Blackout and deletion may be an expression of giving up, but their meanings may be different.
Black pulling may mean that you don't want to have any contact with the other party, and you want to completely cut off the contact with the other party. This is a strong action, indicating that you really want to give up.
Deletion may also mean that you don't want to keep in touch with the other party, but it may not be as good as blacking. Deletion may be a mild action, indicating that you intend to give up, but there may be some lingering.
Whether it's blackout or deletion, it may indicate that you intend to give up. Which way is more representative of true abandonment may depend on the specific situation and personal feelings.
Compared with deleting, deleting is a real abandonment. Blackout and deletion both represent abandonment. Blacklisting refers to adding the other party to your own blacklist in the online world, which means that the other party no longer appears in your circle of friends or address book. The deletion is to completely remove the other person's contacts or chat records from your device.
Blacking out is a more slight form of giving up, because it only affects the other person's sense of existence on your social media, and does not affect your communication. Therefore, if you just don't want to see the other party's news or trends, blackmailing is a better choice.
Deletion is a more thorough abandonment. When you delete a person's contact or chat record, it is equivalent to erasing all information related to the other person, including chat content, pictures, videos, etc. This kind of behavior means that you have completely put down the relationship, will not think of each other, and will not have any contact with them.
Difference between blacking and deleting:
1. Send message: after blacking out, the boy can continue to send messages to you. If you are blacked out, the message sent to him will display "Rejected by the other party". After deletion, the boy cannot send messages to you.
2. After the chat record is blacked out, the chat record of the boy is still there. After deletion, the chat record disappears.
3. After restoring the blacklist of friends, you can release the blacklist and add it back to the other party for deletion. Only through account or group chat can you add it again on the surface. Deletion seems to be a more decisive way, but I think that the refusal to leave no way out is just a sign of being unable to put it down.
How to recover the person who wants to give up
1. Cultivate multiple interests and love
The so-called life needs a sense of ritual and romance. Enrich your life and make each other happy. Love cannot give up emotional life just for money.
2. Keep fresh
The most wonderful love is the beginning of acquaintance, but as time goes by, the freshness will gradually decline. However, the best way to improve freshness is to maintain a sense of mystery and leave more room for expectation.
3. Transpositional thinking
In the communication between men and women, because of different thoughts and thinking, men are more rational and women are more emotional, which will lead to men and women not being on the same channel. This is the beginning of many conflicts. From the perspective of the other party, it is easy to save a person.
4. Think about your mistakes
When we fall in love, we will find that the other party is wrong. In fact, they also have reasons to carefully reflect on many times. First find out their own reasons, and then correct them. For example, smoking will cause dissatisfaction of the other party. Give up smoking. If shopping will cause dissatisfaction of the other party, give up shopping.
