It is not entirely accurate to say that friends with better relations are more likely to break up with each other. Although intimate relationships are usually based on mutual understanding and trust, sometimes it is just because the relationship is too good and communication is more frequent that differences and contradictions may easily arise, leading to a break up.
In addition, sometimes people will share some private things or opinions with friends. If these information is leaked or improperly handled, it may undermine the trust between friends, leading to a break up.
However, it is not always because the relationship is too good. Sometimes, there may be other problems or differences between friends, such as different personalities, different interests, different values, etc. These factors may also lead to estrangement and breakup between friends.
The relationship between friends needs to be maintained and managed. If there are problems, they need to be communicated and solved in time to avoid irreversible consequences.
We all had a good friend who could share his joy and pain with us and spend a good time together. However, sometimes we will realize that this relationship is no longer the same as before. What is frustrating is that this friend gradually alienated us and finally broke up with us. Why is it easier for a better friend to break up?
High expectations
Our expectations for good friends are often very high. We hope that TA is our spiritual sustenance and can always accompany us. As a result, when TA fails to achieve what we expected, we will feel disappointed and frustrated, which also makes our relationship become tense and eventually lead to a breakup.
Not enough time
In modern society, people's pace of life is very fast. Work, study and family life occupy most of our time. Even good friends need time to maintain and consolidate their friendship. If we can't spare time to get along with TA, the relationship will be alienated due to the lack of communication.
Competitive relationship
Sometimes, there may be some kind of competition in our circle of friends. This competitive relationship makes our attention to our friends less sincere, and our attention may be more focused on ourselves than on our friends. This kind of relationship is difficult to maintain after all, leading to a break up.
Different outlooks on life
We and our friends may have different outlooks on life. When our goals and values change, friendship will also change. When our friends make decisions that we cannot accept, we will feel uncomfortable, which may affect our friendship.
Friends are a valuable resource that can bring us happiness and support, but the relationship between friends also needs to be constantly maintained. When there is a rift in our friendship, we need to take the initiative to make up for it. At the same time, we should adjust our expectations appropriately, and give ourselves and friends loose space and time to get along, so as to maintain good friendship.
