People who can't read back may have different attitudes. Here are some possible reasons:
1. Busy or distracted: Some people may not reply to messages in time because they are busy or distracted. They may feel that it takes too much time or energy to reply to messages, or there are other things that distract their attention.
2. Not good at communication: Some people may not be good at communication. They may think that replying to messages is a difficult task, or they do not like to communicate through messages.
3. Social anxiety: Some people may suffer from social anxiety. They may feel that replying to messages is a challenge, or they are afraid of making mistakes or saying wrong things in communication.
4. Indifferent or uninterested: Some people may be indifferent or uninterested to the message. They may think that replying to the message is a boring thing, or they are not interested in the content of the message you send.
No matter what the reason is, we should respect the time and energy of others and try to communicate with them in a more effective and appropriate way.
Those who can't read back are busy and bored.
1、 May be busy
First, you should consider that the other party may be busy. In modern society, people's pace of life is getting faster and faster, and there are more and more tasks. Many times we are busy. When a person is busy with work or life, he may not have time or energy to reply to messages. This does not mean that he does not care about you or does not value your information, but he is unable to reply for the time being.
2、 It may be boring
On the other hand, some people may ignore your information because they are not interested in you or your information. In this case, they may choose not to read back, or reply to a short, less relevant message. This is not because they are malicious or rude, but because they think your information is boring or unimportant.
Chat skills:
1. Change "hahaha" to "hahaha" or "hahaha", which will make the whole atmosphere more relaxed.
2. Change "good" to "good~" or "good expression pack". Simply sending "good" will be a little cold, and it is difficult for the other party to figure out your mood. Adding an extra symbol or expression pack can quickly ease the atmosphere.
3. Don't just say "Are you there?" and then disappear when you just chat. The other person will feel puzzled if you don't know whether you want to borrow money or ask him for help. Either say something directly, or ask "Are you here?" and add something to find him.
The mentality of people who can't read back is to reject your good feelings, to reserve your dignity and inferiority, and to be overly rational about emotions.
1. Refuse your favor and keep your dignity
Generally speaking, "can't read back" refers to the attitude of girls towards boys in intimate relationships. Boys pursue girls they like and take the initiative to chat with girls every day. He is very enthusiastic and proactive. He always finds reasons and topics to chat with girls. But girls just don't like him. There is no way. The boy who dislikes him at the first sight, no matter how hard he works and how good his character is, girls are unwilling to spend too much time on him.
At this time, the girl is unwilling to reject the boy directly because she is afraid that it will hurt the self-esteem of the boy; She doesn't want to accept the contribution and initiative of boys, because she doesn't want to owe favors. Therefore, she can only let the boys "give up" by "cold treatment".
2. People with inferiority complex are overly rational about emotions
A person's inferiority is not terrible, because as long as he loves enough, he is willing to summon courage for love. Fear is that a person is inferiority and rational. His inferiority complex is mainly "internal", constantly suggesting that "no one will love me, and he does not really love me when he approaches me, but has a purpose". His reason is external: constantly compare, screen, and weigh advantages and disadvantages.
He will measure the "feasibility and cost" of being with the other party. If it is lower than his imagined state, he will give up. If the match between two people is high enough, they will give you a response.
