People who are isolated by the group but can survive usually have some specific characteristics and mental states.
1. Strong self-awareness and inner strength: Such people usually have clear self-awareness and self-confidence, can make independent judgments and decisions, and do not need to rely too much on the approval and support of others.
2. Adaptability and flexibility: They can quickly adapt to different environments and situations, and can flexibly cope with various challenges and difficulties.
3. Independence and autonomy: They do not like to be excessively restricted and interfered with. They can work and live independently and do not need to rely on others too much.
4. Positive attitude and optimism: They usually have a positive attitude and optimism, can see the benefits and positive aspects of things, and are not easily affected by negative emotions.
5. Establish support and trust relationships: They know how to establish support and trust relationships with others, and can find reliable people and resources to help themselves better cope with difficulties and challenges.
People who are isolated by the group but can survive usually have strong self-awareness and inner strength, adaptability and flexibility, independence and autonomy, positive attitude and optimism, and the ability to build support and trust relationships. These abilities can help them better cope with difficulties and challenges, maintain a positive attitude and state, and better adapt to different environments and situations.
I think this person must be strong, at least mentally capable of withstanding the loneliness of being isolated. The word "isolation" in life gives us the most direct picture of loneliness and loneliness. Most of them prefer to be alone and don't like to communicate with others. Their sense of collective existence is also quite low, and they don't even have many friends. They are often characterized as "heterogeneous" by people. But in my opinion, they are the real wise, the wise in action.
1. People who are alone are excellent
In life, some people always regard interpersonal relationships as the primary goal of their lives, and talk about "more friends, more outlets". It seems that making more friends is their whole life. WeChat has thousands of friends, but how many of them can help when they are really in trouble? What's the meaning of such social interaction? What's more funny is that they still laugh at those isolated people who have no friends.
Low quality social interaction is far inferior to high-quality solitude. A person who likes solitude can spend all his leisure time on improving himself. In life, we carefully found that many excellent people around always like to be alone. You can say that they are not sociable, but you have to admit that they are better than those who talk about friends. Maybe we outsiders think they are lonely, but they are not alone. They devote themselves to their favorite things, study hard, and live a refined life, just to make themselves like a commodity, and constantly improve their value. Can you say that people who work hard for themselves are lonely? They are the least lonely people. They are the best and worthy of our admiration!
2. Those who can stand loneliness are strong
Ordinary people are afraid of loneliness, of walking on the road alone, of eating alone, and of others' eyes on themselves. In fact, such thoughts are more concerned about others' opinions of ourselves. But as we grow older and wiser, we will find that the world does not care too much about ourselves. The so-called views of others in the past are actually very childish.
People who can tolerate loneliness always try to make the surrounding environment and people outside of themselves transparent, and do not care about others' opinions of themselves, and are not afraid of others' evaluation of themselves. Develop in the direction you like and live on your own stage. The ability tempered by such mentality can play a greater role in the future career development. Don't care about the outside world's view, and stand alone. Such talents are really strong.
The reason why excellent people are excellent is that they have always adhered to some excellent qualities, such as knowing how to add value to themselves, constantly input to themselves, strong action, concentration, and the most important spirit of persistence. Because the truth is in the hands of a few people, most people do not understand this truth, because they do not understand, do not agree with, the strength of both sides is a counterweight, Genius is unwilling to associate with most people. Change your personality, don't be too sentimental, don't look down on the other party or overestimate yourself, try to fit in. For example, what the other person says, follow his topic.
