, social ability, etc.
Some girls may be isolated because they are different or out of group, but that does not mean they are not beautiful. Everyone's appearance and personality are unique, and everyone has their own charm and value.
At the same time, even if a girl is beautiful, she should not be isolated. Beauty and ugliness are subjective evaluation criteria, and everyone has their own aesthetic views and preferences.
If a girl is isolated because she is beautiful, it may be because her appearance does not match her social circle, or because some people are jealous and prejudiced.
There are many reasons for being isolated, and appearance is only one of them. We should respect everyone's differences, not judge people by their appearance, nor exclude or discriminate against them because of their appearance.
The excluded girls are often excellent
【1】 The better you are, the more incompetent you will appear
Why do beautiful women have no friends? There is a vulgar answer, especially forceful and to the point, because your beauty will set off others as "pigs and dogs are inferior".
Those who are more popular with leaders in the workplace have strong ability, excellent behavior, are highly valued by leaders, and can do everything independently. On the contrary, no matter how hard other colleagues work, it is hard to get praise and attention.
In contrast, it reduces the enthusiasm of others. Subjectively, you don't want to hurt others, but objectively, this situation has formed. Some people even hope that you will make mistakes. The more lonely you are, the more helpless you will become. Like your colleagues, you will become "a kind of person" and will not be excluded!
【2】 Excellent people are often not sociable and easy to get along with
If the water is clean, there will be no fish. Excellent people are often lonely, born with their own aura, too focused on doing their own things, and disdain to close relations with colleagues.
For example, you said there was no time for the department dinner party; When your colleagues invite you to dinner, you say you are busy. Once or twice, you always make excuses. You always don't give others face, which makes you seem uncooperative. There is no need for others to always stick a hot face to your cold buttocks.
Although in your opinion, your time needs to be used to improve your own skills, learn to recharge, and refuse ineffective social interaction, your colleagues have done poorly;
The basic colleague relationship is not maintained, which inevitably makes the colleague think that you look down upon others, are too clear, and simply isolate you.
【3】 Not jealous of your ability, but hating your arrogance
In the workplace, everyone's ability is strong and weak. Some people's ability is strong, so strong that they are admired and admired by their colleagues. Because the poor is not a street, they can't be jealous naturally.
But you look arrogant and don't know how to keep a low profile. When a colleague makes a mistake, he points it out to his face and communicates with his colleague in a didactic tone. It seems that you are claiming "why don't you listen to me? You know my method is the best and don't use it".
In fact, you don't know that everyone has their own style and method of doing things. How can you force others to follow your own wishes? No matter how good and effective your method is, it will not be used by colleagues. Your attitude will only make colleagues more disgusted.
No matter how kind you are to help your colleagues, there will be no one to lead you. In fact, there are many such people. It will not be easy if you are capable of lacking the spirit of solidarity and cooperation.
