Playing hard to get is a kind of tactics, which was originally used to control the other party's behavior psychologically to make them act according to their own wishes. For some people, playing hard to get may not work, depending on their personal characteristics and circumstances. Here are some people who may be immune or ineffective to playing hard to get:
1. People with strong logic: some people pay great attention to logic and rationality, and they will not be influenced by emotions. For these people, playing hard to get may not have much effect, because they will analyze the situation and make decisions based on logic and rationality.
2. Those who have already seen through: Some people may have seen through this tactic, or have already had experience in dealing with it. For these smart and alert people, playing hard to get may not work.
3. Uncontrolled people: Some people are born with the ability of independent thinking and decision-making, and they are not easy to be manipulated or influenced by others. For these self-conscious and uncontrolled people, playing hard to get may not be applicable.
4. People with low trust: Some people may be suspicious of others and are not easy to trust others. For these people, playing hard to get may not work, because they will doubt your motivation and authenticity.
Playing hard to get is a tactic, but not everyone is easily affected by this tactic. Only by understanding the characteristics and conditions of the other party and flexibly applying tactics can we achieve better results.
The skills of women who are passionate about men
1. Make some reservations about your own affairs
Sometimes when there are objects that can be further developed, the two people should not talk about all their own things with each other when chatting, and they should slightly reserve their own things. The feeling of wanting to talk and stopping will make men more curious about you, which will prolong the time they spend together. Men will also be more active in the future, because women have many things they do not understand.
2. A proper sense of distance
The sense of distance is also very important. Don't let men think that women are really close. The easier it is to get men, the less they will cherish them. So the first sense of distance can not only make men respect you, but also make men more interested in you. However, this sense of distance should not be too strong. Don't be too distant. You must grasp this yardstick, or men may be scared away by your attitude.
3. Slap a sugar
Don't agree to every date request of a man. Choose one or two times as a rejection. But the rejection can't be too direct. You can find a reason, which is an excuse for not going on a date. Later, in order to express your regret for not being able to date with him this time, you will give him a small gift or something. This is called slapping a candy.
4. Connected but not overly connected
There is a moderate continuous continuity between two people. It is better not to break the contact between two people, but do not contact with ordinary friends at first sight, such as chatting all night. Excessive contact will make men feel that they are different from other people for women, but it is not good for men to feel this way from the very beginning. Sometimes it is better to slowly hook men.
Why do girls like playing hard to get
1. In love, girls are reserved, playing hard to get is also a kind of reserved, and it is also a way to show that they are attractive. It is the smart and cute side of girls.
2. Girls are shy, even if they like each other, they would rather not say that they can always have a crush on each other. Everyone wants to be chased. You know the feeling of complacency. Not only girls like to play hard to get, but also boys like to play. The premise of playing hard to get is that the other party likes themselves.
3. This is also a sense of security for girls. It is to prove her position in your mind. Some girls are like this. They hope that boys will spoil her and coax her. If they are not happy, they will make conflicts.
