Although some women may not have girlfriends, this does not mean that they are not smart or have no social life. Some women may not want to develop a relationship with their friends for various reasons, for example, they may prefer to be alone, or they may have their own independent social circle and do not need to meet their social needs through their friends.
In addition, the friendship between women is not necessarily based on common interests and values. Some women may become friends only because they share similar personalities or appreciate each other, rather than because of common friends or social circles. Therefore, women's lack of girlfriends cannot be simply attributed to their ignorance or lack of social life. Everyone's social needs and preferences are different, and we should respect everyone's choices and interpersonal relationships.
Women must stay away from so-called girlfriends
1、 Always dig at you
We make friends in order to exchange our sincerity for each other's real intention. Especially in today's materialistic society, we need friends who can bring us positive energy. But a friend who always likes to tease you must not care about you in her heart. She ignores what you think and only cares about her own happiness. She will tease you for fun, even if you are unhappy, she will not stop, and will also dislike your stinginess. For such a girlfriend, a woman should not think that she is just straightforward. Who knows if she is scheming? So stay away.
2、 Too competitive
"Those who are close to each other will become the worst", "Birds of a feather flock together, birds of a feather flock together", all of which tell us an eternal truth: with what kind of person, you will become what kind of person. So, if you have a friend who always likes to show off with you and can't help but compare with one another endlessly every time you meet, then one day you will become like her, because no one can guarantee that you will not be affected by her. So please stay away from such friends.
3、 Always picking on you
When a woman makes friends, she must meet people who are willing to give you affirmation and encouragement, rather than friends who are always critical of you and attack your emotions and enthusiasm. When your so-called best friend is always picky about you, for example, when she says she is old fashioned for your new dress, and she says she is ugly when she says she has made up for your new bag, then this woman cannot be a true friend. Because you will never feel positive power when you are with her, women, please stay away from such a friend.
4、 I'm always taken care of by you
Whether it is family, friendship or love, it should be mutual. One party will pay blindly, and the balance of feelings will eventually tilt, until it completely collapses. Friends are also mutual, just like two people walking in the ice and snow, holding together can warm up. If your girlfriend always consumes your energy and never gives anything to you, then she must be selfish, and her relationship with you can only be maintained by your efforts. For someone who always consumes your best friend, please stay away!
Smart women should not choose the following ten types of women as girlfriends:
First, there are too many differences between them. The so-called "family match" not only refers to both husband and wife, but also their adaptation to their friends. For example, the differences in education and economic conditions should not be too big, otherwise, both parties will have pressure. There are too many cultural differences. If you say some words that the other party does not understand, it is contempt for her. People with low culture may think that the other party is too rude, has no common language, and is unhappy. The economic conditions are very different, which is also a painful thing. Those with poor conditions will have inferiority complex. Besides, they have no common time to chat with you, because she has to go to life. Even if you are careful, it may hurt her, and you will think that you are discriminating against her. If the economy helps her, she will feel pitiful and can't look up in front of you. Besides, The one with good conditions cannot always help her. After all, every family has its own difficulties.
Second, women with different aspirations. The so-called similarity of interests, the so-called "birds of a feather flock together, and people of a feather flock together," is the truth. Imagine that two people with different interests sit together, and you say that she is not interested, and you can't understand what she says, as if casting pearls before swine. In addition to embarrassment or embarrassment, this kind of friend is not a torture?
Third, women who are fussy. It's the most troublesome thing for a woman to care about every detail. She has to win everything, reason everything, and listen to her everything. Such a woman is terrible. It hurts to talk with her. Go along with her. She says you are useless and disobey her. She is honest everywhere, but we are not saints. What we say cannot be the universal truth, It will be hard for you to communicate with such women, so you should keep a distance from such women.
Fourth, sentimental women. As a sentimental girl friend, you will have a lot of trouble. You often sigh about this and that, and there are endless sad things. You should accompany her to shed a lot of tears. In fact, if you think about it, who doesn't face all kinds of troubles every day, why not be happy together? Why not face the future actively? Therefore, a cheerful and positive friend is worth developing into a girlfriend, but a sentimental woman who becomes a girlfriend will make you sentimental, make your life unhappy, and even often fall into a state of complaining about illness.
Fifth, women with strong jealousy. Some women are very jealous. They are afraid that you are better than her in some way. She sneers at your success and gloats at your failure. Your husband is stronger than her husband. She satirizes that you rely on men to eat, and deliberately seduces your man. What she says is to test your man's determination and whether he really loves you. Once your husband makes a fool of himself, She will defeat his reputation everywhere, even if you talk to a man or joke with him, she will tell you that the man is proud of influencing your husband and wife's feelings. You should never ignore such a woman.
Sixth, women who speak ill of others behind their backs. Some women speak ill of others behind their backs, analyze what others have said, add their own feelings, and embellish it. A casual word has become extremely bad in their mouth, which has nothing to do with the original intention. Moreover, these women are happy to chew the tongue of others. If someone gets rich outside, it must be tying up a fortune or prostitution; If someone is promoted, it must be that they have an affair with the leader; Someone married to Hong Kong, Macao, Taiwan or a foreigner, the man must be an old man In short, in their mouth, all people are bad, but she is a good person. Such women should never talk to them, let alone analyze others' words with them. Otherwise, your words will become their words. Therefore, such women can't even be ordinary friends, let alone girlfriends.
Seven is the woman who likes insinuation. Some women boast of their high level of speaking. They talk in a series of long sentences, which is not counted. The main reason is that they allude to insinuations. If they don't do this, they always feel uncomfortable, as if they don't show their level. When chatting with such a woman, we need to pay special attention and don't trap ourselves into it. Therefore, such a woman is not suitable for being a girlfriend.
Eighth, women whose marriage failed for their own reasons. Such a woman is the least worthy of being a girlfriend. She will speak ill of men in front of you all day long, but never say her own reasons. Especially those who cheat are likely to get out of your way, affect your views on her husband, and even doubt her husband for this reason. What's more, she can be afraid of is being influenced by her to become an emotional deviant, the so-called "those who are close to the pearl are red, those who are close to the ink are black", It's terrible to become a girlfriend with such a woman, and she may also envy your marriage and rob your man. Don't say your man is not determined. Under the temptation of women, any man may cheat. When you finally understand, it's often too late.
Nine is lustful woman. Lust is not only the patent of men. In today's increasingly better economic conditions, and in today's equal pursuit of love between men and women, many women's lustful characteristics are becoming more and more rampant. If they become friends with such women, they will either be spoiled by her, or your man will be seduced by her, if your man is handsome. Therefore, even if you become a girlfriend with such a woman, you cannot bring her home, nor can you introduce her to your man.
Ten are women who use men as springboards. In today's society, many women, in order to change their destiny and achieve success, often regard different men in different periods as springboards on their life path. If your girlfriend is such a woman, you should pay attention, especially if your man is an elite in the political or business circles, or a leader in a profession, or a winner in a field, Then she will try every means to approach your man in various names. Even if your man does not throw himself into her arms, he will also use your man to do things for her. In the end, you may let your man break the rules and stumble, and you will regret it.
